Winning And Losing

In this episode we deconstruct winning and losing. Why does everything have to be a competition? Where can we find common ground? What are the reasons we condition ourselves to think in these terms of winners and losers?

Transcript

Welcome to Life,

Lessons and Laughter with your host Glenn Ambrose.

And hello,

We're back at it again.

We're back at it podcasting.

Oh God.

Episode 80.

Is that what it's called?

Podcasting?

We're podcasting.

Yes.

Good job.

It took me three years to find out that we're podcasting.

80 episodes.

80 episodes,

That's the term.

We're podcasting.

Oh,

Glenn.

Yeah.

Well,

That was a fun intro.

And this is our last episode.

No,

It's not.

No,

It's not.

Don't freak people out.

They love this stuff.

I already said that last episode was our last episode.

So clearly I'm a liar.

Clearly it's not.

So today we are talking about winning,

Losing,

And holding the space.

It's the energy in which you do things that's important.

Because sometimes you're going to win and sometimes you're going to lose.

But there are,

As you mentioned as we're talking about this,

There are sore winners and there are sore losers.

And there are good winners and there are good losers.

So it's a matter of being in the space that you want to be in and standing in whatever side you're on in a healthy energy and being healthy about it.

You can use whichever side you're on to be even more productive if you're standing in good space.

But we've seen a lot of this.

The reason that it was coming up is we've seen a lot of it with the politics right now with Trump winning the presidency.

Half the country is just elated and the other half of the country is irate and they're just attacking each other.

And it doesn't matter what side you're on.

The way people are behaving is just completely unhealthy.

And we have an opportunity in this situation,

Whether you are elated or whether you are irate,

To get underneath that and get to the place that's actually important.

There's something bigger than a political election.

And the something bigger is the way we look at things,

Because that's what's going to change everything.

If we stop fighting with each other and start understanding that it's more important to love one another and to hold space for the different beliefs and not freak out over and fight,

That doesn't mean you can't stand up for your beliefs.

It just means that going about it in a negative way,

That's what we need to stop.

We need to stop negativity.

I think sometimes people,

When they think about voting,

A voting system,

They feel that,

Oh,

Voting is wonderful because I'm going to get what I want.

If I don't get what I want,

Then voting sucks.

It's like,

Well,

You can't have it both ways.

So it's really important to stand in the energy of peacefulness,

Because it's the only thing that changes everything.

If we get to a place where,

You know,

Just because people see things differently doesn't mean that underneath we don't all want the same things.

Underneath we do.

Underneath we all want to feel safe,

We all want to feel loved,

We all want our basic needs met.

You know,

It's just we all want the same things.

It's just on top of that,

On the surface of all that stuff,

Is we go,

Well,

It has to happen this way and it has to happen that way.

And we get so caught up in arguing the way it's supposed to happen that we lose track that we all want the same things.

So what I'm trying to get people to see is that we all want the same things and meet there.

If we start meeting there,

If we start meeting at the place of love,

Of safety,

Of meeting at the place where all people's needs are met,

And people aren't suffering needlessly,

If we meet in those places,

We'll figure out how to do it.

Figuring out how to do it is not the problem.

You know,

The problem is that we're not trying to figure out how to do it.

What we're doing is we're trying to argue that our way to do it is better than the other way.

And that's the problem.

We need to stop arguing about whose way is better and get underneath and connect on the level of us all wanting the same thing.

You know,

Then we'll manifest,

We'll figure out how to do it the right way.

But we have to stop arguing first.

You know,

It's all distracting us.

So it's,

I think it was Michael Bernard Beckwith that said,

We have eyes because we wanted to see.

We don't see because we have eyes.

So we had the urge that we wanted to see first,

And then we developed eyes.

You know,

It's that type of mentality.

It's like we need to connect in love first and then go from there.

We need to connect with the desire that we love each other and we're working together.

Once we connect there,

Then we'll figure out how to do it.

But,

You know,

The reason that we haven't,

You're telling me that with all the food in the world,

We can't feed the people?

You know,

I mean,

It's scientifically proven that we have more than enough food to feed everybody on the planet.

The reason that we can't solve the problem of people not having food is because we're not focused on that.

We're focused on arguing over which the best way to do it is.

You know,

We have to get underneath and connect to everybody going,

Yes,

Let's all work together to walk in the direction of this common solution.

