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Attract Loving Relationships

by Lauren Archer

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No matter where you are in life, whatever your age or circumstances, your past relationships, or your current situation, if you want to love and be loved, you can attract a beautiful, harmonious relationship. We live in a universe where our energetic vibration attracts (or repels) people. If we want more love, happiness, and peace, it all begins inside! As within, so without. This guided journey is designed to help you align your mind, body, emotions, and spirit to bring in the kind of loving relationship you dream of. Background music by Christopher Lloyd Clark.

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Transcript

Congratulations on setting your intention to attract a healthy,

Loving relationship.

My name is Lauren Archer and I'm honored to be your guide on this inner journey.

No matter where you are in your life,

Whatever your age or circumstances,

Your past relationships or current situation,

If you want to love and be loved,

You can attract a beautiful,

Harmonious relationship.

Bringing more love into your life doesn't just enrich your world,

It spreads more love into our world and enhances the lives of everyone around us.

We live in a universe where our energetic vibration attracts or repels people.

If we want more love,

Happiness and peace,

It all begins inside.

As within,

So without.

This guided journey is designed to help you align your mind,

Body,

Emotions and spirit to bring in the kind of loving relationship you dream of.

Unlike other programs that focus on what you want in a partner,

We're going to focus on who you want to be in a loving relationship and the quality of love you want to give and receive.

We won't be focusing on superficial things like how your partner should look or what they should earn.

After all,

You wouldn't want someone putting those conditions on you.

Instead,

We'll focus on the quality of the relationship itself and most importantly,

On how good it feels to give and receive love in a safe and healthy way.

Of course,

The most important relationship you have in this world is the one you have with yourself.

And so we'll begin by helping you break free from old beliefs about yourself,

Clearing any blocks in your energy field that might be holding you back from accepting and receiving as much love as your heart truly desires.

By tapping into your subconscious where core beliefs reside,

We'll gently help you let go of old patterns and behaviors that may not serve you in fulfilling your desires.

The result?

You'll likely feel more relief,

Contentment,

Joy,

Respect,

Fulfillment and a deep sense of peace.

We attract people who are like ourselves,

So let's focus on elevating your energy and being the kind of loving partner that you want to be.

It's okay to relax and trust that you are love,

You deserve love,

And you're here to give and receive love.

You may find yourself becoming a magnet for love,

Joy,

And light,

Drawing in those whose energy aligns with yours.

During this listening session,

We'll focus on amplifying the best parts of you and how good you feel when you're expressing the most loving aspects of your being.

Throughout this journey,

We'll explore five essential phases of attracting a loving relationship.

Phase one is creating a safe space within you,

Releasing past hurts so you can fully receive love and affection.

Phase two is embracing the unknown,

Opening up to curiosity,

Wonder,

And infinite possibilities.

Phase three is becoming a loving partner,

Allowing love to flow through every part of you.

Phase four is envisioning your loving future,

Enjoying yourself,

Giving and receiving an abundance of love.

Phase five is sharing love with the world,

Becoming a source of love and blessings not only for yourself and your partner,

But for everyone around you.

As you listen to the sound of my voice and the gentle music in the background,

You can ignore any distracting sounds,

Perhaps even allowing them to help you relax more deeply.

Find a comfortable position where you can surrender into a peaceful place within.

Let's begin by inviting relaxation to flow through your body.

Let your eyes close softly,

Taking a full,

Deep breath and exhaling slowly and completely,

Placing your attention gently towards your heart,

Breathing in relaxation and calm,

And breathing out any tension or stress.

Now if you'd like,

You can envision a warm,

Gentle wave of relaxation,

Starting at the top of your head,

Slowly cascading down throughout your body,

Washing away any tension or stress it encounters.

Feel this wave of relaxation soothing and comforting every muscle as you let yourself relax and let go.

Taking in another nice,

Deep breath,

You can direct your attention now to the center of your chest,

Tuning in to the wisdom of your heart.

You may even sense a soft,

Radiant light glowing in the center of your chest.

This light represents the pure,

Boundless love that already lives inside your heart.

With each breath,

You can sense this light expanding,

Growing brighter and warmer,

Spreading throughout your entire being.

You can give yourself permission to experience an inner smile,

And in a moment I'm going to count backwards from 10 to 1.

