Coping with Grief,
A guided meditation to soothe your heart with Angelica Janic.
Welcome to this guided meditation.
This meditation is designed to help you navigate the difficult emotions that come with loss and provide you with a safe and peaceful space to process your grief.
Let us begin by finding a quiet and comfortable place to sit or lie down.
Take your time gathering any props or even blankets to bring your body in a comfortable position.
A position that you could maintain for 15 to 20 minutes.
When you are comfortable and prepared to begin,
Slowly allow the eyes to come to a close.
Take a deep breath in,
Exhaling slowly,
Letting go of any tension in your physical body that you are currently aware of.
Again,
Take a deep breath in,
Exhaling slowly,
Allowing yourself to sink into a deeper state of relaxation.
Letting the thoughts and worries of the day fade away.
Now I invite you to bring to mind a person,
Animal,
Or thing that you have lost.
It could be someone close to you,
A pet,
Job,
Or even a dream.
Allow yourself to feel whatever emotions that arise.
It's okay if it's painful or difficult.
Remember that you are in a safe and supported space here.
As you continue to focus,
Notice where in your body you feel the grief.
It could be tension in the chest,
A lump in your throat,
Or a heaviness in your stomach.
Without judgment,
Simply observe these sensations and breathe into them.
Now imagine a warm and soothing light enter your body through the top of your head.
This light is filled with love and compassion and is here to help you heal.
As you breathe in,
Imagine this light filling up your entire body.
And as you exhale,
Release any tension or pain.
Each day,
The level and waves of grief will be different.
Be patient as this emotion too will pass.
Like all emotions,
They are temporary,
Creating distance to be able to breathe more fully and with a sense of ease.
Now,
As you continue to breathe in this light,
Imagine these memories begin to fade away.
The memories of pain and suffering.
Visualize this light moving into the areas of your body where you feel the most grief.
Allow it to surround the area with warmth and comfort,
Soothing away any discomfort or pain.
Breathing deeply,
And feel the energy of the light healing all parts of your being As the memory transforms into a state of deep gratitude,
Acceptance,
Forgiveness,
And unconditional love and compassion.
Allow yourself to feel a sense of peace and calm.
Know that your loved one or the thing that you have lost will always be a part of you.
And that deep down,
From the essence of their being,
They want you to find happiness and joy.
You are going to be ok.
Deepen your breath and allow the emotions to have an outlet as you slowly release the grief through every cell of the body,
Being able to heal.
Feel the light start to embrace your entire being,
Your body,
Mind,
Soul.
As if you are receiving a beautiful hug from this person,
Animal,
Or thing.
There is growth right here.
As a caterpillar transforms into a butterfly,
Give yourself time in this cocoon of safety to be able to fully integrate,
Heal,
And move forward with a new understanding and eyes,
Taking that moment to express your gratitude for the time that you shared with this person,
Animal,
Or thing,
Thanking them from the bottom of your heart for the love and support they brought into your life.
They will always be there in your heart and mind.
Bring your attention back to the quality of your breath.
Describe your breath.
Is it slow and rhythmic?
Does it feel a bit bumpy and jagged?
Is it shallow and short?
Through just the awareness and attention,
Naturally your breath will find its rhythm again.
Slow,
Deep,
Rhythmic,
Observing the rise and fall of your belly.
As your body maintains its relaxation,
Allow the breath to journey its way toward the lower lungs on your next inhale.
And then allow the breath to continue to fill from belly,
Lower,
To mid lungs.
And finally,
Inhale to the belly,
Lower lungs,
Mid to upper chest,
Full body breath.
Continue this breath as you scan from the crown of the head to the tips of the toes.
Allowing this breath to bring a sense of energy back into your body without moving your body.
Feel a renewed sense.
Only a few more breaths now.
As we slowly come to the end of this meditation,
Taking those mindful deep breaths in,
Continuing to practice on exhaling slowly,
With appreciation for every breath that you take.
Know that you can return to this place of peace and comfort any time you may need.
This sense of calm.
Hold onto it as you continue to go about the rest of your day.
It may come in waves.
Waves of sadness,
Acceptance,
Back to calm.
And that's okay.
Try not to control.
Just allow it to be.
Allow it to rise.
Allow it to fall.
Each day will get better and better.
When you are ready,
You may slowly begin to open your eyes,
Gently wiggle your toes and the fingertips.
Take any stretches with your body that you may need or maintain that sense of stillness.
May you find peace and healing in your journey through this grief.
Three more mindful breaths to close your meditation today.