The Power Of Unconditional Love

True love and trust are not transactional. They do not depend on conditions, nor do they seek guarantees. In this reflection, Tiger explores the radical simplicity of trusting life—not because it always gives what we want, but because it unfolds exactly as it must. Love, when freed from expectation, sees only wholeness. Trust, when freed from control, allows life to flow without resistance. And in that surrender, disappointment dissolves, replaced by a deep knowing that everything is as it should be.

Transcript

I love you because I see what you are.

The love isn't looking for anything in return.

And how wild that that can be such a foreign concept to human beings.

Maybe we get a taste of this in those silent moments with somebody that you truly feel like you love that moment.

You look at them and you just say,

My God,

I love you.

And sure,

It's not long before the ego jumps in there and says,

Because of this and this and this and this and this,

But really this love just sees wholeness.

My goodness.

There's so many ways to illustrate this.

But the same goes with trust.

The way that I play with it is that I trust you to be you.

I trust that you will unfold in whatever way you need to unfold.

And I trust that I will see whatever it is that I'm supposed to see,

Which can and will only contribute to my wild adventure of consciousness,

Expanding.

Which quite regularly includes encountering things I'd rather not encounter.

You see this,

The way that we trust life.

It's not life.

I trust you to give me what I want.

It's life.

I trust you regardless if it looks like I get what I want.

See,

The trust isn't about me.

The trust is that life knows what it's doing,

Even though I don't understand.

And the more you see the nature of what is true,

Trust in theory becomes easier.

And what's interesting,

And it's funny how this all ties into love or trust or compassion,

Whatever you're talking about,

Whatever flavor of truth it is,

It's all the same thing.

But it speaks to how we give this truth within us to things in the world,

Which is like saying loving things in the world or trusting things in the world,

Only to watch it all collapse in some way.

And of course,

This speaks to the consistent stream of disappointments.

Because when you truly trust in life,

Which is the same as trusting in what's true,

There cannot be disappointment.

Because of course the disappointment would say that I don't trust.

But so often we are trusting in things of the world or other people,

But that always comes with an expectation of how they should be.

People are going to be people.

But if you kind of tilt this concept of trust and trust people to be people,

You won't be disappointed.

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