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Empathy And Sympathy: When To Embody Which

by Gertrud Tavernier

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Meditation
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Empathy and Sympathy are two beautiful expressions of human compassion. They are both powerful and equally worthy yet it can be valuable to understand the difference between both and to be able to consciously discern when to extend which within our human interactions. In this meditation, we let our bodies and subconscious explore what they each mean and how we can wisely choose one of them depending on the situation. I invite you to also listen to the talk on Empathy & Sympathy to have a deeper mental understanding of both.

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Transcript

Welcome!

Today we'll delve deeper into our inner world,

Exploring the dance between empathy and sympathy.

Find your peaceful nook where you can sit or lie in comfort and let's begin this heartful journey.

Gently close your eyes,

Take a deep nourishing breath.

Inhale tranquility and exhale any tension.

Feel your body relaxing,

Each breath inviting more calmness.

Visualize roots growing from your body into the earth,

Grounding you in this moment,

Connecting you with the nurturing energy of Mother Nature.

Now let your heart space open to the essence of empathy.

Envision empathy as a radiant golden light within your heart,

Pulsing softly.

This light represents your ability to deeply connect with others,

To truly walk in their shoes.

With each heartbeat let this radiant golden light in your heart expand beyond,

Filling your total being with compassion and understanding.

Reflect on a moment when you felt deeply connected to someone else's experience.

Remember how it felt to share their emotional journey,

To truly understand their perspective.

Feel the warmth of this connection,

The bridge of human experience.

Now shift your focus gently to sympathy.

Picture sympathy as a soothing blue light enveloping you.

This light symbolizes your capacity to offer support,

To be present for others while maintaining your emotional equilibrium.

Feel this comforting blue light that emanates from you like a gentle hug,

Offering kindness and acknowledgement without absorbing the emotions of others.

Imagine extending a supportive word or a compassionate gesture.

Visualize the positive impact of your sympathy on someone's life.

Notice the gentle yet profound touch of this interaction,

Like ripples on a calm lake.

Now in this state of calm and clarity,

Contemplate a delicate balance between empathy and sympathy.

Reflect on situations where deep empathy felt right,

Where sharing someone's emotional world brought healing and connection.

Also acknowledge the times when sympathy was the kinder choice,

Allowing you to offer support without overextending your emotional boundaries.

As you breathe slowly and deeply,

Meditate on the wisdom to discern between these two.

Ask yourself,

When is it healing to fully empathize and when is it wiser to offer sympathy?

Let your intuition guide you.

Listen to the subtle cues of your heart.

As our meditation draws to a close,

Imagine the golden light of empathy and the blue light of sympathy merging within you,

Creating a beautiful spectrum of understanding and compassion.

Breathe in this harmony,

Feeling equipped to navigate the intricate world of human emotions.

Take a few more deep breaths,

Feeling gratitude for this journey of understanding.

When you're ready,

Gently bring some movement back to your body.

And then you can also slowly open your eyes,

Returning to the world enriched with a deeper sense of empathy and sympathy.

Thank you for joining me in this meditative exploration.

I invite you to listen to the talk on empathy and sympathy,

When to embody which,

To clarify and discern between these two ways of being compassionate.

Meet your Teacher

Gertrud TavernierBerlin, Germany

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