If you're listening to this you probably have 47 browser tabs open in your browser and in your brain.
You've been running on adrenaline,
On caffeine,
On the quiet fear that if you actually stop everything will fall apart.
I see you.
I was you.
And for the next few minutes there is nothing to solve,
Nothing to fix,
Nothing to figure out.
There is only this breath and this moment and you.
Find a comfortable position,
Seated or lying down,
Whatever your body is asking for right now.
Let your eyes close,
Soften your gaze towards the floor.
Take one natural breath in and let it go.
Now just notice without fixing anything,
Where are you holding tension right now?
Is it your jaw,
Your shoulders,
Your chest?
Maybe there's a tightness behind your eyes from staring at screens.
Maybe your shoulders have been living somewhere near your ears.
Just notice.
You don't have to do anything with what you find.
We're just arriving.
We're just landing.
You made it here.
That's enough.
We're going to use a breathing pattern called 4-7-8.
It's simple.
Inhale for four counts,
Hold for seven,
And exhale slowly for eight.
This pattern tells your nervous system at a biological level that you are safe,
That the threat has passed,
That you can finally let go.
Let's begin.
Inhale through your nose,
Two,
Three,
Four.
Hold,
Two,
Three,
Four,
Five,
Six,
Seven.
Exhale through your mouth,
Two,
Three,
Four,
Five,
Six,
Seven,
Eight.
Good.
Again.
Inhale,
Two,
Three,
Four.
Hold,
Two,
Three,
Four,
Five,
Six,
Seven.
Exhale,
Two,
Three,
Five,
Six,
Seven,
Eight.
Let your body soften a little more with every exhale.
One more round.
Inhale,
Two,
Three,
Four.
Hold,
Two,
Three,
Four,
Five,
Six,
Seven.
Exhale,
Two,
Three,
Four,
Five,
Six,
Seven,
Eight.
Now,
As you settle into the rhythm,
I want to invite you to imagine something.
Each exhale is a browser tab closing,
Not deleted,
Not lost,
Just closed for now.
Inhale,
Two,
Three,
Four.
Hold,
Two,
Three,
Four,
Five,
Six,
Seven.
Exhale and release one thing you've been carrying for someone else.
Inhale,
Two,
Three,
Four.
Hold,
Two,
Three,
Four,
Five,
Six,
Seven.
Exhale and release.
Inhale,
Two,
Three,
Four.
Hold,
Two,
Three,
Four,
Five,
Six,
Seven.
Exhale and release the version of you that has to have it all together.
She can rest now.
She's done enough today.
Let the counting go now.
Just breathe naturally.
No pattern.
Feel your feet.
Feel the weight of you being held by the floor,
By the chair,
By the earth,
Beneath you.
You don't have to hold yourself together right now.
Something else is holding you.
Breathe.
Just breathe.
I want to offer you something.
Place one hand on your heart and one hand on your belly.
Feel the warmth of your own hands.
This is Reiki.
This is life force energy.
It's already inside you.
It has always been inside you.
And right now I'm sending you this.
May your nervous system remember what peace feels like.
May your body release what your mind has been holding.
May you know at a cellular level that you are safe to slow down.
May you remember that rest is not a reward.
It is your birthright.
Take one more deep breath in.
And on your exhale,
Let your hands fall gently to your sides.
Wiggle your fingers.
Wiggle your toes.
When you're ready,
Let your eyes open slowly.
You just did one thing.
Only one thing.
And it was enough.
I'm Christine J.
Gold,
And this is One Thing at a Time.
Breathwork and nervous system resets for the burned out corporate brain.
If this landed for you,
Follow along for the next session.
Until next time,
One thing at a time.