And if we were to do that,

We'd accomplish it.

But do you think that there's an empathy problem?

Yeah.

Because,

Like,

I would disagree with one main thing,

Which is you're saying that the argument is the best way to not have everybody,

To not have hungry people,

Right?

That's what we're arguing.

But I would venture to say that there are,

That there's an empathy problem with,

Um,

Some people are not having that argument.

Some people aren't interested in the argument of what is the best way to eradicate hunger because we definitely have enough food on the planet,

We could do this.

Some people are saying the people that are hungry need to worry about themselves,

Which is a fine argument,

But it's not necessarily the same argument that people are having.

Well,

Right.

But it's still a disagreement about the subject.

That's the problem,

Is that we're looking at things differently,

And we think that that's the problem.

Like,

I don't need to go over to somebody and say,

Do you think that the starving people should be able to feed themselves?

That's surface.

That's up here in argument land.

You know,

Because some people say,

Yes,

They should be able to feed themselves,

And some people will say,

No,

They won't.

So that is surface.

That's argumentative.

I want to go underneath that and go,

Do you think people should starve?

Well,

No.

Okay.

Let's meet there.

I agree with you that that is where we should be meeting.

Right.

And I think that,

Going back to the winners and losers topic,

Right?

Yeah.

I think that the lack of empathy can come from both sides.

Oh,

Yeah.

And basically,

So like,

If you're,

I grew up in a typical middle class,

Lower middle class family,

Had plenty of food to eat.

You know,

If someone who grew up like me is like,

Well,

We have enough food,

You know.

Yeah,

But see you.

There's enough food.

And I don't want to say,

Like,

I consider myself pretty empathetic,

But that they're like,

They don't consider the fact that other people don't,

You know.

Right.

Or they think,

I worked for this.

Yeah,

But,

Yeah,

See,

This is the problem is this way of thinking is so foreign that you're having a difficult time wrapping your brain around it.

Because you keep giving me excuses that are surface level.

You keep going,

Yeah,

But what if somebody believes this?

Yeah,

But what if somebody believes that?

No,

Underneath that,

Way underneath,

If you look at somebody and you go,

Would you like to see,

If you were God,

Would you like to see your children starve to death and die while other people have more than they need?

Do you think that's a good idea?

Right,

No,

I agree with you.

And people will go.

I agree with you,

No one would answer yes to that question.

That's where we meet.

I agree with you.

So,

Okay,

So if we all meet there.

What I'm talking about is the problem with the winners and losers is,

And I'm trying to say,

It's not just the guy that you voted for won,

You know,

So you're a winner and maybe you're being bad about that.

I'm saying literally,

I have food.

I have a job,

I worked for this,

Blah,

Blah,

Blah.

You need food stamps.

I think that I have a lack of empathy because you can eat,

But I think that that should get taken away,

For example,

And I'm not just,

I'm not demonizing those people at all either way.

I'm just saying like that is somebody who feels like they are in a position where they won something.

They are a winner.

They have the thing that the other people don't have.

Right.

And they're saying,

You know,

I like they're being a sore winner.

It's the energy that you approach things like you said.

Right.

And that's,

I think that's what's going to help us get down to that bottom level that I've been talking about.

So if you're sitting there and you consider yourself on the winning side,

You have to understand,

We have to start understanding that just because you won doesn't mean that everybody is going to look at things the same way you are.

You know,

We have to stop thinking that like winning is,

That makes us right.

We think that winning makes us right and it doesn't.

It just means that we won that particular thing and that if we won that particular thing,

Then other people lost that particular thing.

And then what's going to happen is we're going to go to the next level and maybe next time the other side wins.

You know,

I mean,

Politics,

Sports,

Everything is like this.

Everything where there is competition like this,

Everybody gets so caught up in winning and losing that they haven't paid attention and nothing changes.

You know,

Because it's not supposed to change.

It's not made to change.

And in this time in our history,

We need things to change.

You know,

Or we're going to die.

You know,

We're going to kill ourselves off as a species.

So,

I mean,

Things need to change.

So we need to start looking at things differently.

So instead of the Democrats winning or the Republicans winning,

What we need to do is get underneath and understand that,

You know what?

The Republicans and the Democrats all want the same thing underneath.

We want the same thing.

So if we stopped fighting with one another and that was no longer the main idea of politics,

Because that's the main idea.

