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"Lucky to age" Relationship Power-UP for Men & Women 55+

October 5 - 9, 2026

Hawi, HI, United States

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Hosted By

Aarya Joy

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4 nights, 5 days

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2 person retreat

Highlights

  • Private, personalized 1:1 retreat or for a couple coming together

  • Specially customized to men and women 55+

  • Custom dates available, choose your own dates

  • Deep dive into experiencing the best relationship with yourself, with nature and with others

  • Single? envisioning being in intimate relationship?: Come optimize your relationship readiness

  • Prioritize what really matters in life

  • Experience Pure Love, calm presence and beauty unbounded

  • Get inspired to live your best years yet

  • Harness the depths of your being while basking in togetherness and authentic connection

  • Recalibrate from Head to Toe

  • Enjoy a media break with a Digital Detox - disconnect from devices, media and take time-off for yourself

  • Gift yourself a complete gut cleanse - release toxins and regenerate your intestinal flora for higher nutrient absorption

  • Enjoy inspiring nature hikes

  • Tap into your creative power, reclaim your childlike playfulness

  • Get nourished with plant based, organic, fresh, live foods

  • Bask in the beauty of Hawai'i - enjoy the magnificent raw nature of Big Island of Hawai'i with a local guide

  • Enjoy Silence, stillness, time for you!

  • Get empowered with guided meditation

  • Feel the benefits of Intermittent fasting

Details

Life begins at 60! We are fortunate to age and get to the stage of life where we feel more empowered, free, unbounded. Are you happily single yet envisioning being in intimate relationship? Let's optimize your relationship readiness Come get your fine-tuning and power-up! Catch the wave of empowered and unbounded freedom. Enjoy the ride with profundity and savor each moment in pure joy, feeling strong, vital, young, and fulfilled Come get much needed Vitamin Sea on the paradisiacal waters of the Big Island of Hawai’i Just Relax... into this private, 1:1, exquisitely profound and inspiring nature and relationship deepening retreat. This exquisite sojourn is catered to tap into every aspect of wellbeing while enjoying the beauty of Hawai’i, being in presence of good company, taking precious time for yourself, eating fresh, organic, nourishing food, disconnecting from the overwhelming bombardment of media, devices, the chaos of the world and simply being! Cleanse and rejuvenate from head to toe, and if you are already rejuvenated and cleansed… fantabulous, surf the waves into experiencing more of your blissful self For a deep dive, we integrate artistic expression into our days with coloring, writing, sound, meditation, stillness and movement to support the experience in transformative ways. Optimize your relationship with yourself, with nature and with others. Together in connection with the ocean, the sun, the breeze, the mountain, the beauty and bounty of nature a synergy blooms… Magic Happens! With Pure Love, Aarya

Location

Hawi, HI, United States

Hawi Road leads to the charming town of Hawi, located in the lush and scenic North Kohala district on the Big Island of Hawaii. Known for its vibrant arts community, eclectic shops, and historic significance, Hawi offers a unique blend of cultural richness and natural beauty. The town is a gateway to the Pololū Valley Lookout, which provides breathtaking views of the valley and dramatic coastline, and is a great starting point for hikes into the verdant landscape. Hawi itself is dotted with art galleries, boutiques, and local eateries that serve fresh, locally sourced dishes, giving visitors a taste of the island's bounty. This area is also historically significant as the birthplace of King Kamehameha I, who united the Hawaiian Islands. With its laid-back atmosphere, friendly community, and stunning surroundings, Hawi captures the essence of the Big Island’s diverse offerings, making it a must-visit destination for those exploring Hawaii.

