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Surrender Control (Fertility/IVF/The Two Week Wait)

by Jess Kavanagh

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For anyone currently struggling to conceive or currently undertaking fertility treatment/IVF/IUI. The 'Two Week Wait' can be a hard, stressful, full of uncertainty and sometimes fear and pain. This practice was created to help you surrender control, release any fears, doubts, worry or tension.

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Transcript

Find a comfortable space to lie down.

Maybe placing a pillow underneath your head.

If you feel more comfortable sitting upright,

That's okay too.

Just find a comfortable position where you can completely relax.

Take some time now to connect inward.

Focusing your energy on nurturing your fertility.

On trusting in your body and connecting with that part of you that longs to be a mother.

Creating space to welcome in that desire.

Begin by taking some slow deep breaths in and out through your nose.

Start to draw your breath down,

Deeper and deeper.

As if you are breathing into your pelvic area.

Allowing each breath you take to nourish your entire body.

Releasing any fears,

Doubts,

Worry or tension with every exhalation.

Allow the breath to move through your body like a gentle wave.

Take a few more slow deep breaths in and out through your nose.

Allowing it to deepen and slow with each inhale and each exhale.

Now bring your hands together,

Palm to palm,

At the front of your body and begin to rub them against one another.

Generating heat,

Creating warm energy between the palms of the hands.

Then take your hands and place them over your hips,

Your ovaries,

Your lower abdomen.

Feeling the warmth spread over these areas.

Continue breathing in and out through your nose.

Keeping your breath slow and steady.

Again,

Rub your hands together creating this warm,

Positive energy and place your hands over your pelvic area.

Directing all the positive energy into this area as you do.

Take a few more slow deep breaths.

Feel your ribcage expand as you inhale and gently contract as you exhale.

Let your belly soften completely,

Feeling it rise and fall with each breath you take.

When you're ready,

Find a comfortable position for your hands.

You may like to leave them resting gently on your belly or it may feel better to have them rest gently by your side.

Take a moment to connect with your heart now.

Breathing into your heart space.

Letting a sense of love and gratitude begin to grow and expand throughout your whole body.

Infusing your body completely with this sense of love and gratitude.

Thanking your body for all that it has done for you.

For supporting you through all that you have been through so far.

Know that you have done all that you can for now.

There is nothing else you need to do during this cycle.

This is the time for you to try and rest and recharge as much as you can.

It is your job now to just simply look after you.

To allow your body and your mind to relax as much as possible.

This period of waiting can sometimes feel stressful.

But try to allow yourself as many moments of peace and relaxation as you can.

Surrender all control and know that whatever comes next is happening for a reason.

Send your focus to your belly now.

Imagine your womb space filling with a warm golden light.

Filling completely with positive,

Nurturing,

Supportive energy.

Imagine more and more positive energy flowing into this area with each breath you take.

Now visualize your embryo safely burying into the lining of your womb.

Visualize the soft,

Thick lining of your womb safely holding and supporting your growing embryo.

Providing all the oxygen and nutrients it needs to develop.

Trust that your body is providing everything it can.

That your body is doing everything it is capable of.

In order to help your embryo nestle safely and to grow and develop as best it can.

The best thing you can do for your body and your mind right now is to rest and relax.

To try to release any worry or tension you are still holding onto.

And to surrender all desire for control.

Allow yourself the next little while to just focus on your breath.

To allow your body and your mind to relax completely.

Let your mind begin to still.

Releasing any internal chatter,

Any distractions.

Just focusing fully on your breath coming in and out through your nose.

Letting yourself sink into stillness.

Sink into silence.

Coming back to the present moment only when you feel ready.

Thank you for watching!

Meet your Teacher

Jess KavanaghGold Coast QLD, Australia

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Recent Reviews

Visage

August 6, 2023

Perfect for pre-sleep relaxation and gratitude for body during this tricky time!

Claudia

August 5, 2023

Thank you. This has helped me slow down and focus on resting and mindfulness whilst the implants occurs.

Kelly

May 16, 2022

Needed this during my 2WW - beautifully guided, inspiring.

Tara

February 21, 2022

Loved this during my 2 week wait post transfer πŸ‘ΆπŸ½ ❀️ πŸ™πŸΌ I appreciate the visualization of golden light and the embryo burrowing intoy wOMb.

Kelly

September 1, 2021

Loved it

Carrie

June 30, 2021

Very peaceful and nurturing, excellent what I wanted and needed…thank you for being so specific with your guidance.

Autumn

March 15, 2021

Wonderful, peaceful and relaxing.

Leah

March 3, 2021

Thank you, this is a wonderful meditation ❀️ This is my first TWW and I’m so glad I found this. Sending positive energy to everyone else here who is also waiting πŸ™

Leigh

February 9, 2021

I really needed this. Thank you so much!

Laura

January 27, 2021

Thank you for this lovely, calming meditation! It is a great reminder of letting go with ease and patience. ❀

Amy

December 18, 2020

Calming voice, gentle reminders to be in the moment. Just what I needed Happy to report I’ve since delivered a healthy baby girl. She is a miracle IVF baby. We had one viable embryo through the whole process, transferred her & now here she is!! Don’t give up!

Erin

December 17, 2020

Just what I needed this morning! Thank you. Will definitely be listening again.

Lexi

November 20, 2020

Love this. Exactly what I need to help relax during the TWW πŸ’—βœ¨πŸ’žπŸ™ŒπŸ½πŸ’žβœ¨πŸ’— thank you!

Karissa

November 9, 2020

Beautiful. πŸ’œβœ¨πŸ’œ

Sara

October 5, 2020

Lovely meditation that really helps you connect with your body and short enough to be able to fit in even on a busy day :-)

Duygu

July 29, 2020

i love this meditation. it relaxed me so much! perfect for when i need to rest πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

Irene

July 21, 2020

Ending was a bit abrupt, but otherwise lovely meditation

Ayam

June 21, 2020

Thank you for this

Liz

May 4, 2020

That was beautiful. Exactly what I needed.

Carolyn

April 22, 2020

My favourite meditation for post transfer/2 week wait. Thank you πŸ™πŸΌ

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