
Preparing You For Divorce- For Peaceful Endings
by Kim Shelar
Divorce for long has been a word that brings up so much anxiety. In this session, you will receive the protection of your heart and the protection of your Spirit. You will be guided to a place of strength while in softness in approaching this phase of life.
Transcript
So close your eyes.
And I now said the intention that as you step into this phase of change,
Of transition,
That your body,
Mind and soul aligned to its highest optimal level of alignment,
So that everything flows with peace,
With calmness,
With softness,
With respect,
And everything that you desire begins to flow to you very easily.
So with that intention,
I'd like you to take a slow deep breath in now.
And as you exhale,
Relax your lower body onto your chair,
Your sofa,
Your bed,
Wherever you're sitting.
Take a slow deep breath in again.
And as you exhale,
Loosen up your shoulders by gently lifting them up and dropping them behind,
Lifting them up and dropping them behind.
Lifting them up and dropping them behind,
Up and behind.
Take a gentle breath in again.
And as you exhale,
Now,
Relax the muscles around your forehead,
Your cheeks,
Your chin.
I will now count you back from 10 to 1.
And as I count you backwards,
I'd like you to imagine that you are walking down a flight of stairs.
These stairs are staircases that are leading to a beautiful,
Massive creation zone,
Just like the ones we see in the movies,
Where Batman goes to access his cars and his special uniform,
So to say.
So 10,
9,
8,
Deeper and deeper into the zone,
7,
6,
5,
Deeper and deeper,
4,
3,
2,
And 1.
I'd like you to imagine now that you're walking into this beautiful,
Massive store room.
There are so many cars with special abilities.
There are so many bags with special abilities.
And then in the middle,
There's this massive dome.
It's got a massive glass.
And that glass is so beautifully created that it can take,
It can withstand lightning.
It can withstand thunder.
It can withstand laser.
It can withstand any sort of so-called damage that ever was.
I'd like you to walk towards the dome and begin to take the stairs leading to the dome,
To the entrance.
As you get closer to the entrance of the dome,
You click on the button there.
There's so many buttons,
But you click on the one that opens it and you step inside of it.
As you step into that dome,
You notice that there's a jacket that gets placed on you,
Holding you firmly,
Warmly,
Gently,
Yet tightly.
That jacket is the protector of your heart.
That jacket is going to hold you,
Take care of you in this phase that you're about to step into.
Take a deep breath in.
And as the jacket rests on your shoulder,
Wrapped around your chest,
I'd like you to fasten the belt on it,
Closing that jacket,
That it holds your heart in its protection,
That nothing can be said to you that will break your spirit.
Nothing can be said around you that will break your heart.
Right in the middle of the jacket is this nice green button.
When you press that button,
The jacket begins to release any hurt,
Any pain that has been caused to you through this relationship and all the people attached to it,
All the situations attached to it.
This jacket at the back also has a green button that when you press it,
It begins to release forgiveness to yourself,
To this person,
To all the other people involved directly or indirectly in this relationship.
I'd like you to press both the green buttons right now,
The front and the back,
And allow your heart that is safely secure in the jacket to receive that healing,
Releasing any hurt said through words,
Said through actions,
Or any hurt through lack of actions,
Through lack of language,
And then setting the button of forgiveness to yourself,
To the other person,
And to all the other people directly or indirectly involved in this relationship.
Take a deep breath in now,
And as you exhale,
Automatically the dome begins to put on a pair of pants on you,
Like tights,
Nice red leather-looking pants,
As if you were a Wonder Woman.
And as the pants fit you so beautifully,
So tight,
And yet not uncomfortable,
Comfortably and tight,
You put the belt on your belly,
It just clicks together.
And as you put that belt,
Your body begins to receive a support.
You hear in a computerized voice,
You are not alone.
That red leather pants holding you snugly is taking your feet in the right direction,
Giving you the spring in your walk,
The strength to get up every morning and face this face with the knowing that you are protected.
You look at the belt,
And the belt has so many tiny little jewels stuck onto it,
An emerald,
A diamond,
A ruby,
A sapphire.
And all of that,
You just gently place your fingers.
