21:45

Loving You & Loving Your Baby

by Oliver James Jenkin

Rated
4.8
Type
guided
Activity
Meditation
Suitable for
Everyone
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This meditation is for all you expecting Mothers. Take some time for you - to really calm and connect to your body. Take this feeling of relaxation deeper by sending love to your baby from your heart. Feel and witness the amazing connection you have. There is also the opportunity to receive love from your little person and feel the support they are giving you.

LoveExpecting MothersCalmConnectionRelaxationBody ScanSelf AwarenessBreathingSelf LoveSupportSelf WitnessingTension ReleaseSelf CompassionPartner SupportBabiesBreathing AwarenessMothers

Transcript

Hello and welcome to this meditation.

If you can get yourself as comfortable as possible,

And I really appreciate that you're probably going through a whole host of ways to try a way to find to do that.

I say appreciate,

Looking upon the journey of my partner.

I'm in awe.

I've learnt a lot as a bystander to that process,

And the things that are sacrificed,

And the very base physical nature of this reality,

And also the power of love,

And how it helps us all grow.

As a man,

The most useful thing that I've been able to do is to be available,

And to witness,

Without judgement,

Without stepping in where it's not needed,

And just to do my best in that role,

Whilst appreciating my own needs.

I haven't always got this right,

And the reason I mention this is because I'm going to help you and encourage you to do this for yourself today,

So that you can feel into your being to fully witness the beauty and magnificence of the being within you.

So if you're lying or sitting down,

Just feeling that light gentle pressure of the chair,

Or the bed,

Or the couch pushing up against you,

And almost like you're sinking into the bed,

Begin to breathe in through your nose,

And out of your mouth.

In through your nose,

And out of your mouth.

And just breathing into the top of your head,

Letting it expand,

Each cell relaxing as you breathe out and just let any tension melt away.

Breathing into your forehead and your temples,

And the ring muscles around your eyes,

And just letting go.

Letting it wash over your face,

Your nose,

Your lips,

Your tongue,

And your teeth,

Into your jaw,

And letting go.

Down into the back of your neck,

And letting it ripple and wave down your shoulder blades,

Into the tops of your arms,

Past your elbows,

Past your wrists,

And feeling that light tingle right to the tips of your fingers.

Back up in between your shoulder blades and down your spine,

Just breathing in,

Letting your back rise with the breath,

And letting go.

Round to the front of your chest,

Breathing in to the middle of your chest,

Letting your ribs expand,

Letting the muscles underneath your armpits expand,

And just letting any tension disappear.

Down into the top of your stomach,

Breathing in,

And breathing out.

Noticing any discomfort or pain in the middle of your back,

Just breathing in,

Drawing the breath here and letting go.

And just lightly focusing on the skin of your small.

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Meet your Teacher

Oliver James JenkinExmouth, United Kingdom

4.8 (155)

Recent Reviews

Kathy

November 19, 2022

Excellent use of breath to release tension and connect with self and baby. I'd forgotten that they will love me too, that I'm not the only one giving. Thank you

Jamilia

August 30, 2022

I am speechless… this meditation was so deep, so powerful, so healing — i could have never imagined a man could take me to a completely new level of love to my baby and to myself. Thank you so much for this beautiful moment, for this meaningful morning that I spent with my baby. I can’t thank you enough❤️

Becky

April 7, 2022

Wonderfully thoughtful and sensitive witnessing of a mother as a whole person, who absolutely can benefit from both giving and receiving love

lissa

February 15, 2021

Absolutely wonderful ❤️

Imelda

August 10, 2020

Love love love love love love. Thank you Oliver. Very powerful. You just talked me down from a very anxiety ridden day. My boy and I love you. 💙💙💙

Ami

May 1, 2019

I want to extend a deep heartfelt thanks for this meditation. It's is absolutely beautiful. I have to admit initially upon hearing a male voice 'judgement' came forward that wondered how a person who has never personally gone through the process of birth and growing a baby physically as a woman, could guide towards such a strong connection to my baby. But, I was humbled and so moved during this meditation and in awe of a male insight so deeply loving, profound, grateful and way more in tune than I expected🙏

Jodie

January 13, 2019

Wonderfully warm and soothing 💞

Vikey

January 5, 2019

Sensational! Thank you 🙏❤

Pamela

December 4, 2018

Stunning! Thank you so much

Ingetje

November 14, 2018

Beautiful meditation!! I received so much live from my baby. Very special experience

Carrol

August 7, 2018

I used this beautiful meditation to heal a past pregnancy and relationship with my child. At the time I was pregnant, fear and emotional baggage kept me from establishing a strong connection with my child... I could feel the healing, love and gratitude as I imagined my then pregnant self. Thank you ✨🙏✨

🧚🏻‍♀️Cecili💫

August 7, 2018

Thank you very much ❣️🙏🏻👌🏻❤️ Beautiful 🤰🏼meditation ❣️🧘🏼‍♀️🦋

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