Why Softness Creates More

Sacred Wyrd #10 - Why Softness Creates More

Sacred Wyrd is a living conversation on consciousness, creation, and the unseen threads shaping our lives.

In this talk, we explore the misunderstood power of softness- why receptivity is not weakness, and how surrender can generate more momentum than force. We uncover how relaxing into trust recalibrates the nervous system and opens space for life to respond with greater ease.

Transcript

Many of us were taught that softness is something to hide, That it's feminine, And that femininity should be concealed in certain spaces, That to stay safe or to win or to be taken seriously, We must harden. But life has a way of teaching us otherwise. For me, Softness became essential postpartum, Not as an idea but as survival. Being soft with myself was the only way to have grace, The only way to move through the process with patience instead of pressure. When my body learns something important, When I choose softness, Everything comes back into alignment. Force feels like resistance, Like pushing against something that doesn't want to move. Softness feels different. It feels good. It feels luxurious. It feels like feminine energy in its natural state. Softness is not weakness, And it is not passive in the way we've been taught to fear. Passive is not empty. Passive is not receptive. It's ease. It's attraction. It's allowing life to come toward you instead of chasing it down. Softness opens the body. It opens the field. It opens you energetically to receive. I practice this every day now, In the way I hold my daughter, In the way I move with her, In the way I let moments unfold instead of trying to control them. Softness teaches a different kind of strength. Those who are hard eventually break. Those who are soft learn how to bend, To be reshaped, To be remolded by life without losing themselves. This is how more arrives. Not through force, But through openness. Stay soft. It is safe to receive here.