This is a self-compassion break practice.
We're going to go through the three components of self-compassion,
Which are mindfulness,
Common humanity and self-kindness.
So just bringing to mind something that you're struggling with at present.
It could be something that triggers you.
Or something you've been dealing with for a while.
Try not to choose anything traumatic,
So maybe kind of three to four out of ten.
As you practice this,
You can.
.
.
Choose things that are more difficult for you.
But just for this first time,
Let's go with that.
So you might want to stop the recording if you want to choose something.
It could be something that's causing you frustration or disappointment or sadness.
Okay,
Let's begin.
Okay,
Let's just start by tuning into the present moment.
So just feeling the sense of your body.
As it is in the physical space right now.
And just noticing your breath,
Noticing the breath coming in.
And noticing the breath coming out.
Just noticing coming in.
And noticing it coming out.
Just bringing to mind this difficult situation.
You're dealing with.
Maybe you have a visual or you can hear some words.
Just letting that be vivid now.
Okay.
So we're going to bring this mindfulness to it.
Just acknowledging.
This is a moment of suffering for you.
You might want to say,
This hurts or.
This is stressful.
Can you feel it in your body?
So just acknowledging that if you can.
And then bringing in the common humanity.
It just tells us that suffering is part of life.
And we're all humans who suffer.
Some more than others and in different ways.
Just reminding yourself.
That you're not alone.
And that other people feel this way.
That we all struggle.
And these are the things that actually connect us.
Okay.
Now moving on to self-kindness.
Asking yourself,
What do I need in this moment?
Perhaps you can take a hand or hands to a place where you feel It's supportive.
Perhaps over your heart.
On your tummy.
Your face.
And that soothing touch can be.
Really kind and supportive.
Feeling the warmth of your hand.
Maybe asking yourself,
What would you like to hear right now?
Would it be,
It's going to be okay?
Or I'm learning to accept.
Myself or the situation.
Or maybe,
May I be strong?
Maybe you need to forgive yourself.
Just feeling that warmth from your hand or hands Just imagining giving yourself the kindness that you need.
Right now.
I'm just noticing how that feels in your body.
Maybe breathing into that area where it feels difficult.
You might want to take in a few deeper breaths.
Okay,
So this is just a short practice just to connect with something that's difficult.
Just to give you an idea of how we can deal with things differently.
So,
Just opening your eyes.
And coming back walking around the room.
And maybe taking a couple of minutes just to write down your experience of that practice,
What you felt you were dealing with.
And whether those different elements of the self-compassion helped you.
And how you're feeling now.
Thank you.