It's OK: Affirmation Meditation

A meditation to soothe anxiety, doubt and negative emotions and fill you with peace, release and reassurance. Grounding, soothing, self-caring and putting you back in charge of how you feel. It really is okay and so are you.

Transcript

Hello,

I'm Alison and I wanted to record for you a meditation for soothing,

For self-soothing.

Inside of us we have a wonderful constant support which is our breathing and this is a meditation which recognises the soothing nature of our breathing and how we can bring that and a mantra which is it's okay to the parts of us that are coming up asking to be accepted,

Helped,

Reassured and looked after.

So start first of all by making yourself comfortable wherever you are,

Just as comfortable as you can and take your time.

As you get comfortable,

You might like to start to bring in thoughts of ease and what is easeful to you.

We all have times when we feel uncomfortable and tense and not safe but what thoughts or things in your life have brought you a feeling of safety and ease,

A feeling at home.

As you settle into your breathing,

Breathe with those thoughts and allow your body wherever you're sitting or lying to start to release its weight into the ground.

Feel all the parts of your body that are connected to your support that you're on,

Whether it's a bed,

A chair or the ground itself.

Have a sense that under those supports is that indestructible,

Ever renewing,

Strong,

Stable planet Earth.

Mother Earth,

She's often known because from the earth comes so much creation,

So much repair,

So much beauty,

There's abundant life force in where you are connected.

So you can have a sense that as you surrender your weight,

You're spreading your roots,

Roots from your body down into Mother Earth.

So you're not only being held and supported completely and can let go into that support but these roots you're spreading can get some nourishment,

Some life force from this abundant supply that's there.

It can get special nutrients that you need to feel healed and alive and whole and that your body is wired to be able to receive these because it's wired for gravity.

And in that way you really do have roots deep down into the center of the world,

The heart of the earth and all its benevolent energies.

And at the same time have a sense of all the space around you,

North,

East,

South,

West and your connection to that space that you're supported but you can also free yourself a little from any feelings of confinement by breathing from that space consciously.

Inhaling,

Taking in all those particles and atoms,

Molecules,

Elements of life force that's humming around us all the time in the sky,

In the air,

In the sunshine,

Even in the rain and the wind,

Humming in the stars even.

And you can receive from that just by breathing,

Life's just gifting that life force to you,

Wants you to thrive.

Take a few breaths with that sense that the earth is supporting you and wants to nourish you and the air around you is filling you with life and wants you to thrive.

Breathe as deeply as is comfortable for you without trying to alter or force your breath too much,

Definitely not forcing and not really needing to change it just to let it flow as freely as it can.

Breathe from your pelvis up into your belly,

All along the length of you,

Up to your heart,

Your head,

To the sky,

Feeling that wide sky above you and then all the way back through your body,

Filling yourself with breath and then releasing the rest of your exhale down into the earth underneath you.

And as you do so,

Getting a sense of a widening in your heart,

Your collarbone wide,

Your throat open,

Your jaw relaxed,

That when you breathe you can feel some freedom there in your heart,

Your rib cage getting a good stretch open,

Floating open and plenty of space,

Room to breathe and room,

Plenty of room for your heart to thrive.

And whatever is coming up for you,

I invite you even if just for the length of this meditation to create a bridge for yourself,

A bridge to your own heart,

Offering peace,

Offering acceptance,

Offering a welcome,

A welcome home,

A welcome back,

Even if it's just for this short length of time.

Now feel here where you are,

Supported lying on the ground,

Your heart is open,

Your breath can flow freely,

Your skin and your bones can melt,

That your spirit too is widening open,

Coming alive,

Your true spirit,

Your essence,

Your you and whatever is coming up,

Whatever is there,

Your own luminous essence can spread into all those spaces,

Can embrace anything that's coming up to be embraced.

And one way to feel this again is to really feel your breath and how tender it is.

Breath is soft,

It's powerful and it is fullness inside of us,

It creates infinite space and clarity on the inside,

But it is tender and soft.

