Yeah,
So I do a lot of readings for couples,
But they're not always together.
I'm doing a reading for a husband,
Trying to understand the wife,
Doing a reading for the girlfriend,
Trying to understand the new partner,
Trying to help two partners individually.
But I have successfully worked with couples together,
And that is the best way to use astrology as a valuable tool for couples.
And there's several reasons for this.
So first of all,
Understanding compatibility.
Astrology provides insights into compatibility of individuals based on their charts.
I analyze the positions of the planets,
And this helps me understand their personality traits,
Helping couples understand each other's strengths,
Weaknesses,
Potentials,
And compatibility and conflict.
We all have conflict.
Many of the times it's misunderstood.
And when the couples hear it through my eyes,
Through looking at your souls and you as individuals,
And also looking at childhood influences and trauma,
This helps the communication styles between the two of them.
And so that's the second reason you want to have this done.
Astrology can shed a light on communication and preferences and styles.
What's the meaning behind why they say what they say?
What is their motivation?
Why do they do what they do?
We instinctively,
Without even thinking about it,
Assume that the other person is doing things the way they're doing things based on how,
Why we would do the same thing.
And that is never,
Ever the case.
For example,
An individual with a strong Mercury influence might communicate more analytical while somebody with a more Moon influence may express more emotions and be much more open that way.
So understanding these differences can enhance communication within a relationship.
And this helps you avoid conflict or creates conflict resolution.
That's the third reason you want to have this done.
By analyzing astrological aspects related to the conflict and resolutions,
Couples can gain insight into how they approach disagreements and challenges.
This awareness also allows them to find more constructive ways to navigate conflict and maintain a harmonious relationship,
Sort of like knowing each other's different love languages.
But this is also helps with individual personal growth.
We are forced into wanting to have a partner,
Most of us,
And I say forced into because it just seems to be,
Since we can think about what we're going to be when we grow up,
We think about being in a relationship.
And we don't know why.
Why do we think about that?
Because it's for our own spiritual and personal growth.
Astrology encourages personal growth and self-awareness.
When individuals understand their astrological profiles,
They can work on personal development with positive impact in the relationship.
When individuals support each other's growth,
Often this experience creates a deeper connection.
And then there's timing and transits.
This is what's called the predictive part of astrology.
And I consider the planetary transit because this can be influencing specific periods in the individual's lives.
So you may be thinking,
Oh,
My partner is acting different or unusual.
Is this forever?
I'm starting to panic.
I don't understand what's going on.
And I can look at it and go,
Well,
This is only a six-month transit,
Or this is only a one-year transit.
And this is why this individual is doing what they're doing and acting the way that they're acting.
And this is how you can support each other through this.
Understanding these transits can help couples navigate times of challenge and change and opportunities.
It provides a roadmap that both personal and relationship development can occur.
Now what about shared interests and values?
These are very important.
A lot of people think,
Well,
I have to have sexual attraction or I have to have physical attraction or there has to be some kind of mojo there.
But honestly,
If you don't have any shared interests or values in the long run,
It doesn't matter how much love you have and how much attraction you have,
It will probably fail.
So astrology can highlight shared interests,
Values,
And goals between partners,
Aligning life's path and aspirations,
Fosters a sense of unity and shared purpose,
Contribution to a more fulfilled and meaningful connection.
And you guys know,
I always talk about the oxytocin,
Serotonin,
Dopamine factor,
Those happy hormones.
And when we feel connected with something or someone,
We feel all those happy hormones come on.
So prevention of misunderstandings,
That's number seven.
Misunderstandings often arise from differences in perspectives and approach.
Now astrology,
When I work with couples,
It helps couples anticipate potential challenges and to celebrate each other's unique qualities,
Minimizing the likelihood of misinterpretation.
Then there's number eight,
Timing for major life events.
As an astrologer,
I can offer guidance where there are certain times for significant life events,
Such as marriage,
Starting a family,
Making important decisions,
Such as moving.
Couples can use astrological insights to make informed choices about the timing of major milestones.
And of course,
My favorite is having more empathy and compassion because we are connecting with each other to find a higher level of love and a higher level of compassion.
Whether relationship works or not,
That is the lessons we are here to learn when we connect with people.
And this is all relationships,
Right?
We're not just talking about couple relationships,
This can also be around a relationship with your daughter,
Your father,
Your mother,
Your son,
Your neighbor,
Your cousin,
Your sister.
These can be used in all aspects as well because knowing each other's astrological profile fosters empathy and compassion,
Recognizing that certain behaviors or reactions are influenced by cosmic energies,
Encouraging a nonjudgmental and understanding,
Promoting a more supportive and loving partner.
And then finally,
10,
Fun and shared exploration.
Exploring each other through astrology together can be a fun and bonding experience for couples.
Learning about each other's charts and discussing astrological concepts,
Discussing difference in behaviors and new perspectives can deepen the connection and create shared interest.
Now while astrology can offer valuable tools,
It is essential to approach this with an open mind and recognize that individual's experiences may vary.
It should be used as a complementary tool for self-awareness and relationship enhancement.
