Think of it like this.
Things happen from inside out.
Therefore,
If you are experiencing excessive conflict in your life,
It is always because you are not clear about what you really want.
You are therefore putting out intense but contradictory instructions that then manifest as conflict.
The manifested conflict,
However,
Is the perfect materialization of conflicting desires.
Your conflicting desires created conflict,
But this has not made you happy.
Therefore,
Clarify.
Clarify your desires and clarify your purpose.
Discover what you really want,
But do this by listening inwardly.
Don't just come to intellectual conclusions about what you think you want.
Get quiet and listen for your deepest desires,
Like a wave listening to the ocean.
Pay attention inwardly.
Your life circumstances will then reflect your clarified intent.
And come into harmony?
Yes,
But you must clarify.
In other words,
What do you really want and how much do you want it?
These are important questions and you are answering them all the time.
Most of the time though,
We are not consciously aware of what our answers are,
Nor are we aware that we have several answers,
Often conflicting.
Once you clarify what you want,
The means will become apparent.
So,
This stillness that is here now,
What brings it about or allows it to be?
Receptivity.
Acceptance.
Letting it happen.
It is already here.
Just relax inside and be aware.
You see,
What you are looking for is already within you.
Therefore,
Simply pay attention to your own being.
Let yourself be you and be there for the experience.
You will thereby come upon the inner joy.
You will then be convinced and you will feel good inside about who you are.
Is that what you mean by self-trust?
You feel more at ease with yourself and therefore trust yourself more and therefore you are able to step out into the world and accomplish or attempt things that you would not have been so willing to do before?
Yes,
Especially once you consciously experience the energy you're made of.
It becomes easy to trust yourself when you know that at your core is love and goodness and there's nothing untrustworthy in that.
Therefore,
If you are attracted to something or feel compelled to do something or have the impulse to follow a spontaneous and uncalculated interest,
You can now dare to do so without fear or hesitation.
This is how the universe guides you.
In other words,
Universal guidance will be experienced by you as your deepest impulses to do or be.
Therefore,
Clarify your deepest desires by listening deeply within yourself to see what they are and then trust the thoughts,
Impulses,
Life circumstances,
People,
Desires and attractions that arise spontaneously in your mind and life as guidance.
These are the inner communications coming from the universe.
Remember,
You are not a separate energy.
You are an individuated expression of the One.
Therefore,
The messages that come from beyond lie in the feelings and impulses that arise from within as well as in the circumstances and life situations you encounter.