When will I meet my partner?
This is the title of this podcast.
My name is Nathalie Paul.
I'm a spiritual healer and movement facilitator and nutritionist and tonight I want to share this conversation with you.
It's about when will I meet my partner?
You might be in this situation.
If you are listening to this,
I believe you are asking yourself quietly but obsessively when is a perfect time for me to meet them.
I want to give you an answer that might not be the one that you hear often.
So this is why stay tuned and stay till the end.
I really trust that there is something for you here.
This is the approach of spiritual healing.
So I'm not a psychotherapist,
I'm not a psychologist.
I'm super interested in those modalities and I think they have a lot of value.
I'm immensely grateful for love coaches as well but though what I'm bringing in here to the table is something different and I invite you to put your presence,
To open your heart and your mind to this.
So if you are single and if you want a partner,
You might be consciously or unconsciously thinking those thoughts.
You might be thinking I am not perfect enough right now to meet someone.
I have a lot of things to sort out before I can meet someone.
I have some personal challenges in my life so definitely it will not,
It's not the right time for me to meet someone.
I am not fit enough.
I am still affected,
Impacted by my previous breakup.
I have a lot to heal.
I have a lot to deal with before I can meet someone.
I am not happy enough about myself to meet that perfect partner.
So take a moment and be honest with yourself.
Are you thinking those thoughts?
If it is the case then I encourage you to keep going.
Very very often we believe that we have to be in a happy place in order to meet that partner and it is something that we hear a lot and I'm absolutely grateful as I said before for all the teachings and I have received about this but very often we hear if you want to meet your person it's very important that you are happy about your life by yourself so basically you are not seeking that happiness from an external source.
I agree in some ways.
I agree if you are in a happy place,
Everything is going great,
You have lots of money,
You have a roof,
You have a beautiful career,
You have connections,
Friendships,
A community,
Your soul is fulfilled,
Your health is fantastic,
Your fitness is at its peak level.
Wow yeah you're probably ready for a partner though.
Hey something I want to bring here is think a minute about friendships.
Yeah I want to bring you back to something else.
Think a moment about friendships.
Do you wait until you are perfect perfect perfect at all levels to make a good connection,
To attract a beautiful deep friendship?
Have you had those moments in your life where you were actually not feeling in your best shape,
Seeking for clarity,
Maybe confused about your life,
Going through a breakup,
Maybe actually friendship breakups as well,
Not feeling that great about your financial situation,
Your location and then you meet that friend and that friend becomes without a doubt someone you really value in your life.
Maybe it has happened for you,
Maybe not but think about that.
Maybe that state you were in when you met that friend,
What sort of state was it?
I trust it was certainly a state of self acceptance.
You were certainly okay with where you were at that stage to actually introduce yourself as you are,
As you were.
My point with this short podcast,
I want to be giving you that insight.
If you can be in full acceptance of where you are at,
If you can love yourself unconditionally,
If you can be who you are,
Then is the time for your perfect ideal partner to enter your life.
You don't have to be happy,
You don't have to be anything.
The key here is to accept yourself.
I'm not saying it's easy,
I'm not saying it's easy.
The work of unconditional acceptance is for the brave,
For the ones who are ready to feel the emotions,
Become aware of their thoughts,
Embrace themselves fully.
Everything,
Everything that they are.
So my point here my friend,
And I hope it's giving you a bit of relief,
To meet your next partner,
Your ideal partner,
It's not about being happy,
It's about being in acceptance of who you are.
Once you have reached that stage,
Boom,
Boom,
Bingo!
Whatever you want to say,
Yay!
But if you want to know more about self-love,
Empowerment,
Taking responsibility for yourself,
Accepting yourself,
Check my course,
The Keys to Empowerment and Freedom.
There are some key concepts there that will help you to be on that path,
And right now I want to say I'm super excited for you,
And I hope you are excited as well.
So it's not about being happy,
It's about being confident in being you,
No matter what is happening.
Thanks guys,
Have a beautiful,
Beautiful day,
Beautiful evening.
Bye!
