They say you talk too much.
Or you're too quiet.
You step to the front so you can be seen.
And they think you're pushy.
You lift your voice and make suggestions and they think you're bossy.
You ask questions.
And they roll their eyes and sigh.
These are not your people.
Your people are the ones who celebrate you.
They listen to your stories and laugh at your jokes.
They love you.
So don't hold back.
Don't dim your light to please others.
Let your light shine.
You remember birthdays and anniversaries.
You return calls and emails promptly.
You try to do the right thing,
Always.
Some will applaud you and others will dismiss your efforts and say you're just too nice.
Aren't you ready to please?
Too needy for acknowledgement.
Your thoughtfulness may mean the world to someone.
It may make their day.
So don't hold back.
Don't be discouraged by the negativity of others.
Spread kindness.
You notice when someone looks lost or needs help.
And yes,
You talk to strangers.
Even if it's just about the weather.
Don't you randomly compliment people.
On their dress.
Their hair.
Their child,
Their dog.
You hold doors and share space.
Some will think you're foolish or too forward.
That's okay.
Let them stay in their own small world while you continue to expand yours.
So don't hold back.
Be the guide.
Be the person who brings a smile to the face of the lonely.
They ignored.
The lost.
The Harrod.
Share your light.
You sense when a friend is not okay.
Even when they say they are.
They've lost their sparkle.
That twinkle in their eyes.
Corners of their mouth don't lift as easily as they used to.
Life,
For some reason,
Doesn't seem to be bringing them the usual joyfulness and enthusiasm.
You feel the need to be there for them.
And bring the joy back into their life.
So don't hold back.
Be the one that doesn't judge.
Be their path back to happiness.
You feel deeply when your loved one is hurting.
When they feel helpless and adrift.
Life isn't going to plan.
And they do not want to burden you.
They may be quick to anger.
Slower to show love and affection.
Lost and worrisome thoughts.
You show them you love them no matter what.
And provide a soft,
Safe place for them to unburden,
To share their worries,
To breathe and relax.
So don't hold back.
Lighten their load.
And listen with an open heart.
And be their rock.
You know when you're off track.
When you've fallen off your path.
When you have been consumed and unavailable.
You've allowed the business of life to take over.
And you've forgotten what's really important.
Your people need you.
They miss your ready smile.
Your contagious love.
Find that sweet smile.
And your inner light that shines the way for others.
Remind yourself of how beautiful life can be.
So don't hold back.
Never underestimate the power of your kind soul that can bring joy to every heart it touches.
