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Acknowledge, Feel, Soften

by Gil Fronsdal

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This is a guided practice to help you welcome and soften into the present moment. Gil Fronsdal is the co-teacher at the Insight Meditation Center in Redwood City, California and the Insight Retreat Center in Santa Cruz, California. Please note: This track was recorded live and may contain background noises.

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Transcript

The following talk was given at the Insight Meditation Center in Redwood City,

California.

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So,

It's often good to begin by taking a comfortable alert posture.

And so you might sit up a little bit straighter than you normally would.

It's good to remember that alertness is an important part of the path of meditation.

And then to take a few long,

Slow deep breaths as a way of connecting to your body as you breathe in.

And as a way of relaxing as you breathe out a long,

Soft out-breath.

And taking some time at the beginning to consciously breathe in and out,

A little bit bigger breaths than usual,

Is a little ritual to remind you,

To remind us to be here to the best of our ability to put aside the thoughts and concerns that we have in favor of being here with our lived experience,

With the immediacy.

And in mindfulness meditation,

We put tremendous value in our present moment experience,

Which I think of as the same way as our lived experience,

The experience that we live in and with and through.

This moment,

These moments we're having now,

Will never happen again.

And then letting the breath be normal.

And for this period of meditation,

I'd like to offer you three different aspects of mindfulness that you can do.

And you might start by doing it with the breath.

And the first is to acknowledge,

To have a clear acknowledgement.

This is an in-breath.

This is an out-breath.

This is a person breathing.

The second is to feel,

To connect to the felt sense.

So to feel the experience of breathing,

Not so much watching it,

Not so much thinking about it from a distance,

But connecting to how your body experiences breathing itself.

So the first is to acknowledge.

The second is to feel.

And the third aspect of the practice is to soften,

To soften around what you're acknowledged,

What you're feeling,

To soften the awareness that is in your body.

To soften around what you're acknowledged,

What you're feeling,

To soften the awareness that is aware.

And the art is to maintain a continuous stream of being mindful like this,

So that the habit of wandering off into thoughts and concerns doesn't sweep us away.

So as you sit here today,

You might experiment with these three steps or three aspects of mindfulness.

To acknowledge whatever is happening,

To acknowledge it clearly,

And then to feel it,

To sense it,

To allow yourself to connect to the felt sense of it,

Whatever it is.

And then the third is to soften with it,

Around it.

Acknowledge,

Feel,

Soften.

So as you sit here today,

You might experiment with these three steps or three aspects of mindfulness.

So as you sit here today,

You might experiment with these three steps or three aspects of mindfulness.

So as you sit here today,

You might experiment with these three steps or three aspects of mindfulness.

So as you sit here today,

You might experiment with these three steps or three aspects of mindfulness.

So as you sit here today,

You might experiment with these three steps or three aspects of mindfulness.

So as you sit here today,

You might experiment with these three steps or three aspects of mindfulness.

Meet your Teacher

Gil FronsdalRedwood City, CA, USA

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Recent Reviews

Leslie

January 8, 2025

This short meditation led me into a longer sit of nearly 25 minutes. My deep bows to this teacher. I am now following him and shall return to learn more. Feeding my soul ☺️namaste 🙏🏼🕊️🎶

Ellen

February 6, 2023

Amazingly supportive to my practice....acknowledge, feel, soften! so simple, such a stretch

Benjamin

April 12, 2021

Simple, straightforward, and easy to follow—thank you! Great instruction.

Veronica

January 6, 2021

Contundente y muy claro!

Jai

July 31, 2020

Excellent guidance. However, It ended abruptly.

Greg

July 18, 2020

A simple, yet beautiful practice. The recording is fairly short but could be used as the start of a longer sitting.

Scott!!!

March 6, 2020

clear, sweet, and gentle.

John

June 16, 2019

Gil Fronsdal is one of the most legit teachers of Buddhism in the west.

kitikins

May 26, 2019

Thank you. I'm managing a lot of sadness and grief right now and I needed to hear these words. Acknowledge. Feel. Soften.

Laura

November 26, 2018

Your guidance has a strong positive effect on my life and how I relate to it. Thank you!

Nell

August 10, 2018

Thank you. I enjoyed this as much as your talks on Zencast.org... When my thoughts are racing, listening to those teachings is often the best way to calm my mind. And I often get a laugh out of them too!

Lynn

May 28, 2018

Thank you Gil! 🙏🏼

Jules

April 26, 2018

Just lovely as can be - acknowledge, feel, soften, of course!

Jamie

January 11, 2018

Really great way to start the day.

Kate

October 25, 2017

I certainly feel soft after this. I've been listening to Gil for years and I really appreciate his teachings and meditation.

Allison

October 2, 2017

I love Gil's presence and the simplicity of this meditation.

Tony

September 19, 2017

Always in my favourites

Linéa

July 29, 2017

Gentle voice, clear guidance. Thank you Gil Fronsdal.

Calvin

July 15, 2017

Gil has a gentle, clear, calming teaching style. Good for self-compassion

Tim

June 16, 2017

A simple short and useful meditation. Thank you.

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