Welcome to Mohanji Speaks.
Good day friends.
Hope you are doing well.
It has been a while since I spoke to you.
Today we talk about a strong personality.
We all love to be strong as personalities.
And how do we create a strong personality?
I would like to give you some thoughts about it.
Which if you can mould into a method,
It may help you to be a strong personality.
Your scriptures have said that one who speaks less and only truth and one who speaks honest and truthful words means with genuine intentions.
One who spends only for the right reasons,
Purposefully.
One who eats sufficient food and nutritious food,
Only consumes one third of his stomach and one who can control his senses or hold them back from breaking free and roaming on sensory objects will always have peace on earth while living.
I would like to continue with the same thought about making a strong personality.
What are the pillars or what are the benchmarks?
First of all,
It should be totally uncomplicated.
We should be very uncomplicated.
We love children and the main reason for that is their innocence and they are uncomplicated.
And I usually like elegance and humility in people.
The opposite is arrogance and pride.
We must always remember that we are always communicating to the world.
Our body is communicating,
Our eyes are communicating,
Our actions are communicating.
It's not just words.
We are communicating to the world in numerous ways.
So we must be well aware of it.
If we are authentic or if we are humble,
Our communication becomes more acceptable.
To have and to maintain an ideal personality,
I have thought of 10 points which might be useful to you too.
Number one is authenticity.
We should be authentic,
Genuine.
We are unique and it should show as authenticity.
Number two is integrity.
Our integrity should be maintained at any cost which also includes reliability and various other factors.
Integrity is very important in life.
What we say,
We must do.
If we cannot do,
We must not say.
Simple things like that.
Third is consistency.
We should be very consistent in our relationships,
In our attitude,
In our love and care for the society or in any actions or any words,
Expressions.
We should be consistent.
We cannot love today and hate tomorrow,
Again love the next day like that.
We should be consistent in our love.
We should be consistent in our activities.
We should be consistent.
Four is humility.
Humility is always appreciated.
Our humility will open all doors for us.
So humility is extremely essential.
Five is love and care.
We should be genuinely loving.
We should be genuinely caring about all beings around us,
Not just human beings.
Whatever you have around you,
You should love,
You should care.
All the plants,
Birds,
Animals,
People,
They should be love and care consistently.
Six is compassion.
Passion is very essential for having a solid,
Sound personality.
Seven is kindness.
Kindness makes a strong character.
If we are kind,
We are strong.
Eight is selflessness.
Selflessness is the sign of true wisdom.
Wise people will be selfless people.
The other side is selfishness.
Selflessness alienates us from people,
From the society,
From the world.
Selflessness makes us part of the world.
And that's also a sign of right awareness that we came with nothing and we will go with nothing.
Whatever we have now,
We have to be left behind.
We are only custodians of what we have.
Nothing we can carry when we die.
So with this clear awareness,
We can live selflessly.
And that selflessness will be a very very strong part of our personality if we practice.
Nine is honesty or truthfulness.
If we are honest and truthful,
We may not have many friends probably because many people are not capable of being honest and truthful.
But we will be remembered as somebody reliable.
Our honesty and truthfulness will take us a long way.
Ten is non-violence in thoughts,
Words,
Action.
That's a responsibility.
To have a great personality,
We should have non-violence inside us in our thoughts,
In our expressions as well as actions.
If we consider all these ten points and work on it,
You can assess whether these ingredients are part of your character,
Your personality.
And if it is not there,
You can incorporate it,
Fine-tune yourself.
And I believe if you contemplate on it long enough,
Strong enough,
You will come out as great personalities.
I wish you that.
This is Mohinji for you.
