5 Qualities A Narcissist Will Seek To Destroy In You

When you meet a narcissist, you won't automatically know you're dealing with someone who exists inside a movie they play inside their head. You won't know that they can't perceive you as a 3D person, who is beautifully imperfect. Instead, you will be idealized so that the narcissist feels great about being with you. You will be love-bombed as a consequence of their fantasy and need to feel uplifted by their choice in you. YOU Dear One, do not actually exist to them. Once the narcissist grows bored of you, in time, their appetite for power, control, and domination will begin to surface. When this happens, they will look to destroy beautiful human qualities in you. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, codependency and narcissistic abuse recovery coach, helps you understand how to hold onto your sanity and your personal power as the mask begins to crumble.

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Lisa, I want to thank you for so many of your talk recently that have made me think and ask a lot of questions not just of myself though of what is going on in the family dynamic… So I have a question for you today you talked about a narcissist, not showing empathy … I guess my question becomes do they become really good at faking empathy when it serves them well and they can perhaps derive something from it whether it be immediate or potentially in the future? I’m really struggling here. As I find out my sister is not who she is and I’ve been lied to so many times your last words really struck accord with me… I am enough… I deserve a good life, and I am a good human being!

I enjoyed this and very helpful to get a great perspective on how they work.

in the person.

Thanks for explanations that are easy to understand. I have listened to all your talks on Insight Timer, and it would be great when you use terms like trauma, bonding or triangulating… You could quickly explain what they mean. I think I know what they mean, but that would be helpful.

Top notch

So helpful. Thank you.