What If I Regret Staying For Too Long In Toxic Situations

Here I speak about coming out of toxic experiences and realizing that we could have left earlier, and avoid suffering. I explain this process, and our reasons to invest in these situations, encouraging us to believe and to trust ourselves again.

Transcript

My name is Sangeet and today I want to tell you something. Sometimes we may stay for too long in a painful situation or we may stay long enough to get hurt and when we come out of it and we realize that we could have left earlier and that we could have avoided at least a part of the suffering, We regret, We feel guilty and we feel that we can't trust ourselves anymore. But let's pause for a second and go deeper into this. Everything that we do and that we choose to do in each moment is a result of a combination of factors that go beyond our ability to fully comprehend it. Yes, It is a direct result of our mental program and of our overall physical and emotional condition, But it is also a combination of energetic aspects that influences us and that we may not even be aware of. Plus, We cannot operate outside of our level of consciousness. Yes, Many of us become more and more conscious throughout life, But our decisions will always be a match to whatever level we are in. Another important thing in addition to all of this is that if we experience some sort of pain created by specific environments and related to certain people and we still stay, It is not because we want to suffer more or because we don't like ourselves or because we are totally unaware of what is going on. Nobody wants to suffer and we do like ourselves underneath our limiting thoughts and beliefs and we don't need to be extremely smart and intelligent to know what the situation is all about. If we stay, It is mostly because we are in hope that everything will improve. It is because we see and we believe in its potential and we wish that one day it will come out and that it will finally match our dream and desire. Plus, Our perspective of our own experiences changes once we come out of them. While we are involved, Somehow we are busy investing in it, Maybe thinking that it is the only thing that we have, But when we let it go, We see it as an observer and if it impacted us enough and we now reflect about it, We inevitably reach some level of realization that we couldn't reach before. This is totally natural and part of the process and this is what we call growth and expansion. Growth in maturity, In understanding, In knowing ourselves more and better. Expansion in consciousness, In being able to see the big picture and to understand more of how this entire life game functions. So, Today, Let's not hate ourselves for any reason, Because we are indeed magnificent. Everything is just perfect as it is and we are inevitably part of that perfection. Maybe it is hard for us to believe that we are beautiful beings, Because we spend so much time in our skin, Focusing on our flaws and regrets, But if we go really deep, We can see our light and through that same light, We can illuminate all the darkness, So we can finally accept ourselves and step into our power, Our truth and our authenticity.