Some Days Are Just Hard

Here you are. You might have arrived full and flowing. You might have arrived empty and depleted. Here you are. Trust the anchor of your breath as you inhale. Whatever you are holding, let it go as you exhale. Inhale. Exhale. Welcome to a Hit of Hope. I’m going to say something obvious: some days are just hard. There might be a reason. There might not. When it gets hard, all kinds of stories might kick in, as our life has suddenly turned into a movie trailer, and all we see are cringe-worthy.

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Here you are.

You might have arrived full and flowing.

You might have arrived empty and depleted.

Here you are.

Trust the anchor of your breath.

Let it ground you as you inhale.

And whatever you are holding,

Let it go as you exhale.

Inhale.

Exhale.

Welcome to a hit of hope.

I'm going to say something obvious.

Some days are just hard.

There might be a reason.

There might not.

When it gets hard,

All kinds of stories might kick in like our life has suddenly turned into a movie trailer.

But all we see are the cringe-worthy moments.

Inhale.

Exhale.

When our days are hard,

We might turn to our old habits.

The ones we know aren't great,

But we know them.

So there's comfort in that,

Right?

We might numb.

We might run.

We might not know what to do.

Inhale.

Exhale.

Some days are just hard.

And why is it that that's so hard for us to accept?

After all,

If we expect good times in our lives,

Isn't it natural to expect that there will be hard times as well?

Now,

It is not that we need to seek out hard times.

They will find us.

But we also do not need to pretend that hard times aren't hard.

Let me repeat that.

We do not need to pretend that hard times aren't hard.

We will experience pain,

Loss.

We will hurt physically,

Emotionally,

Spiritually.

As scary as those feelings can be,

We need to feel in order to be free.

So sometimes the practice is to sit,

To stay,

To let the emotions arise and flow away.

No emotion has ever lasted forever.

Stay.

Breathe.

Let it come.

Let it go.

Some days are just hard.

Let them be.

Let them be held in this moment with this breath.

Inhale.

Exhale.

Exhale.

Stay.

Hold.

Let it come.

Let it go.

Breathe.

Live.

Lighter now.

And shine.

Reviews

Thanks again Betsy. Super crappy day here. Nice to let go of this and just believe tomorrow will be better.

Beautiful..such a gentle reminder to just be with whatever is unfolding..it too will pass. Gratitude to you Betsy🙏😌💛

Another helpful meditation from this wonderful teacher. Thank you for the reminder emotions don’t last forever and the tendency to revert to past behaviours. In my current state I want to lash out. Deep breath in. Long breath out.

Thank you for the reminder that I can show my emotions whatever they may be and not feel stupid.🌸🦋

Amazing as usual Betsy! Your Hits of Hope are my favorite way to start my day!

Namaste 🙏

Love this acknowledgment of reality with validation, reminder to breath, and inspiration. It’s just what I need between 12 hour shifts
Thanks

Just what I needed to hear🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Wow… just the words I needed to hear! Felt like you were talking directly to me. Beautiful! THANK YOU MY

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As I've said before - an easy path never made a badass 😎💪 Sending love and light Betsy 💖💫