And when you do that,
You notice that your pant holds you up straight,
Your back straight,
Your shoulders straight,
Your feet so firmly in the ground,
That no matter what happens in this phase,
You will stand tall,
You will stand firm,
And you will stand protected.
Take a deep breath in now,
And as you exhale,
I'd like you to repeat in your mind or aloud,
I am protected.
I know,
And I said the intention that whatever happens,
Whatever is the result,
It results in the feeling of joy,
Of peace,
And everything that happens with calmness and softness.
And while it takes its process,
I stand firmly,
Confidently in my being.
Take a deep breath in now,
And as you exhale,
Allow now in that dome to begin and come and put sleeves on your hands,
Sleeves in the form of big gloves covering your fingers going right up to your arms,
Beautiful black gloves.
But in this one,
There are special decorations like sequins or Swarovski diamonds.
And you set their intention that with these hands,
My feminine yet strong hands,
Whatever action I take,
Whatever action I'm guided to take,
Will be in softness,
And yet in strength,
Strength of doing the right thing for me,
And for everyone involved.
Softness that while I do the right thing,
I do it with a sense of calm,
Of peace,
And from a space of confidence and not insecurity.
Take a deep breath in.
And as you do that,
I'd like you to look at your hands through your gloves,
Shining away in that Swarovski and that beautiful sequins,
Reminding you that in your strength,
You can still shine your radiance of your feminine spirit.
I'd like you now to bring your attention to your neck and your head.
And now notice that from the dome comes this entire beautiful machine in the form of a helmet,
Not the ones guys wear on a bike,
But a beautiful helmet that looks almost like a crown covering the back of your head,
Covering your neck,
Sitting on the crown of your head,
Like a jewel,
Like a queen.
And as that sits on your head,
You notice that along with that,
Your higher self completely merges into you.
And you hear her voice in your ear saying,
You are not alone.
I'm right here with you.
Whatever happens,
You are protected.
And it is for your highest and best.
As that crown settles in your head,
You notice the dome completely closes,
You hear the clicking of the doors,
That from this moment onwards for this phase,
You are in this uniform,
In this protection,
You are covered,
You are shielded,
You are activated to heal,
To release and to receive peace,
Calm and abundance.
I'd like you to begin walking.
And you notice that this dome closes slowly into forming a little capsule around you,
As if now you are that superhero,
Walking with the crown,
With shielded vest,
With this beautiful hot leather pants,
And the bejeweled gloves.
What a beautiful sight,
The female spirited warrior,
The warrior that is strong,
But also has the softness of a queen.
And I'd like you to take yourself to that portion,
That moment with this person you have in mind,
And bring their energy to your mind.
And let's set the intention.
My intention is not to hurt you.
And if I have,
I offer my forgiveness.
And I offer unconditional love to you.
My intention is that I release any pain that we've caused each other,
Knowingly or unknowingly.
My intention is that from this moment onwards,
You receive peace and calm,
And I receive peace and calm,
This or something better.
Take a deep breath in.
And as you exhale,
I'd like you to continue to communicate with this energy,
Making your intention for whatever is it that you might want,
The house,
Certain belongings,
Certain expectations.
I'll give you a moment to set that intention with this person's energy.
And whenever you're done,
Repeat aloud,
This or something better only.
And as you walk away,
You notice that you and mainly your spirit is untouched.
No matter how the conversation goes,
No matter how things turn out,
You're shielding in the super super human uniform that you've created,
And the capsule around you,
Your spirit is never attacked.
Your spirit cannot be broken.
Your heart is protected.
Your feet are guided.
Your crown is always on your hand in your head,
Leading your life,
And your hands are bejeweled so that everywhere you go,
You are still a radiating queen.
Take a deep breath in now.
And as you exhale,
Bring your consciousness back into your room,
Still covered in the capsule of the feminine warrior,
And whenever you're ready,
You can open your eyes.
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Recent Reviews
Nathalie
February 5, 2025
Thank you for this meditation. It’s a challenging time and you’ve made me laugh and sit with my feelings and feel like a powerful compassionate Goddess. Thank you 💕
