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Tonglen Meditation To Transform Pain Into Compassion

by Ipek Williamson

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Tonglen practice is a particularly helpful one, when you, or someone you know, is facing the heaviness of a painful situation. Instead of shirking away from their pain, or empathizing so deeply that you become overwhelmed, you can practice tonglen to transform the situation into a cause while increasing your compassionate and healing feelings for yourself, your loved ones, and for all beings who are suffering.

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Transcript

Breathe in for all of us and breathe out for all of us.

Pema Chodron Find a comfortable posture that is alert and upright,

But also relaxed and soft.

Allow your eyes to close and bring your full attention into your heart center.

Allow the breath to feel as though it is entering and exiting directly through the heart.

Begin to reflect on all of greed,

Hatred and confusion in this world we live in.

Acknowledge how all beings are suffering on some level or another.

Some are dying of starvation,

Some are dying of obesity,

Some are suffering from oppression,

Some are suffering so much that they are oppressing others.

Turn your heart and mind toward the truth of suffering in this world.

Now begin to breathe in all the suffering in the world that you are aware of.

Allow your heart to open and be filled with the sorrow of the world.

Feel that pain.

Feel the grief.

Feel the sorrow.

Let it all in.

Then let it all out,

Exhaling waves of compassion in all directions.

Send mercy and forgiveness to all living beings,

To the whole world.

Do this over and over,

Breathing in the suffering,

Breathing out compassion,

While I stay quiet for a little while.

Now let's bring in your visualization.

As you breathe in,

Visualize the pain and suffering as heavy and hot.

Breathe in the heat of the world's sorrow,

And as you exhale,

Visualize the mercy and compassion as light and cool.

Breathe out the soothing,

Cool and refreshing intention of compassion.

Continue this hot and cool breathing for a few minutes.

Next,

We come to the personal aspect of the practice,

Bringing to mind the specific situations in your life that are painful.

Breathe into your heart the pain of your life situation,

Feeling it completely,

And breathe out mercy and compassion for yourself.

Over and over,

Inhale suffering,

Exhale compassion,

While I stay quiet.

Begin to expand again.

This time,

Include the people in your life whom you love.

Breathe in the pain and sorrow of your loved ones.

See it as heavy and hot,

And breathe out compassion for their sufferings.

Visualize the out-breath as light and cooling.

Breathe in the sorrow,

Breathe out loving,

Caring,

Compassion,

And keep repeating for a little while.

Now expand to include all the people that you do not already love.

Include the pain and sorrow of the masses and even of your enemies.

Everyone is suffering on one level or another,

Just like you.

Breathing in the suffering of humanity,

Breathing out compassion for humanity.

Breathe in the pain that closes the hearts of our enemies.

Breathe out the compassion that heals the wounds that create the unskillful actions of our enemies.

Work with this level for as long as it takes to begin to mean it.

Eventually,

You will sincerely care for the suffering of all living beings,

Including the most unskillful of your enemies.

Last,

We let go of the personal levels of our lives and of the human realms and expand the practice in all directions to include all forms of life.

Include animals,

Insects,

Birds,

Fish,

And so on.

Breathe in the pain and suffering of all living beings and breathe out compassion and love for all the world.

In heavy and hot,

Out light and cool.

Remember to include yourself in this last section.

You are part of this interconnected web of existence.

Now let go of the visualization and just breathe normally.

Feel your breath and body.

Pay attention to your heart and mind.

And let's close the practice with a simple statement.

May I awaken the compassionate heart for the benefit of all living beings.

Thank you for helping to ease the pain and suffering of our Mother Earth and all sentient beings that live in it.

From my heart to yours,

With all my love and gratitude.

Namaste.

Meet your Teacher

Ipek WilliamsonSarnia, Ontario, Canada

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Recent Reviews

Michele

February 15, 2023

This practice feels very intense and profound. It is something that I feel compelled to continue on a daily basis. Thank you for sharing this meditation, dear Ipek. Sending love and gratitude to you. Namaste🙏🏻💛

Mary

February 7, 2023

Just as powerful as Ipek’s Sunday live session. Once again, I learned something new, Tonglen Meditation. Someone asked if a recording was available and by Wednesday, Ipek made it available for us. Words are not enough to express my gratitude for her. I’ve never met a more sincere person and when she concludes her sessions with, “All my love and gratitude.”, she truly means it. Thank you for all you do for us sweet Ipek. Namaste 🙏🏼♥️

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