Self-Love Affirmations - For Singles & Attracting Love

This meditation will help you cultivate self-love before you start dating. If you are single and focused on building your self-love before you start dating a partner listen to it daily. These are affirmations that I’ve used over the last year on my journey and I pray that they help you deepen your connection to God and yourself.

Transcript

Hello everyone,

In this video I'm going to be sharing affirmations that you can use to assist you as you are building your self love before you start dating.

So when you're ready,

Just go ahead and get into a comfortable position.

Take some time to just become aware of your breathing.

Notice how your body feels.

Close your eyes when you're ready.

Then just become aware of your stomach rising and falling with every breath.

Don't feel obligated to change your experience,

To change your breath instead,

Just observe.

Continue to breathe naturally and become aware of the seat or the bed or the floor underneath you.

Bring your awareness to the space in between your body and whatever is supporting you.

Tune into what your body is feeling.

Quickly scan from your head,

The crown of your head down to the space in between your eyebrows and just release any tension if you notice it.

Bring your awareness down to your jaw and if you notice that you're clenching,

Just relax it.

Allow your tongue to just relax in your mouth and your jaw to fall open.

Scan down to your shoulders and become aware if there's any tension,

Any anxiety that you're holding onto.

Just breathe into it and release it.

Continue to scan down.

Notice your heart area,

Your heart center and just send gratitude to that space,

To your heart for beating,

For your chest rising and falling with each breath as a reminder that you are alive and well and still have a purpose here on this earth.

Continue to scan down and just notice your belly as you breathe in and out.

Become aware of your hips.

Breathe into them if they feel tight or tense.

Continue to scan down.

Notice your fingertips,

Relax them into the surface beneath you.

Continue to scan down,

Scan down.

Notice your thighs,

Notice your knees,

Notice your calves,

Notice your ankles,

All the way down to the very bottoms of your souls.

And just imagine that your souls are planted,

Rooted and grounded to whatever the surface is that they are on,

Whether it's the hills or the palms of your feet.

Just feel the gravitational pull planting you firmly in this moment.

You are safe,

You are secure.

Now I would like for you to repeat these affirmations aloud or in your mind as I say them.

And with each affirmation,

Send love,

Kindness and awareness to your heart space.

Let's begin.

My singleness is a blessing.

My singleness is a blessing.

I am grateful for this place of peace and ease.

I am grateful for this place of peace and ease.

I am grateful,

Happy and content right here in my singleness.

I am grateful,

Happy,

Content right here in my singleness.

I receive radical love.

I receive radical love.

I express radical love.

I express radical love.

I give love freely.

I give love freely.

I give love without expectation.

I give love without expectation.

I receive love without expectation.

I receive love without expectation.

I am open to deep,

Romantic love.

I am open to deep,

Romantic love.

I am open to intimate self-love.

I am open to intimate self-love.

I am in love with myself.

I am in love with myself.

I am in awe of myself.

I am in awe of myself.

I see myself.

I see myself.

I am full of sweetness.

I am full of sweetness.

I am compassionate and kind.

I am compassionate and kind.

I love myself and I honor my growth.

I love myself and I honor my growth.

I respect and nourish my body with clean,

Healthy foods.

I respect and nourish my body with clean,

Healthy foods.

I am magnetic.

I am magnetic.

I cultivate love with ease.

I cultivate love with ease.

I spread love with ease.

I spread love with ease.

I am abundantly overflowing with love.

I am abundantly overflowing with love.

I am grateful and blessed,

Pouring into myself.

I am grateful and blessed,

Pouring into myself.

I am full on my own love.

I am full on my own love.

I am full on God's love.

I am full on God's love.

I am the vibe I want to attract.

I am the vibe I want to attract.

I am the energy I want to attract.

I am the energy I want to attract.

Take a deep breath in and breathe out through your nose.

One more time and hold it at the top and breathe out through your nose.

When you feel ready,

Open your eyes and just notice how your body feels.

Become aware that you are vibrating at a higher frequency than when you started and that this frequency is how you experience true self-love that then radiates outside of you.

Come back to this meditation and affirmations whenever you need it and I pray that this was a blessing to you.

If it was and you want to receive a worksheet with written affirmations,

A bonus prayer that also aligns with self-love before dating,

If you would like some journaling prompts to help you process your emotions around your self-love and setting goals for your season of singleness,

Click the link in the description of this video slash podcast and download the worksheet.

Thank you for listening.

Bye.

Reviews

Beautiful, thoughtful affirmations. Thank you.

Short, sweet, and to the point. Great affirmations!

You are awesome! Thank you 🙏🏽

I am the love I want to attract. Thank you for helping me be able to be aware of this truth . I am on a mission for balance in my life and you are just what the doctor ordered. The music is to loud and takes away from hearing you. Nothing should do that because you sound great.

Love this. Thank you Fatima för this beautiful meditation

Beautiful 🤩 I feel so different energetically from when I began.

Absolutely beautiful! I will come back to this meditation over and over

This is definitely something g yhat spoke to my soul directly. Thank you.

Thank you so much. This was very uplifting. Dating can lead to feelings of rejection and unworthiness...This really helps refocusing on our love for ourselves and for life, without any urge to feel more " complete" with a romantic partner. 🌟🌞🌱

Lovely kind warm compassionate voice & gentle self loving affirmations. Thank you for sharing your session

Thank you Fatima! Your soft voice and words of wisdoms is what my mind and soul needs. All the best to you! 🌞🙏🏾

Thank you this meditation is a Blessing🙏🏾❤️

I especially love the affirmations and how you deliver them. Thanks 🙏 ✨

I felt my awareness shift... I had to send you some love.

Filled with self love! ❤️ Thank you for creating and sharing! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

Amazing meditation, definitely feeling the higher vibration from having done this - Thankyou