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Letting Go Of Expectations And Stress

by Clare Downham

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5
Type
guided
Activity
Meditation
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Everyone
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A gentle guided reminder exploring the invisible pressure of self-expectation. You’ll be supported in recognising the mental habits that create stress and reminded of the peace that already lives within you. This short track is ideal for moments when you feel overwhelmed by pressure to do or be more.

StressExpectationsSelf AcceptanceMindfulnessBody AwarenessPresent MomentBreath AwarenessEmotional HealingInner PeaceStress And Anxiety ReductionMindfulness Of ThoughtsPresent Moment Awareness

Transcript

Welcome,

Let's begin by landing here,

Right where you are.

You don't need to go anywhere else.

You don't need to do anything right now.

Just let yourself arrive.

Feel the support of the surface beneath you.

Let yourself be held.

Let your shoulders drop.

Let the muscles around your eyes soften.

Let your hands rest gently,

Wherever they are.

Take a breath.

Let it move in naturally and gently out again.

There is no rush.

Right now,

You are safe to pause.

To step out of the race.

Out of the pressure.

And into presence.

Often,

We walk through our days carrying invisible weight.

Pressure to be more.

To do more.

To prove something.

To fix what doesn't really need fixing.

We expect so much of ourselves.

And often,

We don't even notice it.

Until we feel it.

In the tension in our neck.

In the heaviness in our chest.

In the racing thoughts before sleep.

Expectation often hides in those small,

Internal whispers.

I should be further along.

I should be able to handle this.

This shouldn't be happening.

Why haven't I figured it out by now?

These thoughts sound like truth.

But they are not.

They are just thought.

They arise in consciousness and they will pass.

You are not your thoughts.

You are the one noticing them.

Right now,

Notice where any expectations might be sitting in your body.

You don't need to judge them.

Just bring them into awareness.

And allow them to soften.

Breathe into that space.

What if there is nothing wrong with you?

What if stress isn't coming from the situation?

But from the story your mind is telling about it?

Take another breath.

Let it be long and kind.

Stress comes from resisting what is.

From thinking it should be different.

But what if this moment,

Just as it is,

Is enough?

Even if it's messy.

Even if you feel tired or uncertain.

You don't need to get it all right.

You don't need to be perfect.

The deeper part of you is always whole.

Always wise.

Always at peace.

Let yourself lean into that truth.

Let go of the striving.

Let go of the inner urgency.

Come back to now.

Feel the breath as it moves through your body.

Feel the ground beneath you.

Let your awareness settle into the present.

Right here is where your clarity lives.

Right here is where your wisdom speaks.

And right here is where peace is already available.

You don't need to find peace.

You only need to stop chasing something else long enough to notice that it's already here.

This moment doesn't require you to be anyone other than who you are.

You don't need to live up to the expectations in your mind.

They are just ideas.

Not instructions.

Not truth.

Take another breath.

And with each exhale,

Let go of just a little more.

You are allowed to rest.

You are allowed to soften.

You are allowed to stop trying so hard.

Let the body be still.

Let the mind be quiet.

And if it's not quiet,

That's okay too.

Even when there's noise,

There's still a quiet space beneath it all.

And that space is always here.

You are not broken.

You are not behind.

You are simply waking up.

Waking up from the pressure.

From the illusion that peace is something to earn.

It isn't.

It's your nature.

It's your birthright.

And it has never left you.

Let this final breath feel like a homecoming.

Back to yourself.

Back to this moment.

Back to what is real.

And as this practice ends,

Carry this gentleness with you.

Not as something to get right.

But as something you can return to again and again.

And know that if you need to hear this reminder again,

You can come back and listen anytime you need to.

You are already enough.

You already are home.

Much love.

Meet your Teacher

Clare DownhamWest Yorkshire, United Kingdom

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