Venue

Private Residence in Hawai'i

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Accommodation

Private Bedroom with Private Bathroom

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$5,000 USD / person

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$5,550 USD total

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Enjoy a beautifully furnished Zen spacious room, with queen size bed, furnished with organic eco-friendly linens. Private bathroom. Nestled in a private, serene and peaceful three acre estate. Distractions: There is no smoking, drinking, partying, vaping, or drugs of any kind. AC: No air conditioning, all fresh air from the trade winds and gentle breeze. WIFI: We invite you to come and disconnect from electronics to connect with yourself and all around you. Extra details: You are welcomed into a simple and nourishing space, cultivated to allow you the opportunity for being enfolded in beauty and simple being We live naturally in harmony with the surroundings, which means, we share with the geckos, ants, bugs, birds, ducks and all the other beings that call this magical place their home. Enjoy a unique experience diferent from a luxury hotel or resort with pool, activities, and non-stop entertainment. The Luxury here is Luxury for the heart! It is DIVINE! During some times of the year, there can be mosquitos. Bring your non-toxic mosquito Repellent. We love to live in an environment that is free from pollution: be it sound, air, electromagnetic, etc We rejoice that our guests embrace and look forward to coming here at ease and delighted with this simple and WELL-being lifestyle

Meals

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Meals provided

Breakfast · Lunch

Diets catered

Vegan · Gluten-free · Dairy-free · Raw · Organic

The main focus of the meal selection for this immersion is to support the detoxing and cleansing of the body, emphasizing gut regeneration We will enjoy fully nutritious plant-based meals with the delight of organic fresh fruit from local farms, nourishing earth and sea veggies and fresh brewed tonics We will partake in intermittent fasting to allow our digestive system to take a break, rest, and cleanse. Which means that we will eat our food between 10:00 am and 5:00 pm. With a monotrophic menu to ease digestion and restore the balance of the body's filtering systems. This means that we will eat the similar meals each day Aided by added ayurvedic herbs and immune boosters to amplify the benefits of the cleansing foods Every cell of your body will soak up the nourishment it will be getting from the freshly and lovingly prepared food, all carefully selected to give you the live nutrients that your body needs to thrive Sample menu Upon awakening: Fresh pressed lemon-ginger tonic or tea - Immune boosting, anti-inflammatory and digestive support Mid morning: Fresh local fruit juice (based on seasonal availability) Bowl of fresh tropical fruit - Delivery of important phytonutrients and live enzymes Lunch: Hearty purple sweet potato and veggie broth - for gut health, regenerating and growing the intestine microbiome. Fresh Salad with Avocado and kelp flakes Creamy cauliflower rice and sautéed veggies Mid afternoon: Fresh brewed warming tea

Schedule

A main essence of this immersion is to flow with effortless ease and embrace the rhythm of nature as it presents itself to us every day. The schedule presented is a sample. (all activities optional and changeable) Each morning as we see what wondrous surprises the dawn brings, we determine the full schedule of the day, always allowing space for change and new ideas to manifest. Fantabulous experiences available to add a la carte:​ Option to extend an extra day for a chartered experience to swim with the dolphins, whales, manta rays and other beautiful marine life Massage (60 or 90 minutes) Wellness mentoring Extension of stay for extra days Car rental to go out and explore on your own Other longer nature explorations A journey down south - drive from north to south with option to include: a hike or walk to Green Sands Beach, a day with a sacred bee keeper, a barefoot walk, Simple stops along the way to explore the island Guided tour of the island

Testimonials

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My time with Aarya at Alaula Retreats was truly unforgettable. From the very first day, I felt like the island itself was inviting me to slow down, breathe, and reconnect. Some of the most powerful moments were also the simplest — Aarya created space for sitting quietly on the beaches, meditating, and letting me just be. The experiences were magical and grounding all at once: visiting the bees and learning from their quiet wisdom, honoring goddess Pele at the Kilauea volcano in between her fire dances, and hiking down into Pololū Valley to stand on the black sand beach of the local ancestors, surrounded by towering lush cliffs. Each day offered something new and meaningful, always with enough space to move at my own pace, and moving through different microclimates Aarya was the heart of the retreat. She has such a gift for spiritual guidance — present, intuitive, and warm. Our conversations were both intriguing and eye-opening, and she created an environment and pace where I felt deeply supported. She included a meaningful volcano ceremony to process my divorce and a guided closing Ho'oponopono meditation at the ocean on the last morning to forgive, thank and love myself in this personal transition time. The meals were also a highlight — fresh tropical fruit and nourishing vegan dishes that made me feel both light and energized. The freshly made soursop juice was my favorite! She has a beautiful way of honoring the land, the Hawaiian people, and the plants and animals that call it home. She introduced me to friends who are keeping traditions alive — through coconut foraging, lei making, visual art, beekeeping, and storytelling — all while supporting the local economy and sharing the deeper spirit of the island. What really stands out is the magic of the Big Island itself. Its energy, beauty, and spirit wove into every part of the retreat. I left feeling lighter, clearer, and more connected — not just to myself, but to the world and beings around me. If you want a soul-nourishing experience with nature, nurture, and inner peace — with wholehearted love and gratitude, I recommend Aarya to be your guide. She welcomed me into her Ohana and I know we will be friends for life. Don't hesitate to book an Alaula retreat! You will be a new person on the other side.  Pure Love + Mucho Mahalo Aarya 🌺