With each number,

You can let yourself drift further and further into a state of tranquility.

Number 10,

Feeling more serene and at peace.

Number 9,

Deeper and deeper with each breath you take.

Number 8,

Allowing your body to completely let go and relax.

Number 7,

Every muscle,

Every nerve becoming loose,

Limp and relaxed.

Number 6,

Sinking into a blissful state of calmness.

Number 5,

Feeling weightless and so relaxed.

Number 4,

Your mind becoming clearer and quieter.

Number 3,

Deeper and deeper into a state of relaxation.

Number 2,

Embracing this soothing sensation.

And number 1,

Fully relaxed,

Fully at ease.

And from this deep inner state,

You have the power to release and shed any limiting beliefs or heaviness from the past.

Take a moment now to scan your physical body.

Notice any areas that may be holding on to any residual tightness,

Tension or worry.

These might be places where past hurts or resentments have taken root in your cellular memory.

Regardless of where they came from,

You now have the ability to let these feelings soften,

Dissolve and gently shift.

Feel yourself becoming lighter with each breath as if a weight is being gently lifted off your shoulders.

You may get a sense that any worries and fears from the past are becoming like wisps of clouds or mist around you.

As these clouds disperse,

You may see or feel a gentle light washing over you,

Bathing you in soothing calm and comfort.

This gentle light clears away any lingering shadows from the past,

Leaving behind a peaceful,

Spacious feeling within you,

Allowing yourself to fully embrace this lighter,

Freer sensation,

Ready to welcome more love and connection into your being.

You may hear your own inner voice affirming this shift inside of you.

The past is gone and has no power over me.

I am safe here and now.

I am open and receptive to love.

I am worthy of healthy relationships.

And now in this present moment,

Notice how good it feels to know that you're safe and protected,

Connected to the infinite loving energy flowing through you.

Give yourself permission right here,

Right now,

To soak in the feeling of warm,

Loving connection with this life force,

The source within you.

From now on,

You are making the choice to experience and express more love,

And that shift is already happening inside of you.

You can also release any concerns about the future.

The future is filled with infinite possibilities.

It's okay not to have all the answers.

It's safe to trust the unknown.

Right now,

You are creating a space within you that is receptive to love,

Affection,

Connection,

Openness,

Trust,

And playfulness.

Notice how good it feels to simply bask in this space of openness,

Curiosity,

And wonder.

Now that you have released the past,

You are automatically making room for a beautiful,

Healthy relationship in your life.

You may notice other ways in the days and weeks to come that you can create space and time to prepare yourself to be in a relationship.

In addition to the space in your heart,

Perhaps you can make space on your calendar,

Or maybe space in your home.

Now from this calm and peaceful place within,

Imagine stepping beyond time and space,

Entering a magical place where anything is possible,

Where there's no limit to what can happen.

Here,

You're surrounded by the love and warmth of the universe.

Take a moment now to rest in this quiet space.

In this place of infinite possibility and potential,

It's okay not to know exactly what's ahead.

It's like you're letting go of trying to figure everything out,

And just trusting that things will work out okay.

Take a moment to appreciate how freeing it feels to let go of needing to know everything,

And to trust that things will unfold just as they're meant to.

You may hear yourself reflecting on this sense of trust,

Hearing yourself say,

I'm okay with not knowing everything.

I'm open to all the good things coming my way.

I trust that my ideal relationship is already unfolding in divine timing.

I am open and receptive to the love that is finding its way to me.

The universe is orchestrating the perfect circumstances for me to meet my ideal partner.

I'm grateful for the loving connection that already exists between us.

I confidently step into the belief that my beloved is seeking me too.

I am deserving of a loving relationship and welcome it into my life.

I am ready to embrace and cherish the beautiful love that awaits me.

Feel how nice it is not to have to worry or figure things out,

Just resting in this moment of peace and possibilities.

Embrace this feeling of freedom,

Knowing that within this openness lies the space for wonderful things to happen.

And now let's focus on becoming a loving partner.

From this quiet space within,

You can imagine a warm glowing light once again at the center of your chest,

Expanding with each breath,

Radiating love in all directions.

Feel the love you already have inside of you.

You are connected with a deep wellspring of infinite love.

You have so much love to share,

To give out to the world.

You've got all the love you need right here inside of you.

You are filled with love and that's enough.

