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Four Companions Part 1: Loving Kindness

by Silas Day

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This is Part 1 of a Four Part Series on Loving Kindness, Compassion, Joy, and Equinimity. This guided meditation provides an inspirational and therapeutic insight on what it means to cultivate and develop Loving Kindness. This practice promotes Self love and will leave you feeling a sense of complete relaxation and calm.

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Transcript

Along the road to awakening,

We have four companions that join us.

They wait for us within our hearts and minds to aid us in our practice.

Yet as with all things,

They manifest their opposite.

They manifest our enemies.

Through our meditation,

We help to cultivate these four companions and cast out their enemies.

We abide within the presence of our companions whenever we can open our hearts to clarity,

Our mind to wisdom,

A dedication to practice,

And a trust within ourselves and the Dharma.

We abide in the company of loving-kindness,

Compassion,

Joy,

And equanimity.

All of these dwell within us but are shrouded and veiled by the darkness of our own detriment.

By pointing them out and focusing toward them,

We may be able to plant the seed of growth and cultivate a true measure of each of these four profound qualities.

These four companions create security in our practice.

If they are cultivated to some extent,

We will,

As the Buddha said,

Not quarrel with the world.

The world will quarrel with us.

This is part one of a four-part meditation series on these four companions.

Begin by getting into a comfortable meditation position,

Whatever that is,

Whether it's on the cushion,

In the cross-legged position,

In a chair,

Or standing.

Once you are there,

Come into the body.

Bring the awareness forward and focus on these words for the time being.

Let us begin with loving-kindness.

The words loving-kindness are meaningless.

They are impermanent and empty.

Only a symbol of an absolute truth,

Not the truth itself.

Only when you feel it in your heart and mind can you know what Buddha talked about in so many discourses and touch into a fundamental aspect of developing your true person.

If you live with your heart only,

You are prone to being controlled by your emotions.

Tug to this way and that way.

If you only live through your mind,

You can turn cold and become a stone Buddha.

Loving-kindness can be cultivated in the heart with great benefit to all those around us,

And most importantly,

To ourselves.

When we take our own being into our heart,

We begin to lessen the ego.

The more the ego is diminished,

The more love we may generate.

Remember,

You must love yourself before you are able to truly love others with your full essence and complete being.

When one is enveloped by loving-kindness,

We die an unconfused and unworried death.

We touch into forgiveness and kindness every time we choose to cultivate our spirit of loving-kindness.

We experience love consciously,

With awareness and with focus.

Each moment we live in loving-kindness,

We also die in loving-kindness.

If at the moment of death we can be in the great aware state of true loving-kindness,

We will have truly lived,

And we will die at peace.

Remember,

The only person we can lead completely to love and liberation is ourselves.

Everybody has to go alone in solitary oneness.

Yet,

You may show the way to many people through your loving-kindness.

Anyone who would like to follow along is welcome.

So point them the way,

And let loving-kindness be generated in your practice.

And let any ill will shrivel to no thing at all.

Let us sit with this and work with loving-kindness in our breath and in our meditation.

A bell will ring in a few minutes,

Signifying the end of this practice.

And there will be just a little afterwards.

A bell will ring in a few minutes,

Signifying the end of this practice.

You you Thank you for sitting with me on this first of a four-part meditation on the four companions If you find joy and peace in this content,

Please consider donating even a dollar to me on insight timer or supporting me on my patreon at patreon.

Com slash Silas day Thank you and have a wonderful day

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Recent Reviews

Sia

September 21, 2020

Thank you for the lovely meditation. Blessings

Erika

March 26, 2020

Thank you so much for your wisdom and your beautiful meditations. I am taking your Buddhism course and I cannot thank you enough for making it easy to follow and understand πŸ™

Debra

December 8, 2019

Thank you for this wonderful meditation. Namaste

JoAnn

December 6, 2019

Nice presentation and practice.

Zuzana

April 21, 2019

I love the way you structure your information, Silas :) it is easy to concentrate on for me. You have been a big help in my practice. Thank you.

Mark

February 9, 2019

Thank you Silas πŸ™for part one of this four part meditation. I look forward to part two.

Lindsey

December 10, 2018

Thank you for this!

Lisa

September 26, 2018

Breathing in love and kindness β™₯οΈπŸ’«πŸŒˆ thank you πŸ™πŸΌ I’ll go to your page and donate. Everyone should if they can. I don’t have a lot right now .. as he says , even a dollar. If each person shares 1 dollar it adds up ... Appreciate this free meditation app and help the teachers as we all need love and kindness. πŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’«πŸ¦‹ looking forward to tomorrow’s meditation. Namaste .

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September 26, 2018

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September 25, 2018

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