Something is close to the surface today.
Maybe you snapped at someone and you're not quite sure why.
Maybe you felt tears coming.
In a moment that did not seem to warrant them.
Maybe everything feels like too much.
The noise,
The requests,
The ordinary demands of an ordinary day,
That somehow today feel impossible to meet,
Without something in you starting to fray,
Starting to snap.
And then comes the guilt.
I should not feel this way.
I should be able to handle this.
What's wrong with me?
Nothing is wrong with you.
You are riding a wave,
And waves do not ask permission before they arise.
This is your EFT tapping session.
For the days when you feel on edge and you're not entirely sure why.
Not to explain it,
Not to fix it.
But to let your nervous system know that it's safe to soften.
That you do not need to hold all of this quite so tightly.
That it's okay to be human.
Find a comfortable position.
Let your body settle.
Close your eyes if that feels comfortable.
Take a slow breath in through your nose.
And a long breath out through your mouth.
Again,
Breathing in.
And letting go.
One more time,
Inhale slowly.
And exhale fully.
Before we begin tapping,
Notice where you are right now.
The irritability,
The closeness to tears The feeling of being one small thing away from completely unraveling.
Give that feeling a number from 0 to 10.
10 being completely overwhelmed and on the edge.
Zero being calm and steady.
Note that number.
We're going to move it.
Bring your fingers to the carotid point on the side of your hand.
And begin tapping gently and repeating after me.
Even though I feel on edge and I don't know why.
Even though I feel on edge and I don't know why.
I am doing the best I can.
I am doing the best I can.
Even though I'm closer to tears than I expected.
Even though I'm closer to tears than I expected.
I acknowledge and appreciate that I am only human.
I acknowledge and appreciate that I am only human.
Even though I feel on edge and I don't know why.
Even though I feel on edge and I don't know why.
I am doing the best I can and that is enough.
I am doing the best I can and that is enough.
Stop tapping on the karate chop point.
And bring your fingers to the inner edge of your eyebrows.
Begin tapping softly and repeat after me.
This wave of frustration.
This wave of frustration.
Tapping on the side of the eye.
So close to the surface.
So close to the surface.
Tapping under the eye.
Everything feels like too much.
Everything feels like too much.
Tapping under the nose.
I snapped,
And I don't know why.
I snapped,
And I don't know why.
Tapping on the chin,
These tears that keep coming.
These tears that keep coming.
Tapping on the collarbone.
The guilt about feeling this way.
The guilt about feeling this way.
Tapping under the arm.
I should be able to handle this.
I should be able to handle this.
Tapping on the top of the head.
This wave of frustration so close to the surface.
This wave of frustration so close to the surface.
Stop tapping.
Take a slow breath in.
And release it completely.
Tapping now.
On the eyebrow.
And repeating after me.
I don't have to hold it all.
I don't have to hold it all.
Tapping on the side of the eye.
I release the guilt.
I release the guilt.
Tapping under the eye.
Feeling this way doesn't mean I'm failing.
Feeling this way doesn't mean I'm failing.
Tapping under the nose.
Waves come and waves pass.
Waves come and waves pass.
Tapping on the chin.
I don't have to hold it all.
I don't have to hold it all.
Tapping on the collarbone.
I release the pressure to be okay.
I release the pressure to be okay.
Tapping under the arm.
I am allowed to feel this.
I am allowed to feel this.
Tapping on the top of the head.
I don't have to hold it all.
I don't have to hold it all.
Stop tapping.
Take a breath in.
And release it slowly and completely.
We'll move now into the final round of tapping.
Starting with the inner eyebrow.
I come back to calm.
I come back to calm.
Tapping on the side of the eye.
The weave is passing.
The wave is passing.
Tapping under the eye.
I am still here.
I am still here.
Tapping under the nose.
I am fully human,
And that's okay.
I am fully human,
And that's okay.
Tapping on the chin.
I come back to myself.
I come back to myself.
Tapping on the collarbone.
I am doing the best I can.
I am doing the best I can.
Tapping under the arm.
And that is genuinely enough.
And that is genuinely enough.
Tapping on the top of the head.
These feelings tell me something important.
And I can observe them with calm.
These feelings tell me something important,
And I can observe them with calm.
Stop tapping.
Take one long,
Slow breath in.
And let it go.
Completely.
Let your hands rest where they fall.
Let your face soften.
Your jaw relax.
Your shoulders drop.
Let your whole body settle.
Now check back in with that number from 0 to 10.
Where are you now?
Remember,
10 is feeling completely overwhelmed,
Frustrated,
Zero,
Feeling calm,
Balanced,
Relaxed.
Have you noticed a shift?
The wave a little lower.
The edge a little softer.
The grip a little looser.
That is your nervous system beginning to remember that it's safe to soften.
That you can observe your feelings.
And still.
Have a place of calm within you.
Here is something worth remembering on days when the waves come.
Irritability is not a character flaw.
Sudden tears are not weakness.
Overwhelm that arrives without warning is not evidence that something is wrong with you.
It is evidence that you are caring a lot.
That you are going through changes.
That you are human.
That your nervous system has been working very hard and that today you need to notice.
You noticed.
You took the time for yourself.
You did not push through.
You did not dismiss it.
You stopped.
You tapped.
You came back to yourself.
That is not nothing.
That is everything.
The wave came,
And you rode it,
And you are still here.
You can repeat this as often as you need to.
And each time.
I hope you find a place of greater calm within.
Thank you for joining me today.
It took courage.
And I wish you peace.