George Goldston, USA

The Best Gift I Gave Myself I recently had the most amazing experience at Aarya's retreat in the Big Island of Hawaii. I feel so grateful to have crossed paths with Aarya. From the moment we met, Aarya's warm and welcoming energy created a space of safety, healing, and deep connection. Her presence is truly radiant—she exudes peace, positivity, and wisdom in a way that’s both grounding and inspiring. The retreat location itself was absolutely beautiful—tucked away in nature, serene and full of life. It was so calming to wake up to the gentle sounds of birds and the rustle of tropical trees, which set the perfect tone for contemplation and reflection. It felt like the entire place was holding me in a gentle embrace. One of the most unexpected gifts of the retreat was overcoming my lifelong fear of the ocean. With gentle encouragement and support from Aarya, I took the plunge—literally—and went snorkeling for the very first time. Floating above the coral reefs, surrounded by vibrant marine life, was an experience I’ll never forget. Aarya also took me to a nearby hike, which was another beautiful and scenic place, perfect for contemplation. Aarya knows how to strike a balance between giving company and giving space! The food during the retreat was another highlight. Aarya prepared the most delicious, nourishing plant-based meals with such love and care. Each dish was not only beautifully presented but also full of flavor and vitality. It’s clear she puts her heart into everything she does. I also want to deeply thank Aarya for generously sharing her spiritual insights and life wisdom. Her meditations and our heart-to-heart conversations gave the clarity and perspective I didn't know I needed. I left the retreat feeling lighter, more open, and more aligned with myself. If you're seeking a meaningful escape to reconnect with nature, nourish your body, and expand your mind, I can’t recommend this retreat enough. Thank you, Aarya, for being such a bright light and for creating this beautiful experience—I carry your energy and teachings with me.

Himani Kulkarni, USA

What a wonderful host that is Aarya! What a safe and welcoming place this is! What delicious food that she cooked! What an amazing hike it was - barefoot and silence - I loved it! What a fun and healing time I had at the beach! Everything I experienced was so amazing healing and nourishing. I mean the first night I slept like 12 hours! - 12 hours! - I haven't slept like that long since I was 18, Lol. Her vegan cooking was so nourishing and fulfilling, yet so simple. It actually inspired me to think more about becoming vegan, which I feel like this retreat validated me. Aarya's generosity and compassion literally radiates through her eyes and face! I can see it and it makes me want to be like that. I am sure that all those years of practicing spirituality and raising her daughters made her to be this wonderful being. Thank you very much Aarya, for everything! I feel like I experienced a great one on one host who showed me her generosity and compassion at work on everyday situation. From simple things like asking how was the sleep, to how I would like to do things like art and meditation. I truly enjoyed my stay. I also learned to like the jungle noise - frogs and pigs - Haha! Much Love and Gratitude

Eric B, USA

The experience with Aarya was absolutely amazing. I loved how the retreat was centered around what I was needing in the moment. We talked about areas that I need support with such as more self-reflection, removal of outside distractions (cellphone!), and just living in the moment. We walked through the most beautiful trail that led to a private beach. We watched the sunset in silence while sitting on lava rocks. One night she did a sound bath and my spirit felt so cleansed afterwards. The food was AMAZING, filling, and aided in some digestion issues I was experiencing. I will definitely be back. Thank you Aarya for helping bring out the inner peace that was already within me the whole time. Until next time.

