I think about what you might think about when you hear the title,
Someone to Love.
And like most of the world,
We look to others to love and to love us.
Part of that is our inherent training.
We look to our parents and formative caregivers as the source of love.
And at some point in our early development,
If we are shown and taught what is self-nurturing behavior and self-caring words and actions,
We are taught self-love.
If some of this is missed,
Or if we haven't had the practice,
The practices,
There are many to self-love,
Then we can continue on this journey looking for what is external to us to validate,
Care for,
Honor,
Love,
Appreciate,
All of that.
Being in a love relationship teaches us how better to love ourself.
If we take that wisdom,
If we allow ourselves to practice self-love,
As we feel love from another and as we are loved unconditionally,
We immensely feel the wholeness that divine spiritual love offers.
As well,
If we look to ourself,
Let's say,
Whether or not you're in a love relationship,
If you look to yourself to take care of your needs,
To love and care for yourself,
You will indeed practice this incredible quality of unconditional love,
Because self-love is unconditional if we are doing it in the way that truly honors ourself.
I leave this with you,
It is so very beautiful,
I do hope you will listen again,
And again and again,
It is definitely worth a second and third listen.
And of course,
If you are in a love relationship,
Or if you may be looking for one,
Remember,
You are your greatest source of love,
You need to be.
Thank you,
Namaste.
In the experiences that you will remember most lives the passion of romantic love.
These are pure moments of excitement,
Of sensual bliss,
Of desire,
Of the ecstasy of love.
If you are with a partner that fits the criteria of what is most desired.
If there is enduring love,
Respect,
Honor,
Integrity,
Trust.
If there are the spoken and unspoken words that signify a relationship that endures with love and beyond.
Life itself feels a certain completeness.
It is that this relationship,
Because of the certainty and honesty of the love you feel between you and your partner,
Reminds you of your wholeness.
You feel supported and loved,
And this is what makes it possible for you to live in the potential of desire.
Desire is the blessing of all love.
It is the way in which we arrive in the fullness of life.
We show up in the most beautiful ways for ourself and for our most precious loved ones,
Because this love is what is awe-inspiring.
It is what gives us courage to be our best self,
To set our dreams in motion.
For as we are loved,
We choose love.
Who we are,
How and who we continue to find ourselves to be,
Is supported in the grace and dignity of the one that we love unconditionally.
The one that is our chosen partner,
The one that allows us to stand tall in who we are and to cherish in and believe of our greatness.
To have someone to love beyond ourself is to feel one of the most powerful and life-affirming experiences.
To know love so completely,
To trust in its grace,
To support and affirm all that you are,
Is one of the many miracles of life itself.
In this measure,
In this grace,
Love becomes the conduit and expression of being.
The way in which you see the world now is the certain ideal that you live as.
In this dignity of this love,
You feel the power of your own love,
A love that you awaken from within,
A love that holds the willingness for you to be all that you can,
A love that has the greatest potential to remind you of what you stand for and the power of love that exists here for you.
Love to know yourself best,
To believe in yourself for the creation of everything you seek.
The love of your soul is the greatest source of love there is.
You feel this love as the eternal part of you,
As the experience of self-expression that guides you into the depth of your being.
It is both what you are and what you seek to be as you feel the strength of your center.
The love of what lives awake within you,
You inspire,
You transcend the perfection of now.
You live in the grace of each present moment.
You love to eternity.
Within the expression of love is the gratitude of wonder that you hold for all of life.
Now visioned through the eyes of all of the senses that become for you the brilliance of love and honor that is the most significant.
Love and honor is what finds you here,
All in the name of what fills your heart for all things.
The wisdom of love is that it opens us to great perfection.
It inspires us to live as the highest example of who we can be.
First,
Because we want to be everything for our partner.
Those who know,
Know that we love first because we choose to be everything for ourself.
We choose to hold our head high in confidence that who we are is enough even as we seek more.
And that we are everything that we can be first and foremost for ourself.
In the wonder of our life as we live free and as we love pure of our heart wide open to the experience of all that awaits us.
Feel all of the blessings of love directed unto others.
This is what fills your heart and mind with great love.
The love that is intoxicating,
That exists as the impression of joy,
That goes beyond what feels imaginable and possible.
To have great love is to be this first.
To be great love is to hold your heart open with certainty for the expression of love can fill you with the most radiant power.
This love,
All deserving,
All pure,
Is the love that we all have.
When we give love,
When we are love freely,
We manifest the perfection of love in these moments.
Isn't this the most incredible experience to have,
To live?
Your capacity to give love without conditions is pure love without needing anything in return.
You experience this with those with whom you love unconditionally.
The idea,
The goal,
The practice is to love with kind actions all beings without needing anything in return.
The beauty of love is in the experience that you feel as everything aligns to reveal this truth.
The more that you are loving to all others,
The more love that you experience as what you are.
Someone to love is first you.
Then to find the most suitable partner based on knowing yourself best and knowing the relationship that you wish for is to hold yourself in the images of all things and in the love of the divine.
Seek to have this first with yourself.
The beauty of finding someone to love shows up in your life when you are first in love with yourself.