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Let Go Of Any Attachments Or Clinging With The Ocean

by Oana Dragan

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Often times in life we grasp onto things for a perceived sense of safety. Fearful of abandonment. Afraid people will leave us. But we needn’t hold onto things for the sake of security. But how exactly do we learn to release? The ocean can teach us many powerful lessons about letting go. This simple but highly effective practice was inspired by Nicole Vignola from Nicole's Neuroscience who talked about visualizing an ocean to let go of her anxious attachments. Hearing her inspiring story on a podcast struck me so profoundly, that I knew I had to create a meditation to help people allow things, people, and places to come and go just like the waves on a shore. Now let's take a dip!

ClingingNon AttachmentBreathing ExercisesTrustGroundingMeditationShort Breathing ExercisesLetting GoOceansOcean VisualizationsReleasing AttachmentsVisualizationsAttachment

Transcript

Hello and welcome to this meditation to help you learn to release attachments.

My name is Juana and I am honored to be letting go with you today.

Let's take a dip in the ocean,

Shall we?

To prepare,

Lay yourself flat on a surface of your choosing,

Whether that be a yoga mat on the floor,

A bed,

Or a couch.

Seated upright is perfectly fine too if you need.

Whatever works best for you in this present moment.

Close your eyes and gently breathe in through your nose,

Mouth closed,

For a count of 6 seconds.

You don't need to fill your lungs too full of air.

Now exhale for 6 seconds,

Allowing your breath to leave your body slowly and gently without forcing it.

We will do it together twice,

And then I'll leave you to it for a few rounds.

So breathe in 2,

3,

4,

5,

6.

Breathe out 2,

3,

4,

5,

6.

In 2,

3,

4,

5,

6.

Out 2,

3,

4,

5,

6.

On your own now.

As you continue with this same relaxing breathing pattern,

I'd like you to imagine that you're sitting on a beach,

Watching the ocean waves go in and out.

Each 6 second inhale as a wave coming into shore,

And each 6 second exhale as a wave contracting back out.

Feel your belly expanding and retracting with every breath,

Just like a wave going in and out.

Allow yourself to enter into an even deeper and deeper state of relaxation as you move into a breathing pattern that is calming for you.

Take a moment to notice how peaceful and grounded you feel.

When you're ready to leave the comfort of the shore,

Go ahead and make your first few steps into the ocean.

Feel the soothing feeling of the wet sand beneath your toes,

Waves crashing lovingly at your feet.

If you ever feel worried or afraid,

Just glance back at the shore where you will see your friends and family lovingly supporting and watching you from afar.

You are completely safe and guided here.

Now what are you waiting for?

Playfully take the plunge in,

Diving underneath the surf and resurfacing on the other side of it.

Swim out of it,

And when you feel far yet safe enough from the coast,

Lay on your back and allow the ocean to carry you.

Notice the sky so strikingly blue and white above you,

The sun shining and smiling back at you.

Enjoy this moment,

Really soak it in.

As you float peacefully in the ocean,

Imagine things,

People,

Places,

Even ideas in your life floating your way.

If they come your way,

Allow them to come,

But don't attach to them.

If they have to float away,

Let them go.

Allow it to come,

And let it leave.

If you try to cling to anything,

You'll sink.

Instead,

If you simply allow whatever may come,

And allow it to go whenever it may,

You'll notice that with or without,

You are completely fine.

You can enjoy it while it lasts,

And be perfectly alright after it leaves.

So allow it to come,

And let it leave.

And if it has to leave,

Trust that soon enough,

Something else will come your way,

Just like you trust the sun to return each day.

Often times in life we grasp onto things,

Fearful of abandonment,

Afraid people will leave us,

Wanting to latch on for a perceived safety.

So that's why you're here in this water,

To do the work you need to do to learn to release.

You needn't hold onto things for the sake of security,

Because as you can see,

You're perfectly fine floating in the ocean of life,

Allowing all the waves,

People,

Places and things of life to come and go.

Imagine whatever you are clinging onto in your own life come and go,

Like all the waves around you.

Repeat silently to yourself,

Really taking in the impact of these words,

As the shore takes in the powerful impact of the waves,

I can easily let it all come and go.

I release the need to cling to people,

Places and things.

I allow all that doesn't serve me to float away.

I trust that everything in my life stays as long as it should.

Everything comes and leaves in perfect timing.

I allow things to leave when they want to.

I am enough as I am.

I am centered in me.

And so it is.

Allow your body to gracefully float back to shore.

Sense your earth to ground connection,

Bringing you to the here and now.

Wiggle your fingers,

Then your toes,

And slowly open your eyes.

Thank you for joining me in the water,

The ocean can really teach us so much.

Return to this meditation anytime you need to let go,

It's always here for you.

As always,

Let me know how your journey went,

And follow along for more to come.

It's been a pleasure floating with you.

Meet your Teacher

Oana DraganToronto, ON, Canada

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Recent Reviews

Vida

May 11, 2025

Lovely! I actually love floating in the ocean, I do it every time I go. Thank you!

Jeffrey

May 8, 2025

Wonderful. The ocean is my happy place and there is a lot of practicality in this teaching. A beautiful way to start my day. Thank you for “taking me there”, Oana. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Seyi

April 29, 2024

A calming practice for releasing attachments. Being at the ocean is a deeply spiritual and sacred experience for me. Thus the theme of this meditation was all the more powerful for me as I imagined floating on the surface and relinquishing control of my body to the waves. The part about sinking when we cling to things really stayed with me. It made me think about how sometimes holding on to ideas of how things should be causes resistance, becoming a burden that weighs me down in negativity. So, this idea of floating on the water and letting the waves flow through me felt quite freeing. I imagined some current (no pun intended! 😇) feelings of disappointment as ocean waves. Instead of holding on to the feelings like a dock into the ocean, I imagined being with these waves as they flow across my body. I am still processing these feelings; I am honestly not there yet in letting go. But this practice was helpful for being more in my body about the process and imagining the feeling of release.

Nick

December 8, 2023

Oana this was a wonderful session. Great visualization and recentered me as I got into my afternoon. Thanks for sharing.

Guillermo

December 8, 2023

Here i am once agarra, Oana. This week i wanted to share more time with you. And this was a lovely one. You know? The beach and the ocean are really important for me, they are the place where i can feel really at peace. It's not easy to release some things and i'm at a moment of life where i think that i have to release a couple of things, ideas for example. And actually , i do feel better doing it, little by little. Even if i'm at a point where i'm lonely most of the time, it's one of tose moments where i'm truly learning a Lot about myself. I also like to know about you, so, what are the things that today you are not holding to? Thank you, as always for your beautiful voice and desire to be here. Have a wonderful day, Oana ✨

Jack

December 7, 2023

Great encouragement and reminder, Oana - everything has its time. I can relax and trust The Universe. 🌠Thank you! 🙏

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