There's nothing to prove,

No standards to reach,

Nothing to perfect.

It's okay to have flaws and feel vulnerable.

Others do too,

As you give yourself permission to love yourself even with your human imperfections and vulnerabilities.

It expands your capacity to be even more loving to others.

Become aware of your heart right now,

Feel how good it feels to connect with this love that you have within.

Your heart is like a shining star,

A beacon of light,

Shining with love,

Even when no one sees it.

Your love is infinite and expansive.

Feel that warm feeling inside of you.

Notice how it feels when you let that love out.

It's like a happy,

Full feeling in your chest.

Become aware of the sensations inside you as you allow your light to shine,

As you allow your love to express so fully and deeply.

You may even envision a radiant aura of love surrounding you,

Extending beyond your physical body,

Creating a comforting and welcoming space for love to enter.

It's good to know that science has revealed that your heart produces an electromagnetic field which emits invisible vibrations that radiate outward in all directions and can be measured beyond the physical body.

These electromagnetic vibrations transcend time and space,

They are invisible signals that can be received by others even now.

Who are also in harmonic resonance with who you are.

This world is filled with people who are loving and kind.

And as you tune in to the love inside of you,

Other people can tune in to that positive energy.

And your ideal partner is out there looking for you too.

Even now,

The universe is organizing the events in your life to bring you together.

Your hearts are like magnets,

Attracting each other,

Drawing one another closer together.

The universe is orchestrating the right circumstances for you to meet.

Everything is unfolding in exactly the right timing.

Your ideal partner is looking for someone just like you.

And the universe is arranging things for you to meet,

And it's happening right now.

Let's take a moment to give thanks in advance for the magical way the universe is arranging things right now.

You can trust that everything is happening at just the right time.

Your loving relationship already exists right now.

You can know and trust that your hearts are already connected.

As you continue to relax and soak in this tranquil state,

You may notice your inner voice confidently affirming your worth and readiness for love.

You may hear yourself saying,

I am filled with infinite love and kindness.

My imperfections make me beautifully human and I embrace them.

I radiate love from the depths of my heart.

My love is a precious gift and I share it generously.

I am open to giving and receiving love in its purest form.

My heart is a beacon,

Attracting a loving and harmonious relationship.

I trust the universe to guide me towards a fulfilling and loving connection.

I am worthy of a loving,

Caring,

And supportive relationship.

Love flows through me,

Bringing joy,

Harmony,

And fulfillment.

Every day,

More and more,

You are tuning into the vibration of love within you,

And you can enjoy how good that feels,

Knowing that your beloved is tuning into your signal and your right relationship is on its way.

Let's take a moment now to step into the future,

Stepping into a future where you are enjoying this journey,

Taking things one step at a time,

Meeting wonderful people,

Having fun,

And embracing the present moment.

You feel calm,

Attentive,

And in tune with your heart,

Following your intuition.

You are attracting a relationship that is honest,

Respectful,

And pure,

And there's no need to settle for anything less.

You may notice how easy it is to set healthy boundaries.

You are someone who treats others respectfully,

And you appreciate people who treat you with respect.

Somehow it's easier than ever before to say no thank you to people and relationships that don't align with your values.

You are patient and trust the process.

You are listening to your inner guidance.

And now,

Let's notice the feeling as you connect with your special person.

Notice how you can sense a harmonic resonance,

A familiarity with the loving vibration in each of your hearts.

You may notice certain feelings in your body.

You may feel a heightened energy of joy and anticipation for the wonderful relationship that is unfolding.

You may feel your heart expanding,

Filling up to its fullest capacity.

You may feel a sense of calm comfort.

You can enjoy these feelings with gratitude and appreciation as you take your time,

Getting to know each other,

And staying in the present moment.

Notice how good it feels to give yourself permission to open up and be vulnerable,

Sharing an intimate connection,

Body,

Mind,

Heart,

And soul.

You have created a space where you both can feel safe and supported,

Free to be who you truly are.

And you can know that no matter what happens,

You can appreciate the beautiful connection you have in this moment.

Somehow,

Someway,

You don't feel any need to cling or to hold on.

It's as if you're floating down a gentle river,

Allowing the currents to guide you effortlessly without needing to grasp onto the banks.

You are safe to be yourself,

Authentically you.

You are loving and lovable.

