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Meditation for Anxiety, Grief & Stress

by Heather Stang

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Based on the proven Relaxation Response technique, this meditation is designed to reduce anxiety and cultivate deep relaxation. It is ideal for anyone suffering from grief,anxiety, and/or stress. While I do not directly address grief in this recording - the practice itself is particularly helpful for the grieving body and mind. It helps with a number of grief-related symptoms, including insomnia, anxiety, mild to moderate depression, ruminating throughts, nausea, and muscle tension. It is the first practice I teach during my 8 week Mindfulness & Grief Group. Once the body systems are stablized, we move on to more inquiry and meaning making practices that help with grief. That being said, this practice can work for anyone who wishes to relax. You do not need to have a "calm" mind to benefit. Listen to this guided relaxation in a warm, quiet room, and ask to be undisturbed for at least 30 minutes. If you practice in your bed before sleep, it is OK to just drift away at any time.

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Transcript

Find a comfortable seated position or lie down on the floor on supportive blankets.

Close your eyes or gaze softly at a point in front of you.

Imagine that you could soften your belly and take in three full expansive breaths,

Filling your belly up like a balloon on the inhale and completely letting everything go on the exhale.

Now return back to a natural easy rhythm of breath.

For now you don't need to breathe in any special way,

Just notice.

Notice the breath coming and going in and out of your body.

Counting backwards and starting with the number 293,

Begin to count your exhales.

293,

292,

291 and so on.

If you forget what number you're on,

That's okay,

Just start again somewhere close by.

Now allowing the counting to stop,

Turn your attention to the place in your body where your breath is the most noticeable right now,

Perhaps in your belly,

Your lungs or your throat or maybe somewhere around your nostrils.

Just observe your breath.

As I mentioned,

A part of your body,

Imagine the possibility of releasing all tension in that place.

Imagine that you could just let go of anything that you're holding on to in your bones,

Joints and muscles,

While simultaneously noticing the rhythm of your breath.

Begin with your feet and bring all of your awareness down into the soles of your feet.

Then begin to work your way up your body,

Inviting each part to relax,

As I mentioned it.

Your toes,

Ankles.

Invite your calf muscles to completely let go.

Allow your knees to be soft and at rest.

Imagine releasing any tension in your thighs,

Noticing the front,

Back and sides of this large muscle grouping.

Soften your belly and abdominal muscles.

Imagine that your ribs and lungs could move with ease.

Notice and relax your back,

Your spine and the muscles.

Allow your shoulders to drop away from your ears,

Your arms to be completely weightless,

Your hands at rest.

Allow your neck to be soft,

Your face completely expressionless.

Allow some space to occupy the place between your two rows of teeth,

Softening your jaw,

Softening your tongue.

All this while simultaneously noticing your breath.

Easy,

Easy breath.

Find the topmost point of your head and then begin to scan back down your body and to whatever extent it's possible,

Inviting it to relax even more.

Woo Any of you watching?

Find a word or a short phrase.

Find something that is calming,

Relaxing,

Empowering,

Or even a mantra like Om or Namaste.

This could be a word such as relax or peace.

And it can even be a neutral word such as a number like one or a color like blue.

Whatever word or phrase you choose doesn't matter so much as the way it makes you feel.

And all you have to do after you hear the sound of a bell is simply repeat that word or short phrase over and over again each time you breathe out.

You don't have to breathe in any special way.

Let it be natural and easy.

And just on each exhale silently to yourself repeat your chosen word or phrase.

The only other thing you need to remember is that it's totally normal to get distracted.

And when you do,

Just say to yourself,

Oh well,

And then begin again on the next exhale repeating that word or phrase.

So practice this until you hear the sound of a second bell signaling the end of practice.

For now,

Just focus on the coming and going of your breath as you find your word or phrase.

A BELL Focusing on your word and your actions.

Let yourself let yourself be controlled by those Nina things,

If thoughts interrupt your practice,

That's okay and totally normal.

Just say,

Oh well and start again.

And if you are bored,

That can be answered by going writing,

EncePod and then training to learn how to communicate with the mind.

If you engage in this path,

That will acquaint you with instantly over time.

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This word and this breath,

Right here,

Right now.

Let me take a look,

Okay?

Coming home to your word,

Coming home to your exhale,

Beginning again whenever you need to.

On the next exhale,

Let go of your word or phrase and simply rest here for a moment.

Imagine a peaceful scene in which you are completely healthy,

Relaxed,

And stress-free.

This might be an image from the past or an aspiration for the future.

It may be a still image or more like a movie in your mind.

If you have an injury or ailment or feel your heart heavy with grief,

You may want to picture that part of you healed or restored.

If it's too difficult to imagine this,

You may want to picture a landscape such as a lake or a beach or mountains,

Or a relaxing color such as blue or a sky.

And you can always continue to repeat your word or phrase with or without this visualization.

Allow this image to completely absorb your attention until you hear the sound of a bell.

Just like with your word or phrase,

If you get distracted,

Just begin again.

Meet your Teacher

Heather StangHagerstown, MD, USA

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Recent Reviews

Alice

July 2, 2025

thank you, beautiful welcoming practice 🧡🌻💛🧡🌻💛🧡🌻💛

Terryn

July 30, 2021

Hard for me to relax. Hard to accept that my father is declining rapidly. Feeling very guilty. But this is a good meditation and I will come back to it. Thanks.

Bonnie

February 14, 2021

Was exactly what I needed. Good direction on the beginning and then eased off so I could just experience the mediation

gio

January 20, 2021

relaxing and deepening music, very nice guided meditation that brings to a relaxing point from where is easyier to follow the stress and anxiety free practice. I enjoyed also the freedome left in choosing whatever tool, mantra or visualitiom works for each of us.

Mahri

August 18, 2020

This was very powerful, and helped me realize how deep my grief is, and how much it is affecting me.

Joe

April 4, 2020

A good friend died suddenly yesterday. I found out today. This meditation helped me to find the healing space where I could say, “Rest in peace.” Where I could smile at the memory of his wry sense of humor, which modeled a very human way to respond to life’s inevitable challenges.

Kelly

March 24, 2020

Thank you 💙🙏💙

Louise

July 17, 2019

Thank you. This helped calm my mind.

Lynne

July 12, 2019

I really enjoy this meditation Ive listened to it several times during my ailing fathers journey leaving his physical body. Your voice is very soothing and comforting.

Amy

April 21, 2019

Perfect for my needs

Christiana

October 24, 2018

I really appreciated this meditation. It helped me feel more calm, centered and relaxed and helped me visualize myself in the future living a happy, appreciative and grateful life even with the loss I am feeling now. It gave me hope to know that I am going to be okay and that in truth I am safe and ok right now. Thank you!

Lesley

October 24, 2018

Very relaxing. Thank you!

Samar

May 21, 2018

Excellent, Namaste Heather. So glad I got a chance to meet you!

Kit

May 19, 2018

Exceptional guided meditation. Heather’s voice along With the music and crickets in the background are soothing and calming. I found much peace with this and will return often.

Francesca

December 7, 2017

Ahhh so relaxing . Thank you !

Clara

November 2, 2017

Thank you for the healing.

Amy

October 25, 2017

So relaxing! I found myself sleeping a couple of times between her words.

Jo

October 11, 2017

Excellent meditation for anxiety and grief. I have bookmarked this and will use it often. I love the pacing, the slow pace gives time to go into a deep relaxed state. THANK YOU!!!!

Damian

October 6, 2017

Excellent grounding exercise for healing my human condition, thank you

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