Begin with a few deep breaths,
Breathe in through your nose and slowly exhale through your mouth.
Let your shoulders drop,
Let your jaw unclench.
Let yourself land right here.
This is your space to rest.
You're allowed to feel how you feel,
Even the hard parts,
Even the messy parts,
Even the moments you think,
I can't do this today.
You're not alone in this,
Today might have tested every ounce of patience in your body.
Maybe the crying didn't stop,
Maybe the mess piled up,
Maybe you snapped,
Even when you swore you wouldn't.
And maybe right now,
You're holding on to guilt,
Feeling like you're not doing enough or being enough.
Let's pause here,
Hand on your heart,
Whisper gently to yourself,
I am doing my best.
I am doing my best.
I am doing my best.
Even when you're overwhelmed,
Even when you don't have the answers,
Even when you wish you showed up differently,
You are still a good mother,
A loving mother,
A human mother.
Inhale,
I honor my effort.
Exhale,
I release unrealistic expectations.
There is no perfect version of you that you need to become.
There is only the real you,
Tired,
Tender,
And still showing up.
You are allowed to rest without guilt.
You are allowed to feel frustration without shame.
You are allowed to ask for help.
You are allowed to not enjoy every moment.
Let's try something together.
Inhale,
I am enough in this moment.
Exhale,
My love is felt even when I fall apart.
You're holding so much and somehow,
Even on your hardest days,
You love through it all.
That matters more than you know.
Let yourself breathe here.
Let yourself be softened by compassion,
Not because everything is okay,
But because you are still worthy,
Right in the middle of the heart.
Inhale,
I give myself grace.
Exhale,
I am human and I am held.
Now gently say,
I forgive myself for the moments I judged myself.
I choose kindness over perfection.
I let myself be real.
You are doing so much and who you are is already more than enough.
Let yourself sit in the softness a little longer.
Breathe it in.
Let it settle into your bones.
You don't have to fix or change anything right now.
Just be here,
Breathing,
Remembering that even on the hard days,
Especially on the hard days,
You are still worthy of love.