The main idea is to fight and to see who wins and who loses.

And then so that's what gets accomplished.

Since that's the goal,

That's what we accomplish.

We need to change the goal.

We need to,

Once the goal is,

You know,

Bonding on common issues that affect us all and solving them,

Once that's our mindset and we start walking towards that,

We'll find solutions for that too.

And I think the first step is us looking,

Since we're standing in a win-loss situation now that we're so used to,

Is shifting our perspective as to what that means by looking at it realistically.

You know,

I've been on losing sides of many things.

And I've been on winning sides of things as well.

And never have I lost something where I looked at the other side and I went,

Oh,

You're right.

Since I lost,

Then you must be right.

I've never done that.

I've still held to my own beliefs and said,

Damn,

They got me that time.

And then,

You know,

I just kept fighting to try to prove my belief,

You know,

Or to try to prove myself on the sports field,

To try to win out,

You know.

So if we're staying,

If we have to understand that we're not changing the other side just because we won,

That didn't happen.

We can't point at them and go,

See,

I told you,

Because they're still standing in the same beliefs they had previously.

You know,

And then they're going to come back and if they yell louder,

Then they'll win the next time.

And then if we yell louder,

We'll win the next time.

And then if they yell,

You know,

And it just keeps climbing and climbing,

Nothing ever gets solved.

So if you look at it and you go,

OK,

Well,

Just because I won doesn't make me right and it doesn't solve anything,

Then how should I be standing in this?

OK,

I won.

So let me be,

Let me use this feeling of accomplishment.

I'm sitting here.

I got what I wanted.

So,

So I should be feeling comfortable.

Maybe a little bit content.

I think that we're going in a direction that I think we should be going because I won this particular thing.

So go from that space and go,

How can in my contentment of where we're going,

How can I connect with the other side?

So we can work towards the proper solution,

You know,

To the things we're all facing.

How can I,

How can I connect to the other side?

Not how can I shove it in their face and tell them how wrong they are,

Because all that does is it shoots you in the foot for the future because it just makes them want to fight harder.

You know,

Shoving it in somebody's face,

Going,

Ha ha,

You suck.

That doesn't make them go away and be less effective.

That angers them and makes them want to attack you more.

So then in the future,

You lose,

You know,

It's so it doesn't benefit us in any way.

And it's the same thing if you lost.

You know,

If you lost now,

You can sit there and you can scream and you can go,

OK,

Let us let us get stronger and stronger until we win.

OK,

Then what's going to happen when you win?

Nothing.

Absolutely nothing's going to change when you win,

Because they're going to be doing the other side is going to be doing everything they can to block you and to try to beat you next time.

That's where all the energy is going.

So if you can understand that and settle down and come to a space and you know,

I think right now,

I always use the big examples because,

You know,

This is such a there's so much energy attached to the selection.

It's mind blowing.

I mean,

There are more people flipped upside down because of this than I can remember seeing,

You know,

So.

So it's.

So I always point to the real life big examples for those of the people that are on the losing side,

And it's like Nelson Mandela,

It's like Gandhi,

It's like Martin Luther King Jr.

.

When we look at our history,

We have proof that the people who changed things against an antagonistic side,

The people who change things did not change it by fighting against the other side.

They did it by Nelson Mandela.

I would say he lost.

He was sitting in jail for over 20 years.

That's being on the losing side.

But when he was sitting in that losing side,

He didn't spend his time fighting the other side.

He spent his time connecting with the other side.

He spent his time going.

Yeah,

Yeah.

I know you guys believe this.

I understand that.

And you know what?

I understand why you believe that.

I got you.

I understand.

Instead of fighting against it,

He said,

I get your beliefs.

I get why you're why you're saying this.

You know,

OK,

So what?

And then he tried to explain his side in a calm,

Loving way,

Not in a combative way,

You know,

And then also they found common ground.

And that's what stood.

It's always been fighting something just makes the problem grow.

It never solves anything.

You know,

So we need to get out of that mentality.

Because,

As we said in last episode and most episodes,

What you put energy towards expands.

Right.

So if you're putting energy towards the fight,

The fight expands,

Or the conflict grows.

Now,

There's a little bit of a separation from that,

But I have a question about the nature of why do we create competition?

We create winners and losers in our own mind all the time for everything.

Anytime,

Like jealousy,

For example,

Is a loser,

Is making yourself the loser,

You know,

Of a battle.

