So hi everyone and thank you for joining me.
So today we are going to explore something that might feel a bit different in a world that tells us to get over it and move on.
We are going to turn towards the wounded parts of ourselves.
We are going to whisper the words that every hurt part of us has been longing to hear.
I am here for you.
You are safe now.
Now in my work as a holistic therapist I've realized something profound that we don't just carry one wounded child within us.
We carry wounded versions of ourselves from every stage of life where we experience pain,
Rejection,
Failure or loss.
There is the wounded five-year-old who felt invisible.
There is the wounded teenager whose heart was broken.
There's the wounded young adult who felt like a failure.
The wounded professional who was criticized and the wounded parent who felt inadequate.
Each of these wounded parts lives somewhere in our energy field,
In our cellular memory and the quiet spaces of our heart.
And here is what most of us don't realize that these wounded parts are not just memories.
They are living aspects of our psyche that are still waiting for someone to notice their pain,
To offer comfort and maybe to say what happened to you matters.
Your pain is valid and you deserved better.
Now in a world of quick fixes we feel that we can think our way out of pain by being positive,
Maybe by reading some books,
Doing affirmations.
Now although all these tools are helpful,
We can't heal what we don't acknowledge.
We can't comfort what we won't approach and we certainly can't integrate wounded parts that we are trying to leave behind or bypass.
So today we are going to do something different.
We are going to be the loving parent,
The wise friend,
The compassionate healer that every wounded part of us needs.
Not to fix them,
Not to change them,
But to simply offer presence,
Love and safety.
And this is not about dwelling in the past or becoming a victim.
This is a journey of wholeness.
This is gathering all parts of yourself that got left behind and bringing them home to your heart.
So if it resonates,
Find your most comfortable position,
Arrange your space however you need to.
You may need a pillow,
You may need a blanket,
You may light an incense,
Whatever works for you.
Now we are creating a safe space in the physical and also in your heart.
So let's begin by taking a few deep breaths,
Just starting first by honoring the courage that it takes to do this work.
So breathe in like you're drawing safety and support and exhale like you're releasing the need to be strong all the time.
Breathing in love and compassion and breathing out the fear of feeling too much.
Now one more time,
Breathing in your own healing presence and breathing out into this sacred moment where it's safe to be tender with yourself.
If you need to move your physical body,
Adjust a line to feel more comfortable,
Just trust your body.
Now I want you to imagine,
Visualize,
Sense,
See or feel that you're standing now in the most beautiful healing sanctuary.
This is a place that exists in your heart,
Where time works differently and love is the only language that's spoken.
You might see it as a garden,
A temple,
A cozy room or somewhere completely unique to you.
Trust what appears or just trust what you feel in the moment.
Now this sanctuary has been waiting for you.
It's filled with the most gentle healing light.
The kind of light that doesn't judge or rush but simply illuminates with pure love.
In this sacred space today,
You are not just yourself as you are.
You're connected to the wise healer within you,
The part that knows how to offer comfort,
How to hold space for pain,
How to whisper exactly the words that the wounded heart needs to hear.
Feel this healing energy now awakening in your hands,
Then in your heart and then in your very presence.
This is not something foreign.
This is your own capacity for love,
Compassion,
Perhaps more accessible than ever before.
Now call upon whatever supportive presence feels right to you.
This might be your guides,
Your ancestors,
Universe,
Your higher self,
Anything.
You're not doing this healing work alone.
You have the support,
The love and all the wisdom that you need.
Now in this beautiful sacred light healing space,
We are going to invite different wounded aspects of yourself to come forward one at a time.
Not to overwhelm them but to finally offer them what they've been waiting for,
Your presence,
Your love and your understanding.
Anything that shows up for you today is exactly what you need to see.
Unconditionally trust the process.
Let's start with your wounded child.
This might be me at a specific age.
It might just be a general self of how I was as my younger self.
Don't force it.
I now gently invite my wounded child to come into my awareness.
See them there now in your sanctuary.
Maybe they are sitting quietly.
Maybe they're hiding.
Maybe they're angry.
Maybe they're sad.
However they appear is perfect.
There's no wrong way for them to be.
Now approach this wounded child with all the gentleness in your heart.
If your body allows,
Sit down beside them or kneel to their level.
Look into their eyes and with infinite love,
Out loud or silently,
I see you.
I am here for you.
You are safe now.
I see you.
I'm here for you.
You are safe now.
Now notice what this child needs to hear from you.
Maybe it wants to hear you did nothing wrong.
Maybe you are lovable exactly as you are.
It's okay to feel scared.
Trust whatever words come up for you and just be in this process now.
You're with your wounded child and you're following your gut to see what words come up for you to be said.
If it feels right for you,
Gently hold this child or offer them your hand.
Feel your healing energy now surrounding them like the warmest,
Safest blanket.
Now let your wounded teenager come forward.
This part might carry hurt from rejection,
Embarrassment,
Feeling different or not fitting in.
See them in your sanctuary,
Maybe looking defiant,
Looking lost,
Angry,
Lonely,
Whatever you're seeing.
And now gently approach your teenage self with respect for all that they were trying to figure out.
