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Create Radical And Resilient Presence

by Melinda Bernstein

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This guided meditation is for those cultivating steadiness when life feels demanding or uncertain. Through breath and embodied awareness, you practice staying present without bracing, forcing, or withdrawing. This meditation supports a calm, grounded nervous system while strengthening your capacity to remain engaged with what is real. It’s about choosing presence — not perfection — in the middle of lived experience.

MeditationPresenceResilienceBreath AwarenessBody ScanSelf CompassionSelf AcceptanceGroundingRadical PresenceGravity AwarenessEmotional ResilienceExtended Exhale BreathingInner Truth

Transcript

In this space,

There's nothing to fix and nothing to prove.

Your presence is enough,

And I'm glad you're here.

So settle into your seat or into the surface beneath you.

Let your body take its shape without correction.

There's no ideal posture here.

There's only the truth of where you are and how you meet it.

Take a slow inhale,

And let the exhale fall out naturally.

Allow your awareness to catch up with your physical body.

You've arrived.

Now,

Stay.

Presence doesn't ask you to be calm.

It doesn't ask you to rise above your life or soften your edges.

Radical presence asks for one thing.

To stop leaving yourself.

Feel the weight of your body.

Feel gravity doing its work.

Steady,

Loyal,

And unfailing.

Let gravity remind you that you don't have to hold everything up.

As you breathe,

Give yourself permission to drop what you've been clenching.

In your mind.

In your belly.

In the places you never admit are tired.

With every exhale,

The question becomes simpler.

Can I be here without running?

Bring your attention to the spine.

Let it grow tall in the way a tree grows.

Not by trying,

But by remembering its direction.

Feel the back of the heart.

The place so often armored.

Let it ease.

Bring awareness into the jaw.

The throat.

The shoulders.

Notice the places that still believe they must stay braced.

Don't try to force them open,

Just witness them.

Resilience grows in an environment of honesty,

Not pressure.

Now soften the abdomen.

Your belly carries histories you rarely speak of.

Let the breath touch those stories without fear.

Inhale.

And exhale.

And let the breath move with a little more courage each time.

Within you,

There are chapters that didn't get applause.

Times you held the world together quietly.

Times you endured without witness.

Acknowledge them now.

You don't need to relive them.

Just honor the truth.

You continued.

Even when continuation felt impossible.

Let your breath meet these places.

Let the exhale carry away the expectation that you must still operate from those old survival postures.

Say internally,

I am here.

I am not broken.

I am willing to witness my own survival.

This is strength.

This is resilience.

Unpolished,

Unromantic,

And real.

Begin a slower pattern of breath.

Inhale for four counts.

Hold for one.

And exhale for six.

Longer exhales activate the part of the nervous system that remembers safety.

Let's do that again.

Inhale for four counts.

Hold for one.

And exhale for six.

If emotions rise,

Let them.

If nothing rises,

Let that be true as well.

Radical presence makes room for whatever is actually here.

Not what you wish were here.

With each breath,

Your teeth begin to open.

I am reaching the body.

Nothing is chasing me in this moment.

I am allowed to soften my vigilance.

Now widen your awareness.

Instead of focusing on one point,

Let your attention rest on the whole field of sensation.

The air on your skin.

The gentle pulse under your ribs.

The weight in your hips or legs.

Notice how much aliveness exists without your involvement.

Presence is not effort.

Presence is allowing.

Allow yourself to feel the room without interpreting it.

Allow the breath to move without managing it.

This is radical because it interrupts the automatic need to control.

This is resilient because it roots you in what is real,

Not imagined.

Bring attention to the center of your chest.

Not the emotional heart,

But the inner chamber where your truth lives without performance.

Silence is not empty here.

It's full of intelligence.

Ask inwardly,

What do you need today?

Don't hunt for an answer.

Truth that's hunted hides itself.

Let what arises come from the deeper layer,

Not the anxious mind,

Not the self-critic,

Not the conditioned persona,

But from the self that never lets go.

Even when you did.

What emerges may be a word,

A sensation,

An image,

Or simply a knowing.

Whatever comes,

Meet it without negotiation or apology.

This moment,

This clarity,

Is resilience in action.

Let your breath return to its natural rhythm.

Notice the body as it is now.

Maybe steadier,

Maybe softer,

Maybe unchanged.

Radical presence doesn't promise transformation on demand.

It promises reality,

The ground you build from,

And the truth you stand on.

Say internally,

I do not abandon myself.

I stay with myself.

This moment is enough for me to begin again.

Feel the weight of those words.

Feel how they land inside you.

Staying is the bravest act.

Returning to yourself is the most resilient one.

Place a hand on your chest or your abdomen.

Take one final slow breath in.

And release.

When you're ready,

Open your eyes,

Not into a different world,

But into the same world you now meet with more presence,

More truth,

And more steadiness.

Meet your Teacher

Melinda BernsteinDavie, FL, USA

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