There's almost an ancient wisdom in breath,

A tenderness,

An insistent,

Gentle reminder that we are alive and from moment to moment life is gifting us this incredible energy of our breathing to fill every organ,

Every cell,

To nourish us on the inside.

And as you feel that benevolence,

That tenderness,

You can own it and claim it because your breath is your breath and no one else's.

And you always have that throughout your life and no one can take it from you.

So let that mantra as you breathe,

It's okay,

Now vibe through your breath.

You're breathing,

It's okay,

It's okay,

It's okay,

Through your whole body.

With your awareness you can map that breath and that soothing balm of it's okay around all the parts of your body.

Bring it up to your head,

It's okay,

It's okay.

Letting it's okay in your breath,

Fill all your head space,

Letting your any frowning melt into that it's okay soothing breath.

Letting your jaw soften into that it's okay and your ears and your lovely cheekbones,

The gaze behind your eyes if they're closed.

And bring it's okay into your throat,

That breath soothing your throat,

Allowing it to feel the balm of it's okay,

Everything's okay.

And then to your collar bone,

Spreading the breath,

Feeling it spread across your collar bone,

Your breath and it's okay.

And into your shoulders,

Down your arms,

Into your hands.

Keep the pulse of it's okay.

To the back of your heart,

Your shoulders,

It's okay,

Any tension there,

Let it's okay soothe it.

And your heart,

Take a big breath into your heart,

Let it reach open,

Your glorious heart with a big it's okay.

Right there,

Right in the centre of your heart,

It's okay spreading in all directions,

Filling that luminous heart space.

And then down into your belly,

Let your breath be full but relaxed,

Let your belly soften,

Invite it's okay into your belly and into your pelvis.

And now into your buttocks,

Your lower back.

And down through your thighs,

Your knees,

Your calves,

Your ankles and feet.

And now anywhere that you feel calling for that soothing balm of breath and that soothing mantra,

It's okay,

The very vibration of those words can sink into your cells and nourish and heal what's there.

And the same,

Not just with physical sensations but with any emotions arising.

And any thoughts,

Keeping that bridge,

That bridge of peace and compassion and understanding.

It's okay,

It's okay.

And finally taking a couple more breaths,

Washing your body through with it's okay,

The whole length of your spine tingling with it's okay.

Here where you are,

Taking a bath in it's okay as it vibrates through your essence in every part of you.

Infusing this bath of it's okay and your breath,

Your soothing breath as if infusing special oils.

And you can relax here for as long as you want.

Reviews

Beautiful, “ It’s OK” when breathing is so soothing..💗🙏🏻

Such a lovely soothing break - absolutely loved the bath metaphor at the end 🥰

Exactly what I needed as I deal with others’ expectations of me during a time of energetic and emotional depletion. I’m quite aware that I cannot fulfill such at this time, and “it’s okay.” Thank you for this self-affirming and loving meditation.

Thank you Alison, I experienced a real sense of grounding and then acceptance with the lovely affirmation" It's OK ".
Many blessings, prayers and love.
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Much gratitude to you for this amazingly soothing it’s ok meditation . I feel OK now , ready for the day ! 🤗
Love and peace to you !❤️🕊️🙏

Very Calming! I enjoyed that very much. 💞🌈🌷💙🍀💫

That was an amazing journey! I feel so much better. Loved every element of it… pace, music, your voice, the journey with breath, through the body and last but not least the mantra!
Thank you so much! Bookmarked and will definitely return to this.
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Thank you. I feel more at peace and accepting of myself.

Very helpful in grounding in an uncertain or uneasy time. Thank you.

It’s incredible how in a constant state of anxiety and the urge to self improve to be happy the simple words of “it’s okay” can calm you down. So reassuring and soothing. Thanks for that ❤️

Lovely and soothing as I process a significant amount of pain. Thank you!!

Just lovely... And what I needed to start today off in a great way. Thank you 🙏❤

One listen, and a clear favourite! I found it just the right amount of 'challenge' to my thoughts, thought patterns, negativity, without that distracting from the purpose of relaxation. Thank you.

Love this- short & practical and so soothing with your words and loving voice.