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How To Relax When You're Worried, Angry or Sad

by Victoria Angel Heart - Tap Into Freedom

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Learn Thich Nhat Hanh's simple poem to relax your body and bring ease to your mind when you're worried, angry or sad. "In, out. Deep, slow. Calm, ease. Smile, release. Present moment, wonderful moment."

RelaxationThich Nhat HanhBreathingMindfulnessCalmEmotionsPoetryWorryAngerSadnessPresent Moment AwarenessDeep BreathingCalm And EaseSmiling TechniqueEmotional RegulationBreathing AwarenessPoetry MeditationsSmiling

Transcript

Welcome to this calm your mind,

Open your heart meditation.

I'm Victoria and today we'll be reading from Thich Nhat Hanh's book,

How to Relax.

This is called In,

Out,

Deep,

Slow.

Here is a poem to practice anytime,

But especially when you're worried,

Angry,

Or sad.

If you know how to practice this poem,

You'll feel much better after just one or two minutes.

In,

Out,

Deep,

Slow,

Calm,

Ease,

Smile,

Release,

Present moment,

Wonderful moment.

In,

Out means that when I breathe in,

I know I'm breathing in.

And when I breathe out,

I know I'm breathing out.

You are 100% with your in-breath and your out-breath.

Don't think of anything else.

That is the secret of success.

After you've practiced in,

Out three,

Four,

Five times,

You'll notice that your in-breath naturally becomes deeper and your out-breath becomes slower.

Your breath is calm and you're more peaceful.

That is deep,

Slow.

We'll take a minute now to just practice that.

In,

Out.

In,

Out.

Deep,

Slow.

Allow your breath to become deeper and slower.

Deep,

Slow.

Calm,

Ease means breathing in,

I feel calm.

Breathing out,

I feel at ease.

This exercise is wonderful to practice,

Especially when you're nervous,

Angry,

Or you don't feel peaceful in yourself.

We'll practice it a few times now.

Calm,

Ease.

Then you come to smile,

Release.

Breathing in,

I smile.

You may feel it's too difficult to smile,

But after practicing three or four times,

You may feel that you're able to smile.

And if you can smile,

You'll feel a lot better.

You may protest,

Why do you want me to smile?

It's not natural.

Many people ask me that and they protest,

I have no joy in me.

I can't force myself to smile.

It wouldn't be true.

I would say that a smile can be a kind of yoga practice,

Yoga of the mouth.

You just smile,

Even if you don't feel joy.

After you smile,

You'll see you feel differently.

Sometimes the mind takes the initiative and sometimes you have to allow the body to take the initiative.

So we'll practice a few times now.

Smile,

Release.

Smile,

Release.

Smile,

Release.

In each moment,

We know we are here.

We say,

Present moment.

And each moment is wonderful.

So we say,

Wonderful moment.

We'll practice a few times now.

Present moment,

Wonderful moment.

Present moment,

Wonderful moment.

Present moment,

Wonderful moment.

As you go throughout your day,

I invite you to remember this poem,

This Gaita,

And bring it with you anytime you want to come back to yourself.

In,

Out,

Deep,

Slow,

Calm,

Ease,

Smile,

Release.

Present moment,

Wonderful moment.

We'll bring this meditation to a close with one sound of the bell.

Meet your Teacher

Victoria Angel Heart - Tap Into FreedomSan Francisco, CA, USA

4.5 (806)

Recent Reviews

Ria

June 7, 2023

Very nice! I felt much more peaceful and relaxed after this meditation! Thank you. πŸ™

Catrin

August 16, 2022

Thank you for teaching this beautiful breath poem by Thay πŸ™

Alan

March 13, 2022

A classic, very much appreciated these recent turbulent days. Thank you, again πŸ™β˜€οΈπŸŒ±

Hanna-Liisa

January 11, 2022

❀️ I will remember this beautiful poem so I can use it when I really need to return to my breath and the moment. Many thanks. πŸ™βœ¨πŸ’«

Mel

January 7, 2022

Very helpful, calmed me right down after I was getting stressed trying to encourage my 2 girls to do as I asked xx

Michie<3

November 14, 2021

✨So beautiful thank you so kindly for this all of your beauty you share is lovely πŸ’• Namaste πŸ™πŸΌ 🌺 πŸ•ŠπŸŒΈ

Alicia

October 1, 2021

That was really relaxing and I could feel joy come in and calm in a very short period of time. Thank you!

Penelope

July 16, 2021

Thank you for sharing this perfect pocket poem, one I can take wherever I go. Just wish the sound of the parting bell had a longer, slower fade away so I could more fully savor the β€œpresent moment, wonderful moment” transition back into the day. πŸ™πŸ»

Kate

June 21, 2021

Wonderful. Reminded me to breathe slower and deeper. πŸ™

Nancy

June 8, 2021

This was quick, easy and it really worked at calming.

John

May 22, 2021

Super relaxing and calming voice. Thank you for sharing!

Jacqueline

February 23, 2021

Wonderful moment 😊

Melissa

September 9, 2020

This was so helpful!

Meltem

July 20, 2020

Oh thank you! I am feel better now. I was feeling so bad just 15 minutes ago.

Marcellien

October 13, 2018

Beautiful poem: short and effective. Namaste.

Mark

September 9, 2018

Delightful and peaceful. So loved the soft and soothing singing that filled my soul with warmth.

John

May 24, 2018

Giving 5 stars for a lovely and useful poem. This girl has a great voice, though the singing of it was rather loud and high which was a bit 'counter productive' to relaxation (not that she hasn't got a great singing voice)

Kimbo

May 24, 2018

I love this one!! So simple yet SO effective!! Namaste πŸ™ Beautiful voice too πŸ’•

Lori

May 23, 2018

Love this. Thank you.

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