And it's just because we're separated from our source.

So,

For example,

If there are two kids,

Right,

And we both go,

Like,

Someone from a middle-class family who does well and gets into college and has to pay for college with student loans,

And they come out and they have $100,

000 in debt.

And there's a classmate of theirs who is,

Whose family is wealthy,

Who got into the same college,

Maybe a little bit easier,

Maybe not,

But that is the perception of the middle-class kid.

This kid got an easier ride,

And his parents paid for it,

And now he's out of school,

And we're both looking for a job,

Except he doesn't really need,

He doesn't have this debt that I have.

Because I'm the loser in this situation,

And I resent him for it.

So,

You know,

That's a,

Because I talked about,

Like,

Winners not having a lack of empathy,

You know,

But now I want to talk about losers creating the fact that they're a loser in their own head.

And losing the empathy for that other human being because you've created a situation in your head where you're pitted against each other,

And you don't assume that they have the same wants or needs,

You know,

They're just trying to find their own place.

You just created otherness.

Yeah,

You created an other.

Right,

And that's,

You know,

The problem of living egoically instead of consciously and spiritually,

Is that we perceive everybody else as other.

And if,

You know,

If we understand that we are all one and we're all connected and we work towards that,

Then we wouldn't have the problems we're having,

But we don't.

You know,

It's the other,

You know,

We saw this,

I mean,

It was glaringly obvious in the past religious wars,

You know,

It's like,

I mean,

Every religion says thou shall not kill,

You know,

But it's okay to kill a non-believer.

You can't kill a person because that's not right,

But you can kill a non-believer because they're technically not really a person,

You know,

They're not part of us,

They're an other.

They're something separate or different than us.

So we can kill those people,

You know,

It's the same mentality.

So this mentality,

You know,

Has been around since the beginning of man and it's that otherness,

You know,

That we're not working together,

It's,

You know,

We're separate.

So it's,

You know,

Which brings us to comparing and coming from a place of lack,

You know,

It's,

That's why the spiritual foundation and the spiritual mentality is what's going to save us.

Because until you start understanding that we are all one group and we need to be working towards each other,

You know,

Towards the same thing,

We're not going to work towards the same thing,

We're going to compete and combat against each other.

And that's what's going to continue to happen,

You know,

So we have to understand that we are all one,

We have to understand,

You know,

I mentioned earlier separation from source.

When you get down to the core of it,

That's what it is,

We're separated from our source.

When we are separated from our source,

We develop a mentality of lack.

And if we come from a place of lack,

Then all of a sudden the fear bubbles up,

You know,

And that's where competition starts and they have it better or they have it worse or this,

That.

Like,

You know,

They're not,

They're not the source,

You know,

Like if I'm thinking about my son's college education,

I'm not sitting here going like,

Okay,

Well,

You know,

I have,

You know,

I'll lay out my list of life coaching clients and go,

Okay,

Well,

This one's going to pay for his books and this one's going to pay for his first semester.

And,

You know,

This one's going to pay for this and this one,

Like that's not my source of income.

My life coaching clients is not my source of income.

That's just the channel that God happens to be using,

My source happens to be using at this particular time.

So that's why I'm not going to panic about it.

If,

Like,

If,

If a client falls off for some reason or can't continue or something,

I'm not going to go into a panic and go,

Oh my God,

My son's not going to have books for school.

Like,

No,

That's not my source.

That was just a channel of my source.

So,

You know,

I believe that my source is abundant,

Just like this earth is abundant,

Just like we have an abundance of everything.

So we have an abundance,

So I'm not fearful,

And if I'm not fearful,

Then I don't have to compete to try to take other people's.

You know,

So it's that sense of safety and comfortability that allows me to know that my needs will be met.

I'm okay,

And once I can get to that space that I'm okay and my needs will be met,

Then I can put down the competition a little bit and stop taking it so seriously.

You know,

And that's what we need to do is disconnect from it a little bit,

Just because,

I mean,

You know,

I've,

I try not to talk to people about this stuff unless they're open to listening,

Because so many people are blocked off about this type of dialogue that they're just incapable of hearing it at this particular point.

So when I start talking about it and I notice they're shut off,

I just stop talking about it,

Because it's not,

You know,

They're going to think,

If I continue talking,

They're going to think I'm trying to change their opinion.