You are good and valuable and worthy and deserving.

You can relax and notice how good it feels to be sharing time together,

Getting to know each other,

Listening,

Learning,

Exploring the world through new eyes together as a couple,

Supporting each other to be the best version of yourselves,

Encouraging each other,

Smiling together,

Laughing together.

You may notice that you can sense in your body how good that feels.

You may hear a quiet reassurance from within,

Affirming the value of your relationship.

It may sound something like,

We support each other in becoming the best versions of ourselves.

We communicate openly and honestly,

Listening and understanding each other.

Together we create a safe and nurturing environment.

Our connection grows stronger with each passing day.

We embrace each other's differences and celebrate our uniqueness.

Our relationship is built on trust,

Honesty and mutual respect.

We stand together facing challenges as a united loving team.

Your love is a source of strength,

Bringing us closer every day.

And now I invite you to bask in the joy of being together as a couple,

Sensing the things that you are doing and sharing your love with the world.

Perhaps you're holding hands,

Sitting close,

Embracing.

You can sense how good it feels to share experiences,

The laughter,

The little adventures,

The warmth of companionship.

Notice the ease and comfort,

Feeling no need to impress,

As trust and respect flow effortlessly between you.

You share open conversations,

Communicating your thoughts and honoring your agreements,

Remembering that you are standing united as a team.

Together you create an energy that is greater than individual parts.

You synergize,

Working as a unit towards shared goals,

Radiating love and kindness into the world.

Your relationship becomes like a beacon of light,

Enriching your community with care and generosity.

Friends and family,

Notice the genuine happiness and fulfillment radiating from you both.

You may hear yourselves reflect,

Our love radiates positivity and touches the lives of those around us.

As we nurture our relationship,

We inspire love and joy in others.

Together we amplify kindness and generosity.

Our love story inspires others to believe in the power of genuine connections.

With our love we contribute to a more loving and empathic world.

We embrace our role in creating a more loving and compassionate community.

You can trust that the universe continues to guide you and your partner toward a satisfying and fulfilling life path.

You are led to the right places and you can continue to anticipate even more delightful surprises ahead.

And now feeling this sense of love and fulfillment within,

You can know that the changes you've set out to make have already taken root.

Your loving relationship already exists in the realms of your heart and soul,

And you can confidently await its perfect timing in your reality.

Release the excitement and joy of anticipating this beautiful union.

Give thanks for the abundance of love and blessings flowing your way.

Release any attachment to timing or outcome,

Trusting that the universe is orchestrating the ideal timing and circumstances.

As within,

So without,

And you are creating an even more aligned,

Peaceful,

And loving environment within yourself.

Thank you for allowing me to guide you on this journey,

Holding space for you to be the beacon of love and light that you already are.

In a moment,

I'm going to count forward once again from 1 to 10.

On each number,

You can let yourself gradually return to full awareness.

If it's your normal time to fall asleep,

You can simply ignore the suggestions to awaken and instead drift into a deep,

Restful,

Restorative sleep.

Tonight and every night,

You can allow all of these ideas,

Thoughts,

And suggestions to be planted like seeds deep in the fertile soil of your soul.

When you do return to full awareness,

You'll feel awake,

Alert,

And filled with a renewed sense of hope and enthusiasm for all of the possibilities in store for you.

Now,

Gently coming back with a number 1.

Number 2,

Feeling more awake and alert.

Number 3,

Bringing your awareness back to the present.

Number 4,

Taking a deep breath in.

Number 5,

Feeling energized and refreshed.

Number 6,

Becoming more aware of your surroundings.

Number 7,

Feeling peaceful and harmonious.

Number 8,

Almost there now.

Number 9,

Rejuvenated and ready to embrace your day.

And number 10,

Eyes open,

Fully awake,

Feeling wonderful.

Meet your Teacher

Lauren ArcherSeattle, WA, USA

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Recent Reviews

Marie

December 11, 2025

This was wonderful! Really resonated with me! Thanks πŸ™

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November 25, 2025

Sublime experience Thank you for sharing your experience with me Namaste πŸ™ ❀️

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November 16, 2025

Lovely meditation, very nice calming voice with excellent advice. Thank you πŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’š

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March 3, 2025

Beautiful voice, and my cat LOVED this meditation too!

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February 22, 2025

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