Welcoming you yeah right here with you as we explore the boundaries of a sovereign pelvis this is a visualization for energetic boundaries so giving yourself a moment to be in your space noticing if you can be in this space by yourself noticing that the boundary is no one interrupts me in this moment this is my time i'm here for myself And that matters more than anything else right now.
So settling into some kind of stillness,
But giving yourself that time to do so,
And really giving yourself a moment to find what would be a nested space,
A more comfortable space.
Really arriving here,
Orienting by looking around the room that you're in,
Noticing what's inside the room,
Maybe outside the window,
Looking around you and taking in breaths as you do so,
Settling your body,
Noticing what you need.
I'm right here with you.
Yeah,
And just allowing the body to arrive slowly.
There's no performing of relaxation in this space.
Just allow yourself to be here.
What could you do to be just 10% more comfortable in the space?
Feeling the support beneath you,
Maybe there's a chair or the floor or the bed,
The earth,
Your own rooting.
Feeling that support.
I'm right here with you.
Noticing your breath.
But not changing it.
The inhales and the exhales.
Gently bringing in an awareness with the breath down into the body,
The chest,
The belly and then dropping into the pelvis,
The bowl of the body,
The root.
That place that so many women have been taught to override,
Disconnect from,
Tighten against,
Breathe into that space that exists there for you.
The centre of your body.
Today we're not coming here to fix the pelvis.
There is nothing to fix.
We are coming here to remember its intelligence,
Its very clever discernment,
Its boundaries.
Taking in a slower inhale now.
And imagine that pelvis,
This pelvis,
Your pelvis,
As a living space within you.
It's not an object,
It's not a performance,
It's not something available for constant access but a sovereign landscape within you.
Slowing down the breath if that feels welcomed again,
Taking in this slower inhale into the sacred inner terrain and notice what this space feels like today.
Perhaps it feels spacious,
Perhaps it feels guarded,
Perhaps it feels exhausted,
Perhaps quiet,
Perhaps alive and fertile and creative.
Whatever's here,
Notice it.
And taking those thorough breaths to be with it.
And what we're going to do is bring in a practice that you can implement at any given time to remember this intelligent boundary that exists within you.
This sacred inner terrain that you can return to at any given moment.
And there is no correct experience within this and there's no correct way of doing this.
This is your journey and your practice and your pelvis.
This is an invitation to be with the words and the visualization that arises from creating this space.
And your space is simply that,
It's yours.
So be with whatever comes up for you.
Imagine a soft light,
It can be any colour that comes to you,
The first colour that comes to you,
And imagine this soft light beginning to gather around the pelvis,
This space,
And it's not an armour,
This light is not the armour of the space,
But a soft light that arises from around the pelvis.
And it's not walls,
And it's not built from fear,
But it's simply a responsive boundary of light up and radiates from this space.
Continue to breathe into the body and allow for that light to expand and become a stronger color,
Whatever color has come up for you as you breathe into the pelvis and this space.
This is an intelligent boundary.
It's a boundary that can open and a boundary that can close.
It's a boundary that can discern.
So just notice the colour,
The texture of this boundary as it appears just naturally in this moment.
Breath itself.
Be with whatever's coming up for you.
And this boundary does not disconnect you from others,
It simply allows your body to remain in relationship with itself.
Taking in another breath now and really being in this moment to reflect on where have I allowed access to myself beyond what my body truly wanted.
Noticing that question and what arises.
Where have I allowed access to myself beyond what my body truly wanted?
And I'm right here with you,
Witnessing you and holding you in this moment.
Continue to be with the breath and that support.
Notice what arises without judgement.
The pelvis often tightens when boundaries have been repeatedly crossed.
When boundaries have been crossed emotionally,
Physically,
Energetically,
Relationally.
Nurtures.
Notice.
Be curious.
Remain curious.
And if any tightening exists,
Or any sensations arise when you think about that question,
Or will you remain in this space,
In this boundaried space?
Notice what comes up in this remembrance.
Because the body always remembers.
And imagine that this sovereign boundary strengthening is part and parcel of your journey now.
And you continue to strengthen this light and this boundary gently around you.
It's soft and it's clear.
You don't need to harden to protect yourself,
And you don't need to disappear to remain safe.
Your body is allowed to pause,
Discern,
Pull back,
Rest,
Say no,
Change its mind,
Need more space,
Move slowly,
Protect its energy.
Feel those truths land somewhere within your body.
Within perhaps the pelvis and notice what happens to the pelvis as permission.
Returns.
Does the jaw soften?
Does the breath deepen?
Does emotion arise?
And perhaps nothing happens.
And perhaps nothing changes immediately at all.
But again,
Remain curious and open.
And just be here in this light,
With this breath,
Feeling rooted on the earth,
Being held in this space.
Continue to return to the pace of the body.
Trust the pace of your body.
And visualize yourself now moving through life with this sovereign pelvis.
You're not over-explaining yourself,
You're not abandoning your instincts,
You're not forcing openness when your body wants to contract,
But you're listening,
Responding,
You're opening,
You're curious to whatever's coming up for you.
Visualize yourself moving in this way,
With this light,
With this breath,
Being held by the Great Mother.
Honouring your own signals.
And here you may want to repeat silently or openly to yourself that my body is allowed boundaries.
My pelvis does not exist for constant access.
I can be soft and discerning at the same time.
I no longer abandon myself to remain accepted.
I'm going to repeat those,
And you can repeat with me,
Or you could write them down after,
And return to them whenever you need,
And return to this recording whenever you need,
To deepen into those boundaries that exist through that light and that support within the space.
My body is allowed boundaries.
My pelvis does not exist for constant access.
Eye can be soft and discerning at the same time.
I no longer abandon myself to remain accepted.
Taking in one final breath into the pelvis,
Feeling the boundary around you,
Not as separation but as self-respect.
And when you are ready,
Slowly return to the room that you are in.
Bringing your body back with you,
Witnessing you and holding you.
With so much love.