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I'm Allison Shuhazi,
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Whispers of wisdom,
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Allison.
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It is Wisdom Wednesday with Shift Today with Allison and I appreciate you joining me today.
I know there's so many things that you could be doing and I appreciate just a few minutes to stop by and hear what I have to say.
Well today is a very interesting piece.
This happened a while ago and it actually just resurfaced again with all this togetherness we have going on these days.
So I thought I would go ahead and share this with you.
Have you ever had somebody question how much you love them?
Well recently with our kids,
I've had this back and forth of Evan,
Mom you love Dylan more than me and Dylan,
Mom you love Evan more than me.
And I'm like,
What is going on?
Well keep in mind,
I'm an only child so being around siblings in this manner is totally new for me.
And so I thought,
Gosh,
How can I explain this to them?
And so we sat down with,
I sat down with each of them separately to try to explain it and it didn't work out.
So we sat down together,
The three of us.
And I said,
Let me tell you something.
I said,
I do have an endless bucket of love.
However I can't divvy it out evenly.
That's really kind of impossible for me to do.
Because sometimes Evan might need more love for me in a certain moment in the day or over an extended period of time because maybe he's troubled and working through something.
And I said,
And sometimes Dylan might need more of my love today.
So my bucket might go up and down and I might divvy out a little bit more to you or a little bit,
Maybe less on a given day because you know,
Daddy might need some extra love with something he's going through.
And I said,
And maybe Abby gets hurt and so she might need a little bit more of my love.
And I said,
You know,
And Grandmama might need some extra,
Aunt Sandy might need some,
You know,
Another friend might need some.
I said,
And Granny and Grandpa might need some extra love at certain times.
And I said,
And sometimes I might need to keep some of my love for myself,
Because I might be struggling and going through something that I need to turn that love back and hold it really close and tight to myself so that I can build myself back up so that I can turn my love back out to you guys.
And I said,
So it's never that I love anybody less.
It's just that I might need to give a little bit more to somebody else at that moment.
And if it hurts your feelings,
I'm sorry for that,
But I'll try to explain it.
And I said,
But this is the easiest way I can explain my love for you.
And I said,
And the coolest part about love is that for you guys,
It keeps growing more and more every year.
And they're like,
Why?
And I said,
Because you keep getting bigger on me.
You keep learning and you keep growing.
And so there's so much more,
More of you to love.
And I said,
And you know what,
I met daddy 15 years ago almost,
And I love him more now than I met when I met him.
If that's even possible,
I said,
It's just,
It's so cool how love grows over time.
So I don't know if you're struggling with that maybe today or yesterday,
Or you have in the past,
And maybe it was difficult to explain,
But I thought,
Hmm,
My kids have used this on me before.
And I'm like,
Oh,
I guess you don't need me anymore.
They're like,
No,
Mom,
My bucket of love is just shifted over here for today.
And I'm like,
Wow,
That's pretty cool.
So this is just a little tidbit.
But I hope you are sharing your love.
I hope you're maybe holding some tight on yourself right now.
You know,
It's okay,
If you need to turn that in on yourself sometimes,
And not give it out to everyone else,
And they might not like it.
And it might make them very uncomfortable,
Because maybe they need to turn their love on themselves too.
So just for today,
Remember,
You don't have to be everything to everyone at every moment of every day.
I'm going to repeat that because that's kind of a lot of everys,
But I think it's a good reminder.
Just for today,
Remember,
You don't have to be everything to everyone at every moment of every day.
All right,
Well,
Thank you for joining me on this little tidbit.
If you do need a little maybe intuition tune up or maybe just you need to boost your capacity,
Give me a shout.
Until next time,
Shift today into a greater tomorrow.