Therefore,

I'm bringing competition into the situation,

And I'm not.

I'm not trying to change their opinion.

If they're stuck on their opinion,

They can have it.

I'm not interested in continuing the conversation with them.

You know,

But so many people are locked into that if they can just relax a little bit and just understand that it's okay.

We're eternal beings.

You know,

There's a source greater than us that we can depend on and relax a little,

Then all of a sudden we might be able to stop looking for the solution.

That's why a shift is occurring now,

And it's a shift in the way of looking at things.

And that's what I always talk about.

That's what's going to save us as a species.

There is no election that's going to save us.

There is no person that's going to save us.

There is no win or loss that's going to save us.

We're not going to elect the right person that has the right ideas and have everybody else wrong,

And then all of a sudden our problems are going to be fixed.

That's not how it's going to go.

The only chance we have is if we meet on a common ground that's deeper than all that competition crap.

And it's still beautiful.

I'll use the example that Beckwith gives because it's got famous people in it,

So it kind of seems more powerful in my own experience.

But he said that he was reading a book with Bill Russell,

And Bill Russell would say that when there were certain games when he'd step on a basketball court,

And right then he knew that winning and losing didn't matter.

It was that he was in an exchange of energy.

And when he was playing like that,

He could recognize that the other player he was playing against was in that same energy,

And that's when their best came out.

And it was just beautiful.

And winning and losing didn't matter.

It was just an exchange of energy,

And it was beautiful,

And it was the best that he ever played.

And it was fun,

And it was fulfilling.

That's where we're heading towards.

So there.

This is a really difficult topic.

It is.

And I think we touched on this on the last podcast,

The Patriots winning the Super Bowl.

I grew up in New England.

I'm a Pats fan,

So obviously I'm on the winning side.

But what I saw out there after the Pats won was a lot of Patriots shoving it in Roger Goodell's face because he suspended Tom Brady for four games at the beginning of the season.

And they stick a microphone in Tom Brady's face right after,

Who Tom dealt with this situation of being suspended and all the hoopla going around it by reading the four agreements.

So getting a spiritual perspective on how to not take things personally and rise above it.

And it obviously,

You know,

He credits that to helping him process through this stuff,

Looking at things in a different,

Healthier way.

So when they stick the microphone in his face and go,

Oh,

How does this.

They said something like,

Does this finish the revenge tour or something like that?

And he was like,

No,

No,

Nothing negative.

I'm not even going there.

This is a positive experience and I'm keeping it positive.

He wouldn't even he wouldn't even discuss it.

Now,

This happened to Tom Brady.

So if anybody on the planet should take it personally,

Which he I don't believe anybody should ever take anything personally,

But that's a whole nother topic.

So if there was a person that should take it personally,

It should it should be him.

It happened to him.

He is able by shifting his perspective to not take it personally and really enjoy the positivity of the experience of competition and coming coming out on the winning side of this extreme competition state.

And he kept it positive.

He didn't get sucked down into the negativity of it going.

Yeah.

See,

Take that,

Goodell.

You know that it's that would have just wrecked it.

You know,

I just and that's what we're talking about today.

Now.

OK,

So a this is just a stupid side note for this,

But a commercial did come out,

Like right after the Super Bowl,

Starring Tom Brady,

Where he goes to put his rings in a locker and like a gym.

And then he's like,

Oh,

I almost forgot.

He pulls out the fifth one and she's like,

You're going to need a bigger locker.

And he goes,

Roger that.

So like he did poke fun a little bit in a commercial,

But I didn't even see that.

But it's but there's a difference between having fun with what happened.

Yes.

And could have taken a real moment to bash the commissioner.

Oh,

My God.

Yeah.

He could have seriously shoved that in their face.

You know,

When Roger Goodell's handing the Lombardi Trophy to Bill Belichick or to Robert Kraft,

They're booing.

The stadium is booing Roger Goodell.

Right.

Which is louder than and that's you know,

And that that and I was sitting there as a Pats fan going,

This is what's wrong in the United States and in the world.

This is wrong.

This is what's wrong with humanity right now,

Is that you're sitting on the winning side and you're still throwing negativity out there.

This that is why that is why winning and losing doesn't matter.

That's why that this that's why it never gets us anywhere,

Because when you win,

You turn into a jerk.

And when you lose,

You turn into a jerk.

