A Graceful Exit: Divorcing In Love

Ending a marriage doesn't have to be full of anger and resentment. Sometimes this is unavoidable. But in my case, we were able to leave (after 20 years), heal and remain friends to this day. I believe it is partly because of tantra and truly taking a spiritual perspective which helped keep us centred, compassionate and loving through the process.

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Thanks for sharing such an intimate part of life that is all over the spectrum, from being darkly devastating to being a great, freeing relief. I’m new to tantra but this is the essence of lovingly honoring the truth. Thank you! 🙏🏼 💞

I am just going through the divorce, and this what I wish for 🙏

Beautiful - it gives me hope and something to strive for with the challenges ahead. Thank you for sharing!

This was very helpful to hear. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏🏻

Thanks for your wonderful wisdom! I am going to schedule a consultation with you for an hour in the near future. Blake

I have much admiration, respect as well you both chose kindness. It's shows your heart on both side and that you both truly care to do the hard thing with dignity

Raw and honest. Very inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏🏼

thank you.

Admirable and definitely a goal

Thank you for this. Came to me in such a perfect time…next week we’re signing the divorce papers, we’ve separated for almost 2 yrs. and we have better communication nowadays! God bless you and your family!

A dear friend of my has had a same kind of divorce. Kids a lot younger. They are still good friends. It's possible if both parties want it

So many words resignated in me. First time listening and I know I will listen again

Thank you very much for sharing this! It was a balsamic hearing! I am really Grateful! 🙏

Beautiful! I asked the universe to help me and this was the gift. Thank you.

Bookmarked forever!

Excellent, for me today is my first day separated. i feel hurt, betrayed, sad but I know i will get up. Thanks for these minutes. 🙏🏼

TY TY that was a great example of conscious uncoupling. I'm glad that you two decided to do what was best for you rather than feeding into the pressure of external validation b/c truly a relationship is between the parties involved.

It was great that you explained your definition of what failure & success meant. As well as explaining the history of relationships/marriage. Very insightful.

I truly believe once growth ends for one or both parties or however many parties involved & no longer desire the same thing, then I assume the karmic lessons are completed & it is time to separate.

In my opinion relationships are designed to bring you closer to yourself. Whether it is a peaceful relationship or not, once you have divided directions & no longer have common relationship goals, it is difficult to steer a divided parallel & expect it to be successful.

Life is too short to settle. There are so many new lessons to be learned, so hopefully this global pandemic highlights the importance of really focusing on what is important to each individual & ensuring that they reach for those goals.

Since, tomorrow isn't promised to any of us, in my opinion there is not a reason to live a life that isn't aligned w/ oneself personal visions & purposes just to appease/satiate external people & societal norms.
Namaste🌞 Peace💃Shalom🐒

I can't thank you enough for sharing your story! I have been separated for 4 months, and it is inspiring to know that a friendly and loving end to my marriage is possible.

Thank you so much! What a truly loving offering of your own beautiful experience and uplifting perspective. I know my daughter who may be undergoing the beginning of separation in her marriage will benefit in hearing these words, as I know the love between her and her husband will always be caring and kind.

I have read both of Katrina's books, and cherish each article that she posts. Times are changing, and so is each one of us. Old dogma doesn't necessarily have to be adhered to. Katrina's voice is so pleasant to listen to also.

Thank you! I really needed to hear this.