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MIDL 15min 04 / 20: Skill of Softening Into

by Stephen Procter

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New to MIDL? 15 Minutes of Mindfulness is an introductory series to the MIDL 52 Mindfulness Meditation Trainings. 4/20 is the MIDL Mindfulness Training of the 'Softening Into' skill used for Mindful Non-participation with experienced unpleasantness to train the Second MIDL Pillar of Softening Into. Practice daily for one week before moving to the next exercise Have a question? Insight Timer Group: MIDL Mindfulness in Daily Life with Stephen Procter. Private question? Send me a message.

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Transcript

Hello,

My name is Stephen Proctor.

During this mindfulness exercise we will be training the skill of softening into,

Relaxing into experience.

If you just start out taking a meditation posture,

Either seated or lying down.

And now gently take a deep breath in,

And as you're breathing out,

Allow yourself to relax.

Now widen your awareness throughout the whole of your body.

Relax your chest and your belly,

Allow your breathing to move freely.

Be aware of the full length of each breath as it moves in through the tip of your nose,

Through your chest,

Deep down into your belly,

And as it moves all the way back out again.

As you're being aware of the movement of the breath as it comes in and out of your body,

Start to notice an intentional tightness within the breathing or that you are holding within.

And now using slow deep gentle breaths,

I'd like you to soften into,

Relax into any tension you feel.

Gently take a slow deep breath deep into the belly.

With a slow and gentle breath out,

Allow any tension in your body to relax.

Slowly breathing in,

Slowly breathing out,

Relax your body even more.

Slowly in.

Slowly breathing out,

Allow your body to sink deeper and deeper into the floor.

Keep using your breathing in this way,

Slow deep gentle breaths,

And every time you breathe out,

Relax your body more and more.

Slowly in.

Slowly out,

Allow your body to relax.

Slowly breathing in,

And as you breathe out,

Allow your body to sink deeper and deeper into the floor.

Your body's becoming still,

Relaxed,

Calm.

Your body's becoming still,

Relaxed,

Calm.

And now that your body is calm,

Relaxed,

You can start relaxing yourself mentally.

Every time you breathe out,

Add a slow gentle silent sigh through your nose with the out breath.

And every time you sigh with that out breath,

Allow any mental tension to relax.

Gently take a slow deep breath deep into your belly.

Take a slow gentle breath out,

Sighing on the out breath,

Allow yourself to mentally relax.

Slowly in,

Deep into the belly.

The out sighing on the out breath,

Allow yourself to mentally relax.

Slowly in,

Sighing as the breath goes out.

Slowly in.

And each time your breath goes out,

Allow yourself to mentally relax,

Mentally sink more and more.

Keep using your breathing in this way,

Slow deep gentle breaths,

Sighing on the out breath,

Allow yourself to mentally relax more and more.

Slowly in.

Sighing on the out breath,

Relax.

Now as you breathe out,

Relax your eyelids and your eyes.

Allow your eyelids to drop.

Softening into any tension in your eyes.

Softening,

Relaxing you forward.

Reveal each gentle sigh out,

Softening,

Relaxing the frontal lobes of your brain.

Allow the sigh to deflate to relax your frontal lobes.

Each breath out,

Allowing you to sink physically and mentally deeper.

Deeper into stillness and peace.

Feeling calm,

Still.

Relaxed.

Relaxed.

Now widen your awareness into the whole of your body.

Notice the whole of your body just sitting or lying down.

Relax your chest and your belly,

Allow your breathing to move freely.

Start to be aware of the experience of heaviness within your body and the place where your body touches the chair or the floor.

Open your awareness in this heaviness and touch.

Open your awareness and start to be aware of any sounds around you.

And when you're ready,

You can gently open your eyes.

Have a wonderful day,

Take care and goodbye.

Meet your Teacher

Stephen ProcterMylestom NSW 2454, Australia

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Recent Reviews

Angie

October 24, 2024

Thank you for leaving space in all your teachings. I can really relax for once because of the space. It's perfect!

Jo

August 19, 2024

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Marit

February 9, 2024

I really enjoy your meditations sir. Enough silence and very effective for when you are short on time πŸ’«

Geetha

April 2, 2023

That’s the most relaxed I have felt in a long long time. Thank you, Stephen!

M

June 6, 2022

Loving this program. Power in simplicity. Gratitude for creating, teaching and sharing. Namaste πŸ™

Fuzzy

May 30, 2022

This program is such a positive start to the day πŸ™ gratitude.

Shay

February 6, 2022

I’m loving this series. I don’t know if it’s his voice, or the pacing, or the guidance, or what? It really works well for me :)

Sara

November 16, 2021

Stephen has a hypnotic voice that takes you deep into a relaxation state. Highly recommend his MIDL course to practice different approaches to meditation grounded in daily life experiences.

Eileen

January 19, 2021

I’m so glad I started this journey with MIDL training. This is such a wonderful program. Thanks Stephen!❀️

Natasha

May 20, 2020

Really appreciated this meditation. 🌿

Bri

January 26, 2019

Stephen, you are a gift to the world!

Faith

January 20, 2019

Really enjoyed the permission to sigh with the out breath. Really nice way to quiet my mind. Thank you!

Jordanka

July 30, 2018

I'vo got so relaxed that I almost fell asleep

Vincent

May 24, 2018

Wonderful to come back to the MIDL guidance after a long break. Perfect start to a busy day with a busy mind πŸ™

Terri

January 25, 2018

These shorter lessons are a great review, but also compete in & of themselves, and wonderful for days when I have less time to linger.

Sergio

December 14, 2017

Thanks Stephen! It is always nice To meditate with you! Have a great day! Be well be happy be safe πŸ™πŸ»

LeAnn

September 11, 2017

Love this! I had quite a lovely experience during the exhale / sigh: My body filled with a wonderful feeling of gratitude and love! It brought tears of joy. 😹 Thank you for sharing your meditations and guidance. πŸ’™πŸ’œ

Dom

August 24, 2017

Excellent. Used a lot :D

Brian

July 12, 2017

Very relaxing, calming. My favorite by far. Be well

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