Inyang Njoku, USA

My heart is Full! My work is in the rat race of the business world and I am a mom to two beautiful kids who are constantly needing to get from one place to the next. My inner light had burned so low in recent years, and I knew I had to do something to start the healing process and to start living differently. Aarya gave me the space, kindness, guidance and pure love that I needed. I did not expect to be transformed overnight, but I entered with an open heart, and practically overnight I have been filled to the brim. I am also taking practices home with me so I can keep my own flame lit so I can best share that light with others. In an extremely short time, Aarya helped me rejuvenate my body, mind and soul. I am forever in gratitude for this experience and for Aarya. Pure Love and Mahalo!

Sarah Mc.V, USA

“What a “Profound Experience” I had during my one on one retreat with Aarya! And I am continuing to reap the benefits weeks later. She was so gracious, giving us the opportunity to dialogue and do quite a bit of the planning of our program by phone before I arrived. This offering was oh so helpful. She was very accommodating in so many ways throughout our retreat. On the afternoon I arrived, she met me in the driveway wearing a beautiful welcoming smile. Of course, she helped me unpack and get settled into my room. The room was very cozy with all the basic and tastefully chosen furniture. Two of our three mornings we began our day by chanting and meditation before sunrise, accompanied by her passionate playing of her harmonium. What a blessing! One day she shared a very powerful Falun Gong Practice with me on the lava flow by her lovely home during sunrise. My favorite healing experience was her gift of using the toning bowls and crystal bowls during the sunset time. Before arriving I had requested to have alone time and of course she was so gracious in allowing that to happen. And it feels important to mention that the environment surrounding her home was so blissful and peaceful with an abundance of nature spirits, birds and fruit trees. She has the incredible gift of validating you exactly where you are on your path and giving you a big dose of permission and encouragement to go to the next place of claiming your divine truth and expressing that divine truth in an even more powerful way. At the end of my stay, three days, I recognized that I had given myself an incredible gift and I plan to do it again.

Maggie Dancer, USA

This place is a palace of nature and Pure Love. Aarya is one of the most unique and wonderful and beautiful persons I ever met. I am leaving after 6 days full of totally new magical energy and with a strong feeling that I will be back!

Aga, Switzerland

The solo retreat with Aarya was everything and more! Words, pictures and reviews from previous guests were enough to paint the picture of what to expect. But being here present in Aarya's love, support and hospitality was simply unexplainable!. I was looking for an opportunity to completely unplug and disconnect from the modern world as we know it, whilst also searching for my passion and purpose through deep healing and solitude. Aarya provides the space, tools and experience to do this. We hiked, meditated, swam and through it all I learned a bit more about myself through the process. The space is comfortable, clean, calm and completely Zen. The amazing ocean view from the veranda made me embrace each day here more and more. This trip and experience has inspired me to continue my journey of spiritual development + solo travels are a must for the future. If something about Aarya's retreat calls and speaks to you, don't think twice! You will not regret it. This experience has been completely transformational physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

Kamini, USA

Aloha. At a time when my life was unfolding into a downward spiral, I was trying to seek out help. Aarya Joy's website came on. Her passion for earth, pure love, and just being in silence was something that I needed. I arrived on the island on my birthday. And Aarya greeted me with such a lovely smile and a huge hug that just made me release anything that no longer served me. Throughout the whole journey of healing, she has been a big, big inspiration and a standing stone for me. She's really helped me lift up from something that I felt so little. And every moment I have with her, I can feel her joy, her pure love, her playfulness, and her nourishing, loving motherly love for everyone and anything. She inspires me with just her poetic lifestyle. Everyone she greets with a huge smile and you can just feel the glow , so I take that back with me and also just being such a strong woman that she is. She's gone through a lot too and it's just okay. It's okay to enjoy life and have no guilt about anything.

