The Secret To Healing The Injured Child Within

With her signature humor and ability to put words to vague perceptions and feelings, together with her healing touch, Premasudha's work is life-changing. She has a truly great knack for assisting people out of the emotional prison of their ego/intellect into true freedom. This means that sometimes even serious diseases disappear too, as part of the emotional shift into a new more love-based understanding.

Transcript

I'm making this video in the hopes that it will actually help you become more present and also to understand yourself more in a deeper,

More useful way.

You know,

In the West we talk a lot about the inner child work and the injured child.

And I remember going to a group once which was intended to heal the injured child.

And there were this like big box of toys and everything and everybody sat around playing with trucks and dolls and everything.

And I'm looking at this going,

This doesn't have anything to do with anything.

This isn't going to help.

Because it's like intuitively I knew that we're actually,

We are the injured child.

It's not separate from us.

It's not something that we can kind of get into if we play with trucks and dolls and everything.

We actually are an expression of our inner child self in adult form.

But so we think we're reasonable and you know,

Maybe intellectual,

But actually what will be running the show emotionally is our inner child self,

Particularly our injured child self.

Okay,

So we're like that little two or three year old who had just taken on his or her ego.

And,

But we look like adults.

I mean,

Sometimes you can really see this in politicians.

You can see that maybe they just acting like a two year old really.

But in fact,

All of us,

Even though we think we're like sane,

Balanced adults,

Although that might be rare nowadays.

But I want to talk more deeply about this.

So you know,

With a little munchkin,

The child's born,

Child's already imprinted by the child.

The thoughts and feelings of the mom during pregnancy,

You know,

It's already picking up on how happy the parents are to at its birth,

Whether it's really welcomed or not.

And you know,

The point of birth,

The,

You know,

Leave the warm womb and arrive in a,

You know,

Fairly bright lights and,

You know,

Clanging noisy delivery room.

And so the child gets like a jolt of reality is jolted to,

You know,

At the vibration on the earth plane.

Okay,

Now that's imprinted on our psyches.

You know,

I guess,

You know,

Unless if you had parents who,

You know,

Maybe had a home birth and you,

You know,

Were born in warm water and everybody was really happy and feeling beneficent,

Maybe your entry to life will be softer.

But most of us got a pretty stark beginning.

So then we're in the climate.

You know,

You were in your family's climate just like me and all families have certain parameters about what's allowed and what's not and what's bad or good.

And we quickly pick up the cues.

We learn.

Now,

The reason the child learns so deeply is children know,

We know when we're little that we cannot function on our own,

That if we're abandoned,

We will die.

Okay,

So that,

You know,

A child,

You know,

And lots of kids,

They look so happy,

You know,

18 months to but really what's going on inside them is this,

Oh,

You know,

I have to give up my connection to my divine self,

My eternal self and fit in to this emotional climate where I'm being raised by two asleep parents because how many self-realized parents are there?

Very few.

So the child does that and at the same time,

The child will feel from this huge beneficent love in their hearts and awareness of their true nature,

They will also feel their parents' pain and want to help heal it.

So the child becomes actually emotionally burdened with the pain of the parents and that is part of where we recreate the pain our parents went through if we do not allow a healing.

You know,

It's quite stark when you really understand what happened to you.

And this is,

You know,

Just a human condition.

We come here to be wounded and we have the choice in the course of our lives to open up to a soul healing to reconnect with our divine natures or to just stay within the shell,

The ego's shell.

And you know,

If we open up to their divine guidance,

It seems scary in the short term but the ending will be good.

And if we hold on to our shell,

We may look like we're real winners but as our life continues the hollowness will show.

It will be increasingly felt and also there will be kind of a despair at the end.

It's just inevitable because we're here to achieve higher awareness.

We are divine beings in human form and we can't get away from that.

I mean,

We can stay asleep to it but it's the true reality behind everything so you know,

It's going to show up.

But my point really with this video is if you can understand that you're still that little munchkin inside and if you can develop some compassion for yourself,

Some understanding about what happened to you.

I ask people often who are studying with me to write the story of their childhood,

Write it out and I must have written out my life story like 30 times.

And with each time I did it,

New memories came up or bigger understandings.

See,

We have to turn and love ourselves.

Please,

Please don't try to be perfect.

Please just put your arms around yourself in kind of a love embrace,

A forgiveness,

Understanding a gentle expanse of understanding that whatever pain you're in right now,

It's inevitable that you would be in this pain.

The decisions you've made that have got you this far were inevitable.

If you're happy and feeling really clear,

Then you know,

Medal of Honor.

But just please,

We're human beings and we're divine beings having a human experience and our culture,

Our emotional IQ isn't very high really.

We act as if it is but it's not.

And so this understanding that we're just,

Even as adults,

We're still walking around with the same sadness or trouble or misunderstandings we had as little ones.

You know,

If we really get that,

You can give yourself permission to heal.

In fact,

You will start to feel that you really want to heal.

In fact,

It will become what necessary that you head towards the healing.

And this will bring us into a warmer world,

A higher emotional IQ,

A gentler world,

As if we all turn and move into a compassionate understanding of ourselves and then we can have compassion for others.

Okay,

Bless your heart.

I hope this helped.

You have a great day.

Thank you.

You're welcome.

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As always enlightening and so clear. I have had a few moments of despair over the Christmas period. Slowly I am becoming more and more aware of what happens in those moments and more able to eventually offer myself/my inner child compassion. Its a slow process. Thanks

Very helpful in the midst of a trauma trigger for my Inner Little, thank you! I feel calmer. I liked the part about "wrap your arms around that Little One inside me". 🌈

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More and more I’ve been convinced that we need to parent ourselves like we parent our children. If we don’t like what that looks like then we need to make some changes. That’s what I’ve done. I’m so far from perfect. I have my love and support in place for checks and balances. I’m so oblivious to how things are going in my household without my family. I am very thankful that I can hear them now. I’ve come a long way. My reality is not the experience of basically anyone else’s so I need the help of others to see the whole picture for sure. We need to rely on each other as much as ourselves to make it, happily, to the end of our life cycle. I’m so grateful to you. 🙏🏾🌸🙏🏾

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