Good,
Bad,
Wrong or right,
Evil versus love.
Is there a difference?
Are they one and the same?
This will be in a podcast format.
My name is Holly Hall from AskHollyHall.
Com and I want to talk about,
In which I talk about with many of my clients,
About good,
Bad,
Right or wrong,
Evil or love,
Judgment or observation.
Often we judge ourselves when we think of bad,
Wrong or evil.
We judge others when we think of evil,
Bad or wrong.
Yet sometimes we even judge others when we see love and good.
And we may even judge ourselves as we may sit in envy,
Admiration,
Wanting,
Desire,
When we see that in another.
And is that not often coupled with a distaste for ourselves,
A wrong or a bad for ourselves?
I want to teach you in the next few minutes that there isn't much difference between right,
Wrong,
Good or bad,
Judgment or observation.
It is your subjective and objective.
Response to your life.
When you are in the midst of growth,
Advancing yourself,
Creating more of awareness,
Evolution,
We are releasing blocks.
We are releasing parts of our personalities and our behavioral patterns that are holding us back.
Often many of those behavioral patterns were developed in childhood and they were developed in childhood to help you survive,
Understand,
In order to fit in,
Get along,
Possibly not upset another person,
Be liked,
Nurtured,
Cared for.
The more traumatic your childhood is,
The more behavioral patterns that you would have used in order to survive that childhood,
To manage it,
To understand it.
And so therefore those characteristics,
Those behavioral patterns benefited you.
Bravo!
Be proud of yourself.
You are such a young,
Young soul,
Such a young,
Young human,
Knowing what to do to survive that.
Did you become aggressive,
Feisty?
Did you shut down,
Make yourself small,
Non-confrontational,
Not upset another person?
Were you the good girl?
Were you the perfect boy?
Did you do what you were told?
Were you responsible,
Grown up?
Did you take care of mom,
Take care of dad,
Take care of the older siblings?
Did you take control over your emotions so that they didn't spill over and so that you wouldn't be reprimanded for overacting,
Overreacting,
Underreacting?
Were you not hurt and therefore you stopped communicating so that you wouldn't get disappointed or aggravate somebody else with your insistent questions and curiosity?
That's how you survived.
And that is an amazing technique.
But now,
In this time in your life,
You no longer need those techniques.
You no longer need that behavioral pattern.
So you are going to dissolve them.
And whenever you witness yourself making yourself small,
Controlling a situation,
Not sharing your emotions,
Being non-confrontational or feisty and aggressive and battling anything that gets in your way,
And you're upset with yourself when you notice these behavior patterns,
I want you to say this is not good,
Bad,
Right or wrong.
It's just change.
It's just evolution.
You are simply witnessing and observing your behavior.
When you say that it is right,
Wrong,
Good or bad,
You are resting in a place of judgment.
I want you to reframe that and make it observation.
Observe yourself.
Look at that behavioral pattern.
I am so proud that I developed that because of my childhood experience,
But I no longer need it.
And you may have to say that every day,
From months on end.
And it will begin to heal.
It will begin to free you of your blocks of what's holding you back from the now,
From the here,
From the present,
So that you can move forward to that better job,
Better health,
Amazing love in your life.
You can open up your heart.
Give love,
Receive praise,
Value who you are.
And so often good,
Bad,
Right or wrong is a judgment that you make when you are in transition.
Evil and love.
Love is your birthright.
Love is everywhere.
Love is in nature,
In the water,
In the air,
In the weather,
In all of the man animals,
The plant life,
The trees,
The flowers,
The sun,
The moon.
It's not the human romantic love like we see from Hollywood or in books or in song.
It is a different kind of love that is even hard to conceptualize as a human.
If there is evil,
And we know that we have seen it,
It is the void of love.
It is void of love.
So it's not as powerful of love.
It's actually lack of love.
It has no placement.
It has no energy.
It has no substance.
It has no form.
It is simply lack of love.
It is a choice.
It is a choice to be in lack.
It is a choice not to open up your heart and bring that love in.
And only humans do that.
And so you can sit in judgment around evil and love.
Or you can observe that someone,
Some organization,
An entity is void of love.
Not that heartfelt,
Romantic,
Sensual,
Endearing love that we see in Hollywood.
The essence of love.
So remember when you criticize.
When you're unhappy.
When you're frustrated.
When you're sad.
Within yourself.
When you judge yourself or others.
In essence,
There is no good,
Bad,
Right or wrong.
Judgment or observation.
You are simply in transition.
You are perfect,
Just as you are.
Imperfectly perfect.
Beautiful and strong.
Challenged and gifted.
Soft and hard.
Introverted and extroverted.
Thinking and feeling.
Curious and knowing.
Questioning and answered.
You are both sides of everything.
And when it's out of balance,
You will observe that.
In that observation,
You may judge yourself,
But you don't need to.
You are just observing that there is an imbalance.
And while observing that imbalance,
Organically,
You will begin to balance out a block,
A challenge,
A resistance,
A wall.
You will organically create a balance.
Because that is natural.
That is the law of nature.
You are perfect as you are at this moment and at this moment and at this moment.
Namaste.
