Should You Leave Or Stay In Your Relationship

Are you in a relationship causing you to question whether you should stay or leave? It can be challenging to trust our decision-making process when our hearts are involved, which is why some clear-cut guidelines can help you confidently make life decisions. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach, helps you get clear about what types of relationships are worth saving or not.

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My partner is very deflective and defensive. He always feels like I am judging or criticising him when I bring up issues within the home or his behaviour (like saying he is going to do something and not doing it). We’re in a stepfamily dynamic where his kids live with us full time. It is very challenging for me and all I want is support from my partner but when I ask for it, he doesn’t seem to think my reasons for needing support are valid or even real. Maybe I am a bit judgemental of how he raises his kids but I am learning to let go of that. It’s the constant deflection and turning things around to make me out to be the abuser and him the victim. I honestly am not doing that, and have never done that. He acknowledged that he can be defensive and that he’d look at that BUT, he has said this before, many times, and we still land up having conflict over it. I sometimes feel like he thinks I’m his ex wife who was all the things he makes me feel like I am, but am not.

Very helpful. Thanks for sharing your story.

this is great info even when it comes to friendships- as they can also be toxic. thanks lisa

Thank you for your wisdom 🙏

Open dialog and the ability to view things from another perspective is key 🙏

Change is inevitable. Growth is optional 🙃

Very clarifying thank you