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Let Go External Validation - Affirmations For Worthiness

by Eileen Rose Miles

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It's time to stop relying on external validation and give yourself the affirmations and validation you desire. Feel a shift in your inner dialogue as you practice self kindness, support and encouragement. Outside validation can simply become a bonus to what you give yourself.

Self ValidationInner DialogueSelf WorthHeartEmpowermentExternal ValidationWorthinessSelf KindnessSupportEncouragementAffirmationsBreathingBreathing AwarenessInner Dialogue ShiftsSelf Affirmations

Transcript

Begin to drop in.

Use your breath to gently move from your head space into your heart space.

Breathing in through your nose,

Exhaling,

Letting it go.

Starting to land slowly in this moment.

Breathing in and out.

One more just like that.

Inhale and exhale.

Beginning to slowly shift from the external world to your internal world.

Taking a moment to really see what is present within you.

Just noticing all that you are.

Observing if you feel down because you're waiting to hear something from someone or to be asked a certain question or given affirmations and validation.

Noticing if you're just waiting to be seen and loved.

Where have you been looking for validation and reassurance?

Everything that you're looking for is waiting within you.

Using your breath to reconnect with this part of you that is the greatest source of validation and uplifting comments,

Support,

Love,

Acknowledgement.

I know it feels great to be seen by others but how about to be seen by you?

Because only you know what goes on behind the scenes,

The work that you put in,

What it takes to be you.

And therefore you can really really see and honor yourself fully in a way else can.

Just breathe.

Taking a long loving look at yourself.

Breathe in and exhale.

In this moment really meeting yourself.

In this moment really seeing yourself.

Reminding yourself that you are worthy because you exist right here.

You are enough right here.

Charlotte Freeman writes you should never let how people feel about you dictate the way that you feel about yourself.

It's so common to measure your self-worth by external factors and it's not until you truly value yourself that you learn how breaking that is.

How the way someone feels about you makes you doubt yourself and destroy your confidence.

Stop letting people dictate how you feel about yourself.

When you stop looking for validation in all the wrong places,

When will you realize that it's all in you?

It always has been and it always will be.

Breathe in,

Breathe out.

Feeling a sense of empowerment as you remember it's all up to you that you can tell yourself exactly what you've been waiting to hear.

If your heart could speak how would it validate you in this moment?

What would it say to you?

Feel your inner dialogue shift,

Letting go of external validation,

Remembering that external validation cannot be everything.

May it be a bonus to what you already know.

Relying on yourself.

Take a slow breath in,

Slow exhale,

Placing your hands on your heart knowing that you are becoming the best version of you that quickly can remember you have everything you need,

That within your inner world is all that you are seeking.

We'll end our practice with some affirmations.

We'll end our practice with some affirmations.

I have amazing strength within me.

Beautiful things are coming into my life.

I am right where I am supposed to be.

I love of myself.

I am strong and confident.

I am not my past.

I am creating my own future.

I am gifted.

I am doing a great job.

Take a breath in and a breath out.

I am full of potential of potential and I have so much to offer the world.

I am not behind.

I am exactly where I need to be.

I am strong enough to handle anything that life throws my way.

I am worthy of being loved,

Cherished,

And celebrated.

Giving yourself an affirmation that you deserve to hear in this moment.

Take a slow breath in,

Slow exhale.

Notice how it feels to be seen and loved and validated by you.

That you don't have to search far.

It's all right here within you.

May you give yourself this gift from time to time.

From my heart to yours.

Meet your Teacher

Eileen Rose MilesBrighton, MI, USA

4.8 (1 062)

Recent Reviews

Alexis

December 18, 2025

Lovely meditation! Your voice is so soothing and the music in the background was very calming! I loved the self affirmations and meditation is super helpful! I love it! Thank you Eileen! 🫶🏼☮️💟

Pam

November 13, 2025

Loved this meditation . Fell asleep feeling so relaxed

Hiram

September 27, 2025

Heaven knows I needed this meditation. Thank you 🫶🏿

Stretch

September 10, 2025

That was a wonderful guided meditation, I will be back for more of this guidance, thank you 🙏

Lucy

September 4, 2025

It was exactly what I needed, dear Eileen. The words and affirmations flowed straight into my heart. My inner child also enjoyed these words. I will definitely do this again, thank you! 🩵

Vayu

September 1, 2025

Beautiful. Gentle and loving, just like we need to be more with ourselves.

Usman

August 25, 2025

Thank you for the affirmations. Thank you for this meditation.

Karen

July 1, 2025

What a lovely start to July for me! Thank you so much. 💕💫💕

Goldenrod

March 4, 2025

An important message. Your kind voice melts smoothly into my heart. Thank you.

Michelle

January 22, 2025

Thank you Eileen, I really needed to hear this today 🤍

Terry

January 16, 2025

That was exactly what I needed to hear in this moment. Thank you 🙏🏽

Andrea

December 10, 2024

Wonderful meditation and affirmations just what I needed. Thank you 🙏🏾

Raney

November 3, 2024

Liked that the affirmations came at end of a good, solid meditation. I feel a lot better and encouraged. And like I have let go a chunk of past that was weighing me down.From my ❤️ to yours. 🙏

Shuman

October 25, 2024

I selected this randomly not realising just how much I needed to hear everything that you said in it. Thank you so much. Love Shuman

Kat

October 3, 2024

Not me crying over here during meditation (must have gotten some incense smoke in my eyes). Fantastic meditation, a perfect boost and reminder that all the validation I need is within me. Thanks for the awesome start to the day!

Rachel

September 26, 2024

Very gentle and nurturing. Loved the quiet melodic background music.

BerryMc

September 16, 2024

Such a great meditation like so many others of yours. Keep up the great work Eileen.

Nadine

September 6, 2024

Thank you. This was the gentle loving reminder and support I needed today 👃💗🌸

Deanna

July 27, 2024

I’m so glad I came across this meditation, it really got me thinking about things, and prompted me to journal about my struggle to have self confidence. I recognize where I need to focus on and how I can improve. Thank you, and I will be revisiting this practice!

Jim

April 12, 2024

Soft and soothing meditation, thank you! It's tough when all you've known is wanting external validation. A good reminder to look inward.

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