So welcome to this short guided meditation on dealing with fear.
One of the best ways of dealing with fear is just to ground ourself in the body.
So to bring our attention into the body in order to feel more grounded and stable when we're afraid of something.
Another way is to open up to the emotion,
The experience of fear,
Rather than trying to push it away,
We open to it.
So in this meditation we're going to be doing both of those together.
So find a comfortable place to sit,
You can be sitting in a chair,
On a couch,
You can be lying down on your bed for this,
Wherever feels comfortable.
When you find a comfortable place to sit,
You can go ahead and close your eyes,
And if you prefer to do this with your eyes open,
Just have a soft gaze towards the ground.
And we can start with just a deep breath,
So taking a deep breath in,
And a deep breath out.
Let's do that one more time,
Deep breath in,
Deep breath out,
And then just allowing your breath to return to its natural rhythm.
So letting the body do the work.
And since this is a meditation on dealing with fear,
You might be experiencing some tension or tightness in the body.
Just taking a moment to scan through your body and see if there's any tension or tightness or clenching that you can maybe soften around.
So perhaps softening the muscles around the eyes,
Softening the muscles in the cheeks and the jaw.
You might try lifting the shoulders and then dropping and relaxing the shoulders,
And letting the arms and hands rest gently,
Seeing if you can let your whole body be soft,
And perhaps coming to a place of stillness.
It can be helpful to imagine as if you were a stone or pebble dropped into a pond,
And slowly,
Slowly the pebble floats down to the bottom,
Eventually finding a calm,
Resting place.
And from this place of stillness,
Now opening up your awareness to your emotional state,
And just asking yourself the question,
How do I feel right now?
See if you can notice how it feels in the body.
How does the chest feel?
Is it tight and constricted,
Or does it feel open?
How does your face feel?
You may be bringing your attention down all the way to the belly,
To the abdomen.
Perhaps taking one or two slightly deeper in and out breaths,
Breathing in and filling the belly,
Breathing out,
Letting all the air out.
And for the next few moments,
Just allow yourself to sit without needing to do anything or go anywhere,
Taking a deep breath in,
Deep breath out.