Today I'd like to talk about attachment to the outcome.
Attachment to the outcome is,
In my way of looking at it,
Blocking the best possible flow of things unfolding in your life.
You might have a desire,
You might have a certain wish for things to change,
From where you are now to where you want to be as your future self.
So this energetic desire is the first step,
If you hold a vision,
You need to become a match with that.
But if you are attached to the outcome,
You probably are involving your mind,
Your ego in it,
Maybe while noticing or maybe not,
But that can block you from the best possible version of you to unfold.
Furthermore,
It brings in a story,
A story where you are,
That is bringing that attachment.
The story is that it cannot be better,
Or it should be unfolding in a certain direction.
And with that story,
You are blocking the energy to unfold in a way that basically nature decides.
Everything is connected,
So if you make a move,
Everything else moves.
With our minds we cannot grasp it,
We cannot understand how this works.
But I have experienced that at many different levels and I start to see that now as well,
That if you are trying to understand this process with your mind,
You are limiting it as soon as you do that.
And of course we all have been trained to use our minds,
It basically has become a survival mode to think about things,
To schedule it,
To plan it.
I do say that you need inspired action,
But coming from a different place,
Coming from putting yourself in the energy,
Feeling what you need to do,
And the path will unfold itself.
It's becoming a vibrational match,
Without fixing on the outcome.
I think that's the best description for attachment.
You might have noticed in your life that sometimes you just have a desire,
It pops in your mind,
You kind of have it,
Express it,
And then release it,
Never thought about it,
And then it pops up.
The outcome pops up in a very unexpected way,
From sources,
From people that you really even didn't consider being possible,
Because you didn't even consider.
If you are desiring a certain amount of money,
And you can only imagine that it comes from working hard,
You will be stuck in the energy of working hard,
And you do not allow other options to be present in your life,
Or come into your life,
Because you simply cannot even see them.
So this is blocking you.
The same holds true if you want a certain amount of money.
If you are limiting yourself to that amount,
You are blocking other ways of more money,
Or more abundance in many other ways.
You are blocking that stream of energy.
And I know it's not easy,
But as soon as you start feeling that you have a fear that a certain outcome is not possible for you,
Or not being reached,
Or that you start wondering how,
Then you know you are in this,
You are attached to the outcome.
So it's this fine line,
This balanced line,
Where you step into the new version of you,
Becoming a vibrational match,
But don't attach to the outcome,
Only start feeling in the now,
Okay,
What is the first step I can take to move in that direction?
What is opening up the opportunities for this possibility to enter in my life?
And you might do that by giving it a voice,
Expressing what you desire.
That might be an option.
You might start journaling on it,
Like what all the possibilities are that this might come into your life.
And you just start brainstorming.
If you are creative,
Then make something that visualizes it for you,
But that is just being used as bringing energy in motion.
It's not like if you make a vision board for example,
It's not exactly the picture as it is on your vision board.
The vision board should represent the energy,
Without exactly this same thing.
So it's just noticing in your own system,
Are you stuck to that particular picture,
With a sense of fear of missing out,
Fear of not reaching it.
That is something which I would like to bring to you today.
Start noticing where you feel contracted in a fear of not being able to have it or not knowing how,
Because that will be a sign that you are,
Yeah,
That you are attached to the outcome.