And you know what you have?

All jerks.

That's what you have.

That's why that's why it doesn't get us anywhere.

You know,

So it's like,

Oh,

Well,

If I win,

Then then I'm a good person.

No,

You're a jerk.

You know,

You're throwing out negativity at other people.

Well,

They threw it off at me first.

Oh,

OK,

So so that you know,

That's how we should live our lives,

You know,

And that's that actually touches on a good point of why we do this is,

You know,

Oh,

They did it to me first.

It's I've had people attacking me.

You know,

In my life,

I've had that happen,

And I had a decision to make where they're attacking me just relentlessly over and over and over again.

And by anybody else's standards,

I could have attacked back and everybody would have went,

Yeah,

You're damn right,

Glenn.

She deserved it.

They deserved it,

You know.

And but I had a choice.

Do I want to be one who attacks?

That's my choice,

Period.

And I chose no,

I don't want to be one who attacks.

That's that's it.

It's as simple as that.

When somebody lies to you and then you lie back,

You're a liar.

You don't become less of a liar because they lied first.

You know,

It's so we can't point the finger and say,

Well,

They did it first.

So then they had this coming.

Well,

It never ends.

Yeah.

OK,

Well,

Then you did it.

And then now now so that means you have it coming next.

Right.

Well,

No,

I don't have it coming.

Well,

Why?

You did it.

Well,

Yeah,

But I did it because they did it.

Well,

They don't see it that way.

They did it because you did it,

Because they did it,

Because,

You know,

It never ends.

So choose the person who you want to be.

Don't let other people determine who you are going to be by their actions.

You know,

That's what you can that that's why it doesn't matter if you think the other side is fair or right.

You know,

Tom Brady can be sitting there going,

I think Roger Goodell was wrong.

He can have that belief.

That's fine.

He doesn't have to shove a victory in his face to have that peace within him.

That does not bring peace within you.

It actually does the opposite.

It brings anger within you.

It breeds anger within you.

So technically,

If Tom Brady were to say,

Yeah,

Take that,

Goodell,

Shove it,

Shove it.

Right.

If he were to have taken that mentality,

Then Goodell would have won.

Right.

Because Goodell would have turned him into somebody who's angry and walking around in resentment.

You know,

So that's how the other side wins.

So don't let them turn you into something you don't want to be.

Just be a loving,

Kind,

Open minded person.

You just you don't worry about everybody else.

Just you.

And then you'll be you'll be one.

Then there'll be another one.

Then there'll be another one.

Then there'll be another one.

And positivity is a lot more powerful than negativity.

So you can have one positive person blow out one hundred negative people.

So we don't have to have that many of us before change starts exciting,

Because what happens is when there's enough just to capture attention.

All of a sudden,

When 100 people stand up in like a thousand person group,

100 people can shift a thousand person group very easily because there's something inside of us that wants to go towards love.

It's just our innate way of being.

So once it's being held up as an option for enough people.

Then all of a sudden a whole bunch of other people who subconsciously wanted it anyway swing right over to the other side.

And that's how we change things.

And that's what we're in the middle of this spiritual shift right now doing.

Obviously,

As I said,

Very difficult subject.

It's really hard to separate yourself from the competition and from creating yourself as a winner or a loser.

And to remove yourself from that feeling of other,

Even if you think that you're being a good person doing it.

So if you're not sure if you're being a good person or not,

Just look at your behaviors.

Are your behaviors coming from love?

If they are,

Then good.

If they're not,

Then your thinking is off a little bit.

And if you need help adjusting that and getting some clarity on your particular situation,

This is what we need to do.

We need to talk about things.

We need to explore different ways of thinking.

So if you need somebody to do that,

Just contact me at life-enhancement-services.

And we can expand on this topic specifically for your situation,

Your beliefs.

And I do work by phone and Skype,

So location is not an issue.

So just reach out to me at life-enhancement-services.

And we'll go from there.

So be some love out there everybody and we'll talk at you soon.

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Reviews

Politics is a difficult topic that these days I try to avoid unless I’m communicating with people who believe what I believe. I’m angry about a lot of things regarding politics including the biased media. So the way I deal with that is to avoid the biased media and anything else that I believe is unfair and manipulative. I don’t believe in “loving” everything. I do believe in avoiding the things that cause me stress,

Really 8nteresting and a great reminder. Thank you.
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