Look at them with understanding and say,
I see how hard it was.
You were doing your best.
You're worthy of love and belonging.
I see how hard it was.
You were doing your best.
You are worthy of love and belonging.
What does your teenage self need to hear from you?
Maybe your feelings matter.
Maybe you don't have to be perfect.
Maybe it's okay to be different.
Offer them exactly what their heart has been waiting for.
If your young adult self wants to come forward,
Welcome them too.
This part might carry wounds from early relationships,
Career disappointments or just feeling lost in the world.
See them struggling to find their way,
Trying so hard to become someone worthy.
Approach with compassion and say,
You don't have to have it all figured out.
You are enough just as you are.
I believe in you.
You don't have to have it all figured out.
You are enough just as you are.
I believe in you.
Now invite your wounded professional self,
The part that's been criticized,
Overlooked or made to feel inadequate.
Maybe they are sitting at a desk carrying the weight of the world,
Of other people's expectations.
Look at this part with appreciation for all that they've tried to achieve and say,
You have worked so hard.
Your worth isn't determined by your achievements.
You matter simply because you exist.
You have worked so hard.
Your worth isn't determined by your achievements.
You matter simply because you exist.
Now if it applies to you,
The wounded partner or spouse,
If present,
Might be carrying the pain of relationship struggles,
Feeling unlovable or not good enough.
Embrace this part and whisper,
You deserve to be loved for who you are.
Your heart is beautiful.
The right love will honor all of you.
You deserve to be loved for who you are.
Your heart is beautiful.
The right love will honor all of you.
Now maybe there's also a wounded spiritual seeker within you.
The part that's trying so hard to be evolved,
Peaceful,
Grateful,
But sometimes feel like an imposter,
Like a fraud.
Look at this part with gentle humor,
Deep love and say,
You don't have to be perfect to be spiritual.
Your humanity is sacred.
Your struggles are part of your wisdom.
You don't have to be perfect to be spiritual.
Your humanity is sacred.
Your struggles are part of your wisdom.
Now whichever way these statements are landing in your body,
Whatever feelings are coming up,
Just trust the experience completely.
Now in your beautiful sanctuary,
I want you to see all these wounded parts are present within you.
Some might still be feeling tender.
Some might be beginning to relax.
And some might be just looking at you wondering that someone finally came for them.
Now this is the family reunion you never knew that you needed.
All aspects of yourself have been waiting for this moment of recognition,
Love and coming home.
Place both your hands on your heart now.
And just feel how your heart has room for all your wounded parts,
All of them.
Your love is vast enough.
Your compassion is deep enough.
Your healing presence is strong enough to hold every wounded part of yourself.
Speaking to all of them together now.
I am here for all of you.
Every feeling you felt is valid.
Every pain that you've carried matters.
You are all welcome here.
You are all part of me.
And I love you all.
I am here for all of you.
Every feeling you felt is valid.
Every pain that you've carried matters.
You are all welcome here.
You are all part of me.
And I love you all.
Now feel your own healing energy.
This golden warm light of pure love flowing to each wounded part that you may have.
You may be feeling sensations,
Warmth,
Cold tingling in your body,
Just allow that.
Even if emotions and feelings are coming up,
Allow that too.
Watch as this energy begins to transform their pain,
Not by erasing it,
But by surrounding it with so much love that it becomes sacred.
Their wounds become wisdom.
Their pain becomes compassion.
And their struggle becomes strength.
See these parts now beginning to integrate into your wholeness.
They don't disappear.
They are just your own parts coming back to yourself.
The child's curiosity and wonder,
The teenager's passion for life,
The young adult's dreams,
The professional's motivation and dedication,
The parent's love,
And the partner's longing.
All of it woven together into this beautiful,
Complex,
Perfect self that you are.
Now feel yourself as this integrated whole being.
Not because you have no wounds or no trauma,
But because you've learned to hold your wounds with love.
You've become your own healer,
Your own loving parent,
And your own wise friend.
From this place of wholeness with your hands on your heart,
Set an intention of how you want to treat yourself going forward.
It can be as simple as speaking yourself with more kindness,
Honoring your own needs,
Or simply remembering that you are human and you're allowed to be imperfect.
And that's enough.
Now know that this sanctuary exists within you always.
Any time a wounded part of you feels activated or triggered,
You can return to this place of love and offer them exactly what they need.
I am here for you.
You are safe now.
Now begin to feel yourself returning to ordinary awareness,
But don't leave this love behind.
Feel it settling into your cells,
Your energy field,
And your life.
Wiggle your fingers and your toes.
Gently move your head side to side.
Take a deep breath.
And feel yourself come back to the room.
When you're ready,
Slowly open your eyes,
But keep that tender feeling in your heart.
You've just done profound healing work.
Take a moment to appreciate what you've just done.
You've turned towards your own pain with love instead of judgment.
You've offered yourself the compassion that every wounded part may have been craving your whole life.
And you've also remembered healing is not about becoming perfect.
It's about becoming whole.
You are not broken.
You never were.
You're beautifully,
Courageously human.
And that's exactly what the world needs.
So thank you for having the courage to love yourself deeply.
And thank you for doing this work.
Namaste.
