7 daagse cursus

How To Forgive: The Release For Emotional Freedom

Door Sally Oddy

Wat je zal leren

Forgiveness is one of the hardest human experiences - not because we can’t let go, but because we were taught forgiveness in a way that never truly liberated us. We were told forgiveness means: ▴ absolving someone of blame, ▴ pretending it didn’t hurt, ▴ excusing harm, ▴ reconciling or reconnecting, ▴ seeking closure from the person who hurt us. And that is why most people never actually forgive. Because that isn’t forgiveness. It’s emotional pressure. True forgiveness has nothing to do with them. True forgiveness happens inside you. In this 7-day reset, you will experience forgiveness in a way that is: ▴ psychologically freeing, ▴ emotionally sovereign, ▴ nervous-system safe, ▴ spiritually grounded, ▴ deeply humane, ▴ and permanently transformative. True forgiveness is not: ▴ a performance, ▴ a conversation, ▴ a spiritual bypass, ▴ or a forced “I forgive you.” True forgiveness is a perspective shift that releases emotional attachment, frees the nervous system from pain, and restores you to inner peace. You don’t have to reconcile. You don’t have to speak to them. You don’t even need them in your life. Forgiveness has nothing to do with them and everything to do with you. You release not because they “deserve” it, but because you deserve the freedom that comes after. Over these 7 days, you will learn: ▴ why forgiveness has felt impossible, ▴ how attachment creates emotional suffering, ▴ how to release the pain without suppressing it, ▴ how to see others through a lens of humane truth: they were doing (not necessarily trying) the best they could with the awareness they had ▴ how to let go without losing your power, ▴ how to stop carrying emotional weight from someone else’s choices, ▴ how to reclaim inner sovereignty. You will not forget what happened. You will not minimise your pain. You will not deny your truth. You will simply stop carrying pain that no longer belongs to you. Forgiveness is not weakness. Forgiveness is freedom. Forgiveness is completion. Forgiveness is release. Forgiveness is personal liberation. And yes - lasting forgiveness can happen in one single moment when you understand it deeply. Let these 7 days guide you to that understanding. Your heart, nervous system, and identity are ready for peace.

Sally Oddy

Leeds, UK

Sally Oddy is a mindset and nervous system guide who specialises in helping women release emotional attachment, heal internalised wounds, and cultivate inner peace. Her approach to forgiveness is grounded in lived experience and deeply compassionate psychological insight. Through her work, she supports women in understanding the nervous system...

Les 1

What Forgiveness Really Is (And What It Isn’t)

In this lesson, you’ll discover what forgiveness truly is - and what it is not. Most of us have been taught forgiveness in a way that is emotionally impossible and psychologically unsafe. Today we dismantle the myths around forgiveness, release the pressure, and anchor into the truth: forgiveness is not about excusing harm, reconciling, or diminishing your pain. It is the internal release of emotional attachment that restores your freedom and sovereignty. You’ll leave this lesson with clarity, relief, and permission to approach forgiveness in a way that is safe, grounded, and deeply human.

Les 2

Why Forgiveness Feels Impossible

In this session, you’ll discover why forgiveness doesn’t feel hard - it feels unsafe. You’ll learn how the nervous system stores emotional memories and interprets forgiveness as vulnerability, exposure, or risk. This insight removes shame, self-judgment, and pressure, replacing them with compassion and understanding. When your nervous system learns that you can forgive without being hurt again, without reconciling, and without opening yourself to harm, forgiveness becomes psychologically possible and physiologically safe.

Les 3

The Perspective Shift

In this session, you’ll experience the perspective shift that makes forgiveness possible. You’ll explore the truth that every person acts from the level of emotional awareness, maturity, and consciousness they have at the time - not from malice or intention to harm. This understanding doesn’t excuse hurt, but it dissolves the emotional attachment to it. Today’s insight softens the nervous system, releases the charge of resentment, and opens the doorway to genuine forgiveness without pressure, performance, or denial of your truth.

Les 4

Release Without Dialogue

In this session, you’ll learn that forgiveness does not require confrontation, conversation, reconciliation, or involvement from the other person at all. Forgiveness is an internal release - a private shift inside your nervous system that frees you from emotional attachment, without needing approval, acknowledgment, or closure. You’ll explore how forgiveness can be done silently and sovereignly, without performing healing or exposing yourself to further hurt. This truth creates safety, which makes genuine forgiveness possible.

Les 5

Severing Emotional Ties

In this session, you’ll learn that the pain of the past isn’t caused by the person or the event - it’s caused by the emotional attachment your nervous system formed around it. You’ll discover how attachment stores the hurt and keeps it active, and how releasing the attachment dissolves the pain without needing reconciliation, resolution, or external closure. Today’s session offers a gentle somatic insight that allows your system to complete the emotional loop and rest in freedom.

Les 6

Somatic Release Ritual

In this session, you’ll experience a guided somatic release ritual that gently loosens and dissolves emotional attachment held in the body. Rather than forcing forgiveness or trying to “let go” this session teaches your nervous system that release is safe, natural, and deeply supportive. By separating identity from attachment and closing the emotional loop internally, you begin to experience forgiveness as embodied freedom, not mental effort. Today’s session brings real physiological relief.

Les 7

Closing The Loop

In this final session, you complete the forgiveness journey at the identity level. Forgiveness is no longer something you try to do - it becomes something you are. You integrate the truth that the past is no longer emotionally alive in your system, and that you are free to move forward without the weight of attachment, resentment, or pain. Today’s session affirms wholeness, sovereignty, and emotional neutrality, allowing you to close the loop from a place of deep nervous-system safety and peace.

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