Letting go of attachments and our attachments can be endless.
To let go of an attachment is one of the greatest acts of self-forgiveness you can do for yourself.
If you are attached,
You create desire by creating a need for something in your life.
Even though you may know that the relationship is over,
The job doesn't work for you,
The loved one has died,
The house or apartment that you've been living or renting is being sold,
You are beginning to allow yourself the full understanding of your totality and saying,
Yes I am attached.
I'm attached to a way of being through this person or situation,
Place or job has sustained me and that needs acknowledgement for that in itself is a grief.
Your attachment,
You bring in a greater force of love and you truly are allowing the love that you received through that person or environment etc.
To always be with you.
For the greatest letting go of attachment will be to the body we inhabit,
That we've had on earth,
Attachment and detachment,
Attachment detachment.
When you find yourself attaching to someone or something,
It's a little bit like an emotional hook,
Like a fishing hook attached to a fish.
To disconnect from attachment is to recognise a greater force of love that you and that person may have shared and to acknowledge the grief as part of life and just allowing yourself to say,
I'm letting go of attachment to my own old identity.
I'm attached to that person,
You have been my friend for most of my life,
Maybe all of my life,
But you are not serving me now.
You're holding us back from my new life.
You can be aware of seeing it like a child at the airport,
Young person and their loved ones and family are all around,
Sobbing at the gateway.
For you are embarking on a journey to an undiscovered part of yourself and that requires you to be the brave one,
To look back with great love and gratitude but not attachment and that attachment invariably attracts emotion and mind-based patterning.
For the greatest gift we have to ourselves,
Our species,
Is to love without attachment.
It is the greatest courage to love without attachment.
It is called unconditional love.
And the force not being attached to outcomes,
The expectation of outcomes because you've always worked so hard and slavishly to create an outcome,
Invites the force of miracles to come to your life.
Things that you wouldn't have ever dreamt happen,
Begin to happen because you've gone to the source of love,
The source of miracles,
The source of your self-forgiveness,
Inviting yourself now to see where you give a lot of emotional energy to.
Just tune into your intelligent heart,
Ask it.
Are we attached at the moment to this person,
This situation,
This anything?
Your intelligent heart will answer.
Yes you are.
Your emotional heart and your cunning mind want to keep you attaching.
This attachment can rob us of the very thing we need in being human,
To cherish our ability to self-love.
And like the hook in the mouth or the body of the fish,
It's getting the hook out.
And sometimes our hooks with loved ones can be very challenging,
Very deep.
So you need to proceed very carefully.
Just acknowledging the attachment is half the journey.
But not giving emotional energy to the memory of the attachment,
Invites you now to step into the raw magical energy of all you ever were.
Invite yourself to list your attachments and see very gently how they can be not supporting you in opening you up to a new way of saying I deserve to receive love.
I now allow myself self-forgiveness.
Hearts,
I love you all.