Lily, USA

When I came across Aarya's retreat, I knew instantly that this was exactly what I was looking for. I was feeling very burnt out and just lethargic in every way. As I read through the details of the retreat - it just felt meant to be!. I had been wanting to go to Hawai'i for quite sometime now, but had never travelled alone as an adult. She took the stress of planning rides and meals out of the equation. I have also been working on myself for the past few years in terms of my spiritual, emotional and mental growth and this intuitively felt like the way to get the clarification that I have been seeking. The nature immersion / hikes and whole body detox aligned with everything that I enjoy and love! As soon as I landed, I knew that my intuition was not wrong. Aarya is a beautiful ray of light and her home what she stands for. Her hospitality all comes from Pure Love. She is an amazing host and person with genuine care for people. She meets you exactly were you are, and guides you based solely on how you are feeling and what you are needing. She is an absolute Angel and I am overjoyed that our paths have crossed. And YES!... I received all the answers that I was seeking :)

Marie Michel, USA

Cant' Put into Words I cant even put it all into words. I felt SO SO leveled while I was with Aarya, it was incredible to bounce ideas and thoughts when I was on a journey through a tumultuous time in my life. A simple way of articulating how the trip was, was very centering. I will forever remember the simplicity that the 4 days held for me and pushed me in the right direction for finding my groove in my emotional journey that has been so sought after. Spiritual is an understatement - Alex

Alex, Canada

My five days with Aarya were so special. From the very first moment at airport pickup, I witnessed the intention she brings to her life - she greeted me with fruit, anticipating my needs before I even knew them myself, and I was so appreciative. There is devotion woven into every meal she prepared, fruit or otherwise - a particular kind of love that cannot be manufactured, only offered, and I tasted it in everything she made. What moved me most profoundly was the sense of groundedness that settled into me over those days - a rootedness I had not felt in a long time. I arrived with plantar fasciitis, real and persistent pain in my feet, the very part of me meant to connect with the earth. I still carry the pain today, but Aarya guided me toward an entirely different relationship with it. She taught me to meet my pain with tenderness rather than resistance, with love rather than frustration - a shift that is quietly transforming how I inhabit my own body. Among the many gifts of the retreat was an unplanned opportunity to witness a volcanic episode at Kīlauea. We (she!) drove three hours - at night - to witness it. This was a heavy lift for her and definitely altered the course of our week, but she was flexible and generous, open to the moment, and lived it with me fully. We stood before that ancient, living force and felt how small and sacred our presence can be. It was a series of moments I will never forget - the connection I felt to the land, and to her, was so powerful. Aarya holds space with such intuitive grace, whether for silent contemplation, a shared meal, or the raw majesty of creation itself unfolding before us. I left transformed - lighter in spirit, more at peace with my body, pain included - and profoundly grateful for the journey with her.

Jess, USA

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Aarya Joy

Hawaii, USA

Aarya'a Journey in Holistic Healing & Self-Discovery After earning a Master’s degree in Exercise Physiology and Nutrition, Aarya immersed herself in the teachings of yogic traditions, the Vedas, Ayurv...

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English and Español

Teaching for 11 months

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What's Included

4 night Accommodation

Airport Pick-up and drop-off

Fresh, organic, plant based cleansing meals

Lifestyle mentoring (if desired)

Relationship readiness coaching (if desired)

1:1 authentic relating

Pure Love and beauty

Guided nature immersions

Guided Meditations

Ocean swim - beach immersions

Transportation during retreat

Barefoot grounding walks

Digital Detox - disconnect to deep connect

Creative expression, art, coloring, writing

Restorative yoga, energizing movement

Not Included

Flight tickets

Insurance

Visas

Taxes and fees

Additional activities

FAQs

Guest requirements

  • Pre-booking video call

Cancellation policy

The remaining balance for the retreat is due 14 days prior to the start date. If this balance is paid earlier than these 14 days, you are eligible to cancel and receive a full refund of this remaining balance, provided you do so at least 14 days before the retreat begins.