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The Power Of No Contact

by Katharine Chestnut

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Meditation
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When recovering from narcissistic abuse, going No Contact is an important part of healing. By letting go and taking responsibility, you can heal your unhealed wounds. When you are a full and healthy Source to yourself, you no longer give energy to those that abuse you. Nor do you accept their energy. It is from this space, you create safety for yourself and create a new reality filled with joy. Music by Christopher Lloyd Clarke

No ContactSelf LoveTraumaEmpowermentEmotional DetachmentInner PeaceHealingNarcissistic AbuseLetting GoResponsibilitySelf SourceSafetyJoyTrauma RecoveryPersonal EmpowermentBreathing Awareness

Transcript

Welcome.

Welcome to this safe place.

A place without contact with those that do not honor you.

Find a quiet place and move your attention gently to your breath.

Observe each breath as it happens.

Breathe.

As you move through this meditation you may find that your mind wanders.

If so,

Simply accept this and gently bring your focus back to your breath.

Let your breath fill you with calm and power as you stay connected to this moment.

To be successful in your quest to recover,

No contact is one of the most important obstacles you can overcome.

No contact means that you don't answer text messages or emails or phone calls or even your front door.

No contact means that you don't check social media,

That you don't investigate what is going on.

No contact means that you do not speak to people who are connected with the source of your trauma.

No contact means no energy in any way,

Shape or form is given and you no longer accept the energy that causes you pain.

Gently breathe.

Stay connected to your body.

Breathe.

When you attempt to control someone or something that is out of control,

The only outcome is that you will be completely controlled by that person or thing.

No matter how bad it feels,

You do have the ability to create this journey of self.

One breath at a time.

You are here to learn,

To take responsibility for your own journey,

To heal the unhealed parts of yourself.

You have the strength and courage to keep no contact when every part of you wants to reconnect.

You have the commitment to focus on what is really important.

It is your healing and you will fiercely continue the process without giving up.

You know the truth of your healing.

You know that you must be willing to let go of that which does not honor you.

As painful and difficult as it may be,

You know that you need to let go in order to reclaim your life,

Your spirit,

And your joy for living.

Honor what your soul really needs.

Heal and be free.

Love yourself enough to save your life and be filled with divine truth.

No contact is an act of self-love.

Care for yourself.

Respect yourself.

Respect yourself and your inner soul.

Your deep inner soul knows and will empower you to create your own truth.

This is your liberation.

This is your freedom.

This is your freedom.

This is your freedom.

Meet your Teacher

Katharine ChestnutAtlanta, GA, USA

4.8 (684)

Recent Reviews

Michelle

October 29, 2025

Thank you so much. Sending healing love to all the suffering hearts tonight. Love bombing really hurts 😞. This was perfect

Priya

June 24, 2025

Possible... but extremely difficult Grateful for the words ❤️

Suzanne

November 11, 2024

Such a relief to habe someone who gives me permission to have no contact with peiple who triggered my old qounds, with people who do not respect my soul, with people who remember me my past of mistreating. Smooth and relaxing. This meditation made me realize that I don’t need to avoid everyone in life and live wirh loneliness. I only need to choose and let fo of the ones who are a constant memory of old wounds. Thank you so mich.

Ivan

October 15, 2024

I've stopped my meditation practice for years because of trauma that has settled in my body caused by people around me. This is the first guided meditation where I feel like I can feel myself again because of how resonant the words on this are. Thank you; this was affirming.

Julie

March 10, 2024

Very impactful and I’m so grateful for this message and meditation.

Christine

October 4, 2023

Thank you soo much for your great, heartfelt meditation! 🧡✨🙏🏼

Rebecca

April 18, 2023

OMG!!! This was so powerful and just what I needed to hear! Thank you for this wonderful message and your soothing voice. I will listen to this every night or every day until I can learn to protect myself and tell myself that my feelings and my life matters!!!!! 🩵🦋🙏🏼

Christine

April 14, 2023

I think I will play this every day for the next couple of weeks. After almost 5 years of no contact with my family I still may have doubts and feel guilty. The best thing that happened to me was that my aunt's and uncles from the narcissists family gave me their understanding and support by letting me know that I was not alone, that the behaviour of the narcissist was already there long before I was born and that there was no reason at all for me to blame myself or feel guilty. Love from Amsterdam

Therese

August 28, 2022

An most importantly☝️ Never feel guilty for protecting yourself from people who never felt guilty for hurting you.. i'm so so done with that and it truly shows how far i have come on my healing journey. Your meditations are a big part of that - thank you so much ❤️ Your work matters!

Jennifer

June 10, 2022

I found it helpful after having experienced emotional abuse by a romantic partner.

Mabel

January 27, 2022

Soothing voice with a strong message of self love. Thank you.

Anna

April 17, 2021

This was a wonderful meditation. Thankyou so much for being part of my healing and for this crucial insight for my journey

VAL

March 31, 2021

Excellent. I’m one year out no contact. This meditation was a true lifeline. Over and over Listening when I was shattered. Healing. Coming along. All of your meditations have made a different. Sending meta.

Chris

January 4, 2021

Very good. Not directly relevant nowadays but I still find it very calming and empowering. Thank you!! X

Angelica

October 12, 2020

Not relevant any longer but still a good meditation

C

June 23, 2020

Thank you. Needed that - nearly reached out. Xx

Joanna

May 26, 2020

Exactly what I need now. Thank you.

Lisa

April 16, 2020

Very powerful. Thank you.

Xavien

April 8, 2020

Thank you for this. No contact in any way. Protect my peace.

Christopher

March 15, 2020

Very empowering. Thank you. Xx

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