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Becoming Friends With Ourselves

by Stefani León

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Hello, beautiful being and welcome to today's practice. So often we ask others what they need from us. We show up for others and we are great friends to so many of our loved ones. However, we can tend to forget that friendship with ourselves is also important. Today, I would like to guide you in approaching yourself as a friend and asking, "what do I need?" All my love, Stefani

Self InquirySelf CompassionEmotional AwarenessSelf AcceptanceAffirmationsInner ChildHeart CenteredNatureNature ConnectionInner Child Visualizations

Transcript

Hello beautiful being.

I am so happy and grateful to be here with you today.

I would like to ask you a very important question.

How are you?

How is your beautiful earth doing today?

How is your human in this moment?

Is there discomfort?

Is there joy?

Is there pain?

Both physical and emotional?

Is there acceptance?

Are you aware of your divine power today?

I have recently been trying to understand why I sometimes forget to ask myself,

How are you?

What do you need?

What can I do for you?

So often we ask this question of our loved ones,

Of the people we work with,

Of strangers we pass through our daily life,

Of our daily tasks.

We so often want to show up for others that we forget to also show up for ourselves.

We so often want to befriend others and though this is beautiful,

We forget to make friends with who we are as well.

We gaze out at the sun setting and marvel at the paintings in the sky.

We look up at the stars at night and smile at their ancient wisdom.

We embrace our partners,

Our family,

Our friends with an immense respect and gratitude.

So many of us see the beauty of this earth around us and forget that we are that too.

I know we are not alone in this.

So today I wanted to guide us all in a meditation in hopes that I can guide us into becoming friends with ourselves.

As I guide you through this today,

I want to remind you that this is a safe space to be in the rubble,

To be yourself in all that you are or may be feeling.

We are going to start by sitting up or laying down in our comfortable place to practice.

Go ahead and close your eyes as we go on this journey.

We are going to take a deep breath in and out and one more and out.

If you need extra mindful breaths today,

Go ahead and do that now.

I would like you to bring forth an image of yourself,

Any image of yourself you may choose.

Perhaps it is the present you,

Perhaps it is a child like you,

Maybe it is a you that has been suffering or a you that has been unkind to yourself and maybe it is even a you that you love.

This practice can work for any of them today.

Just whatever image you feel needs your love and friendship right now.

As this image arrives into your awareness,

You may feel an array of emotions,

Be it fear,

Loneliness,

Sadness,

Grief,

Anger or joy.

Let those be here.

Let those be.

Now I would like you to place your hand over your heart and sit in this space with that image.

Ask them,

What do you need?

How can I help you today?

How can I show up for you?

I'm going to give you some time to reflect and be with yourself now.

Sometimes what we need is not a new life,

But it is a moment to breathe.

Sometimes it is a warm bath or an entire day to burrow in the comfort of our bed and cry.

To honor the feelings we no longer need to keep confined.

Sometimes it is treating ourselves to a coffee or a tea at our favorite shop.

Maybe a walk in nature,

A sunset to remind us of the divine rotation of the planet that holds us.

Sometimes we just need to ask as a friend does,

What do I need?

Now I would like you to wrap yourself in your arms and give yourself the hug you may be needing.

While holding yourself in your safety,

I would like you to give yourself some words of love.

I believe in you.

I believe that you are doing great things.

I am proud of you.

I am proud of the journey you have been on.

The journey you are approaching.

I am listening.

I am here to listen to what you need.

I am here to give you the moment,

The day,

The love that you need.

I am giving you permission to be whatever you need to be today.

I am the earth changing and ending and beginning.

I am all but alone.

Today,

I am the earth changing and ending and beginning.

I am all but alone.

Today,

You opened your eyes to the world and came to sit with yourself,

To sit with your nature,

That one with the earth.

Today,

You came to make friends with yourself and listen to what you need.

May you never forget what a gift this is to give to yourself.

May you remember this love today and always.

All my love.

Meet your Teacher

Stefani LeónSeattle, WA, United States

4.7 (302)

Recent Reviews

Angie

September 14, 2025

Relaxing and so chilled

Dana

April 3, 2025

Thank you🙏🏽☀️🙏🏽

Pamela

August 4, 2023

Thank you for taking me back to the young beautiful innocent girl, who still lives Within me. I actually cried when I saw her and realized how important things were to remember before so much tragedy came into her life. I understand so much more about myself and need to love her as only I know what she needs. Namaste ❤☮

Chris

June 13, 2023

Amazing 👏

Nikole

February 14, 2023

I really enjoyed this meditation. Thank you and I see you✨

Lethabo

July 15, 2022

Beautiful🤍

Liddy

March 30, 2022

Perfect for today and thank you so much for helping us out with this wonderful gift

DeltaErin

March 16, 2022

Such a beautiful loving meditation. Thank you Stefani 🙏😊

Lisa

February 22, 2022

Thank you for helping me bring love to myself. 🙏💖

Lisa

January 30, 2022

Such true and beautiful words thank you!

Hailey

July 12, 2021

A moving start or end to one’s day.. you reflect on the energy being relinquished from one’s self; and the way back to your heart to replenish it. Thank you for all your kind words and endless light. ❤️

Mike

May 16, 2021

Really great and enjoyable relaxation

Francesca

May 14, 2021

Lovely, thank you 🙏

Lee

May 14, 2021

🙏🦋💖

Beth

May 14, 2021

Nice! Be good to yourself so you can be good to others. Thank you.

Danielle

May 14, 2021

This was a short, sweet, incredibly moving experience. I really needed to speak with that version of myself. Thank you for the guidance! ❤

Julie

May 14, 2021

So lovely and helpful.

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