My name is Sangeet,
And today I am speaking about unconscious projection.
Have you ever felt caught in someone's negativity?
Or have you ever found yourself dumping your negativity on someone else?
This easily happens when we have an accumulation of disturbing experiences in our system that haven't been properly addressed,
And they instinctively and subconsciously come out without much regulation.
Our human experience in this planet implies a constant game between our inside and outside world,
Which requires acts of projection and of reflection.
And when we play it unconsciously for lack of self-awareness and of inner work,
In hope that others will do it for us,
We may create certain realities that are not so pleasant neither for others nor for us.
This is like when a friend comes into our house.
We don't give them our garbage so they can get rid of it,
Right?
We give them a hug.
We offer them something tasty to drink or to eat.
We welcome them.
But if instead we give them our garbage,
They may help us to get rid of it once.
But if we keep on doing it,
Then that friendship probably won't last for too long.
The same happens when we switch roles.
We don't want other people's garbage.
We want their true friendship and care,
Their optimism and hope.
We want a pure clean connection that makes us feel good.
If we constantly use others as targets of our negative projections or as ways to clean our paths and to solve our issues,
Whether by projecting our fears on them or by giving them a list of complaints,
We are building on top of a very fragile base that with time will only bring all of that back to us.
How do we turn this around?
We work on ourselves,
Whatever this means for us.
We are all unique and each one of us have different stories and experiences.
Only we know what we may or may not need in order to feel happy and confident in our own skin.
We choose to prepare and to get ready to interact by constantly recharging and connecting to Source.
From here we then connect to people.
We choose to be happy first on our own and then with others.
We choose to know ourselves,
Our needs,
Our desires.
We choose to check our standards and to set our boundaries.
And then healthy relationships happen naturally.
This is a constant process in which we commit to ourselves and to the Universe so we can create and build true valuable and worthwhile connections.
Sharing our feelings,
Our stories,
And even our traumas and dramas with someone else is totally natural and healthy when it is exactly that,
An act of sharing,
Of deepening the bond between two or more people,
Or even a way of inspiring the world.
But if instead we do it as a constant harmful projection,
Then it is totally different.
So,
Today,
Let's not be afraid of going within and look in the deepest mirror of all,
That one mirror that shows us who we truly are.
Let's allow ourselves to feel and to fly above everything that covers our true identity and let's free ourselves and be joyful in ways that we couldn't even imagine.
Let's say out loud to the Universe that we are ready,
That we are ready to be everything and even more,
That we surrender to our enormous potential and that we are no longer afraid of being happy.
