Welcome,
Everyone.
Thank you for joining me.
Today we'll be exploring what it feels like to feel stuck.
Sometimes when we have important things to do,
We assume we're lazy,
Unmotivated,
Lacking discipline,
Or simply not trying hard enough.
But sometimes our nervous system may simply be doing what it learned to do in order to protect us.
This session isn't intended to diagnose,
Treat,
Or force anything to change.
Instead,
This is an invitation.
To become curious about what might be happening beneath the experience of procrastination,
Of avoidance,
Overwhelm.
Or feeling frozen.
We'll be doing the EFT.
Basic recipe with three rounds of tapping.
The second round will gently explore the possibility that this stuck feeling may have developed for a protective reason.
And the final round will invite a little more flexibility,
Choice,
And self-compassion.
Take what resonates and leave the rest.
Please take a nice deep breath in.
And exhale.
Notice where you experience this feeling of being stuck in your body.
Maybe it's a heaviness,
A tightness,
A pressure,
Restlessness,
Numbness,
Or maybe you don't notice anything at all.
That's okay.
Let's begin with our setup statements.
By tapping the side of your hand,
The outer side,
The squishy part.
Repeat each statement.
Even though I'm feeling stuck right now.
And there are things I'd like to accomplish.
I deeply and completely thank you.
Except myself.
And honor what I'm experiencing.
Even though I care about these things.
And I notice a part of me pulling away from them.
I accept that this part of me may be trying to help.
In its own way.
Even though.
I don't know exactly why I feel stuck today.
I choose to meet myself.
With curiosity.
Compassion.
And openness.
Round one.
Tap the top of your head before the little crease.
I'm feeling stuck.
Eyebrow,
The front of the eyebrow on the bone.
I have important things to do.
The side of I,
Tap along the side of I,
Along the bone.
I care about these things.
Under the eye.
Along the bone.
And yet.
.
.
I can't seem to begin.
Breathe in and out as you're tapping.
Under the nose.
I don't know what to do first.
The chin.
Maybe I'm overwhelmed.
On the collarbone right below the clavicle,
That circular bone.
Maybe I want to do everything perfectly.
The thymus,
Which is the middle of the chest along the bone.
Maybe I don't have enough energy.
The back of your neck.
Maybe I just feel frozen.
Under the arm about four inches below the armpit.
This stuck feeling.
Now tap your inner wrists on top of each other.
Just noticing this stuck feeling.
And the top of head again.
Allowing myself to notice what's here.
Take a deep breath.
Just rest your arms for a minute and just Notice your body.
Just rest for a moment as we take a deep breath.
Um.
.
.
Hold at the top for a moment and then breathe out of the mouth.
Whatever feels comfortable for you,
Of course.
We'll begin with round two.
At the top of head again.
What if my body is doing what it learned to do?
In the front of the eyebrow along the bone.
What if this feeling once protected me?
The side of your eye along the bone.
Maybe slowing down kept me safe.
Under the eye.
Along the bone.
Maybe avoiding things reduced disappointment.
Under the nose.
Maybe staying small helped me belong.
Chin.
Maybe procrastination isn't laziness.
Right below the clavicle,
That circular bone,
The collarbone.
Maybe it's an old strategy.
The thymus right in the middle of the chest along the bone.
Meeting a new season of my life.
The back of the neck.
I'm not living in the same circumstances anymore.
Under the arm,
Four inches below the armpit.
I have more support now.
For myself.
The inner wrists,
Tap them together.
I'm not in that same spot anymore.
The top of head.
I wonder if I can appreciate this protective part of me.
Take a deep breath.
In and out.
Just notice your body and how it's feeling right now.
Notice any sensations or shifts.
And we're going to go ahead and move forward with round three.
And we're going to go right back to the top of the head.
Right before it creases down.
I don't have to force myself.
Eyebrow right in the front of the eyebrow along the bone.
I don't have to figure everything out.
The side of I along the bone.
I only need one small step.
Under the eye along the bone.
Maybe my nervous system needs safety.
Under the nose,
More than motivation.
The chin.
Maybe one email is enough.
The collarbone right below the clavicle,
The circular part of the collarbone.
Maybe one dish is enough.
The thymus,
The middle of the chest,
Along the bone,
Maybe one paragraph is enough.
Under the arm about four inches below the armpit,
Maybe I can trust myself.
Tapping the inner wrists together.
One breath.
The top of head.
One tiny step at a time.
And when you're ready,
Bring your hand down.
Take another slow breath in.
Let it go.
Notice what may have shifted,
Even if it's only one percent.
Perhaps nothing.
Perhaps you feel a little lighter,
A little softer,
Softer,
A little more curious.
Or perhaps you've simply created space to sit with yourself in a different way.
You don't need to decide whether any of these thoughts are true.
You don't need to force yourself to become productive.
For now,
Simply acknowledge yourself for showing up.
Thank yourself for being willing to explore what might be beneath this stuck feeling.
And remember,
You don't have to do everything today.
You only need to take the next gentle step.
Thank you for tapping with me.
See you in the next one.